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The Recovering Nice Guy - With Chuck Chapman, M.A.

By: Chuck Chapman M.A.
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  • This podcast is for recovering "Nice Guys" who are tired of people pleasing and always finishing in last. If you’re ready to uncover your purpose, transcend self-doubt, and start living the best version of yourself, then you’re in the right place. We're not here for temporary solutions but to forge a path of integrity and genuine self-understanding. Tired of feeling like you're not living up to your potential? Hit that subscribe button and engage in the conversation. I'm Chuck Chapman. As a professional psychotherapist, life and relationships coach, mystic, and fellow journeyman, I specialize in assisting men in navigating life's challenges. My own story includes battles with addiction, the emotional turmoil of divorce, financial downfalls like bankruptcy, health concerns, and the complexities of family ties. But through it all, I've not only survived but thrived, finding my purpose and passion. The content shared here is for general knowledge and motivational purposes. It is not a substitute for therapy or professional psychological advice. Learn more at ChuckChapman.com
    2023 Chuck Chapman, M.A.
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Episodes
  • The Reason I Never Say I'm Sorry Anymore to Anyone!
    May 21 2024

    People pleasing and the Nice Guy Syndrome are common for the Nice Guy and one of the ways this shows up for Nice Guys is that they are always saying I'm sorry. It's weak and meaningless. In today's video, I talk about why I never say I'm sorry anymore, and how it has changed my relationships for the better.

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    9 mins
  • The Dismal Reality of Being 'Monogamous to Mom' for Nice Guys
    May 18 2024

    In this video, I explore the concept of 'Monogamous to Mom,' and The Nice Guy Syndrome. The concept that Dr. Glover Talks about in No More Mr. Nice is how many nice guys, have with their mothers and how these bonds influence our romantic relationships. I discuss the common pattern of seeking motherly approval, which often leads to choosing partners who remind us of our mothers and developing codependent dynamics. I present various strategies for breaking free from these patterns, including building connections with other men, reevaluating father-child relationships, establishing independence from parents, and cutting ties with maternal enmeshment. I emphasize the importance of personal growth, setting boundaries, and cultivating healthy relationships as crucial steps for nice guys like us looking to resolve our 'mommy issues' and develop a more solid, masculine identity

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    13 mins
  • Stark Reality About Attracting Women and Achieving Success
    May 15 2024

    If you want to be more attractive to women, have more money, and success in life, the men with the Nice Guy Syndrome would do well to learn to be a leader, and self-leadership is the key to attraction and success. Until you learn to lead yourself, you won’t be able to attract (or keep) a really great woman into your life. You won’t have the kind of success you want in your career, and you’ll always struggle to get ahead.

    Self-leadership equals the foundation of personal growth and relationship success. As someone who has navigated the complexities of the 'nice guy' persona, I understand the profound impact it can have on every aspect of life. In this dynamic video, I unveil the transformative journey from being a 'nice guy' to becoming a confident leader.

    Join me as I share invaluable insights into overcoming approval-seeking behaviors and embracing authentic leadership qualities, particularly in relationships. Together, let's explore the three essential pillars of self-leadership: self-awareness, self-confidence, and self-efficacy. It's time to rewrite your story, attract genuine connections, and lead with purpose. Hit subscribe and embark on this empowering journey of self-discovery and transformation."

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    10 mins

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