What would it be like to go from working 95 hours/week to 0 in an instant? This week’s guest Paul Hastings is here to tell us about it. The sudden change wasn’t by choice. A tragic health issue forced him to stop cold turkey. In the months of recovery he was able to reconnect with his wife, be present for his young kids, and re-evaluate what was important in life.

Every busy entrepreneur needs to listen to this episode. We never think things like this can happen to us but sometimes our body says something different. Hear how Paul has re-defined success and the steps he’s taken to make sure his business doesn’t consume his life.

Podcast: https://compelledpodcast.com/

More info: https://paulhastings.me/

Key Takeaways

• Worked 95 hours/week and was always willing to take on another client

• Arm stopped working and caused severe pain

• Forced to stop working and bringing in income

• Had daily conversations with his wife during recovery

• He realized he had tunnel vision and lack of boundaries

• Re-defined success and set boundaries to make sure he could be present for his wife and kids

• Makes less money but has more time

• Don’t let business dictate your life

Bio

Paul Hastings is an award-winning podcaster, filmmaker, speaker, and entrepreneur. He is the host of "Compelled", a podcast sharing unique stories about God transforming Christians around the world. His work has been featured by Dr. James Dobson's Family Talk, The Gospel Coalition, Christianity Today, World Magazine, American Family Association, The Christian Post, and more.

Paul, his wife, and their four children live near Austin, Texas and attend Redemption Hill Church.

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According to the 2022 U.S. Census Bureau, a little more than 10% of businesses are run by husband and wife teams. And that number is continuing to grow as more and more couples are realizing they can make more money working together than in separate jobs or businesses.

However, working with your spouse is not as romantic as some may think it is. Neither is it the beginning of a disaster for the relationship like others may feel. Should all couples work together and why do so many fail? Tune into this week’s episode to find out. But what I can tell you is once couples learn how to work together, they make the best team possible. Working with the person you trust the most, who wants you to win as much as you do, and have complementary skills, will take your business to the next level.

Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/

Need to create more time to dedicate to your marriage? Download this free guide. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/boundaries

Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk

Key Takeaways

Work together because

• • It’s romantic

  • Cheaper than hiring an employee

  • One persuades the other to do it

• Some learn to make it work. Others are “been there, done that, never again.”

• Why do they fail? Conflict.

• Don’t take things personal

• Lack of agreement stunts business growth

• Most arguments are a zero sum game

• Me Vs Her

• The word, “US,” was a game changer

• Boundaries between work and home

When you start with nothing to starting, building, and selling off multiple businesses to Fortune 500 companies, you’ve got it made, right? That’s not what this week’s guest, Aaron Walker experienced. Before he reached the age of 30 he had already sold his first company to a Fortune 500 competitor. Even though he had no intention of selling, they made him an offer he couldn’t refuse.

Then tragedy struck. This changed everything for Aaron and sent him on the journey of moving from success to significance.

He is now a living example of how you can prioritize the relationships that matter most and still succeed in business. And he’s helping other men do the same thing through his mastermind groups and retreats. Tune in to this week’s episode as we explore how to make those hard choices so you can prioritize your marriage and family. - You only have one pass in life to do it well.

Sound Bites

"We never learned through success. We only learned through failure and we only learn in the valley."

"The reason I'm such a proponent now for leaving it all on the field. Squeeze every drop out, do everything you can, make every moment intentional, live your life proactive, not reactive, to maximize this awesome thing that we get to do every day."

Check out his mastermind groups and retreats https://www.viewfromthetop.com/isi-mastermind

Key Takeaways:

• Sold first business to a Fortune 500 company at 27

• Tragedy struck that changed everything

• Entrepreneurs think there is a moment when “I’ve arrived.” But it’s only temporary

• Happiness is a choice

• His purpose is to turn ordinary men to extraordinary people

• Develop a support team before you need it. Then you’ll never be alone

• Place guardrails around your life so business doesn’t take over

Bio

For over 45 years, Aaron, has been a small business owner, committed husband, devoted father, and community leader. He got his first taste of real accountability in a business Mastermind group where he developed genuine friendships and grew alongside Dave Ramsey, Dan Miller, Ken Abraham, and others. He currently serves as founder and CEO of View from the Top where Iron Sharpens Iron Masterminds, business coaching, and events all coordinate to achieve the mission.

Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/

Need to create more time to dedicate to your marriage? Download this free guide. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/boundaries

Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk