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Dear Son,

By: Derek Johns
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  • This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.
    Derek Johns
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  • This Is Why Your 2024 Resolutions Aren't Working | Ep 93

    This Is Why Your 2024 Resolutions Aren't Working | Ep 93
    Jan 20 2024

    In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac have candid conversations about fostering better family life and personal growth on the cusp of the New Year. They discuss the importance of lightening the load at home, being more active in family roles, the art of delegating responsibilities, and managing frustrations. They also delve into the significance of setting resolutions, staying true to them, treating goals as daily commitments, and having a healthier, more intentional lifestyle. Importantly, they highlight the cruciality of self-care, checking in on family and friends, and treating group efforts seriously. Moreover, they express their determination to make significant changes in their personal and professional life in the upcoming year.


    00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdote

    00:01:35 Welcome to the DSR Show

    00:02:00 New Year Reflections and Resolutions

    00:02:20 The Problem with Resolutions

    00:03:09 Setting Goals and Focus for the New Year

    00:03:50 The Importance of Education and Follow Through

    00:05:31 Restoration and Learning to Ask for Help

    00:07:26 Diversification in Life and Business

    00:08:57 Lightening the Family Load

    00:19:07 The Importance of Time Allocation and Family Time

    00:21:37 The Struggle with Rest and Guilt

    00:22:23 The Dangers of Hustle Culture

    00:23:10 The Importance of Self-Care

    00:24:27 The Challenge of Overextension

    00:25:02 The Art of Saying No

    00:27:22 The Importance of Asking for Help

    00:27:26 The Consequences of Ignoring Health

    00:32:07 The Journey to Better Health

    00:36:11 The Importance of Treating Your Network Right

    00:38:50 The Power of Engaging with Your Circle


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    “Better Man. Better Father.”



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    42 mins
  • So Much to Shay... Shay | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 92

    So Much to Shay... Shay | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 92
    Jan 16 2024

    In this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts Jay Black and D John engage in significant, reflective discussions regarding the quotidian influences that shape their sons' characters and actions. Drawing lessons from current events, such as the Club Shay Shay interview controversy (without focusing on the actual dispute), they transition to personal parenting experiences unveiling implications of hasty conclusions and the significance of influence. Insights are shared on how teenagers' actions can lead to severe consequences while shedding light on recognizing their own influence over friends. The hosts consider the prevalence of passing quick judgments based on limited information, emphasizing the importance of hearing full stories before forming opinions.


    00:00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage

    00:01:16 The Dear Son Show Begins

    00:01:37 NFL Sunday, Week 18 Discussion

    00:04:43 Analyzing the Current Events

    00:05:15 The Comedian Battle Situation

    00:11:41 The Impact of Popularity Over Truth

    00:14:32 The Role of Character in Defining Truth

    00:18:26 Navigating Friendships and Character Judgments

    00:21:20 The Expectations from Family and Friends

    00:25:00 Understanding Friendships and Disagreements

    00:25:52 The Importance of Truth in Relationships

    00:26:15 The Consequences of Being 'Loud and Wrong'

    00:26:49 Recognizing the Influence of Troublemakers

    00:27:46 The Role of Parents in Guiding Their Children

    00:29:05 Reflecting on Personal Experiences and Lessons

    00:34:07 The Impact of Actions on Personal Relationships

    00:34:44 The Influence of Environment on Behavior

    00:36:14 Reflecting on Past Mistakes and Lessons

    00:39:54 The Consequences of Teenage Pregnancy

    00:44:15 Closing Thoughts and Acknowledgements



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    50 mins
  • The Court of Public Opinion Exposed: The Ugly Truth

    The Court of Public Opinion Exposed: The Ugly Truth
    Jan 2 2024
    Enjoy the visual here: https://youtu.be/Qd_ZkSnbuwQIn this free-flowing conversation, the two hosts discuss various socio-cultural and personal topics. They delve into the complexity of navigating life, addressing their journey with personal growth, authenticity, and their experiences as fathers. They reflect on the power of ego, the influence of people around them, the role of effective communication, expectations in relationships, and the significance of self-awareness. They touch upon the repercussions of false accusations, the impact of fabricated narratives, and the societal inclination to amplify negativity. An important aspect of their discussion is on the inherent difficulty of being human, the influence of external situations, and enduring societal pressures that often skew personal values. They also encourage open, candid conversations as a tool to improve understanding of oneself and others.00:00:00 Introduction and Casual Conversation00:00:10 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Changes00:00:41 Discussing End of the Year Reflections00:00:49 Reminiscing About the Show's Evolution00:01:07 Appreciating the Journey and Acknowledging Challenges00:02:09 Sports Talk and Friendly Banter00:02:38 Official Show Introduction00:04:43 Discussing the Impact of Scandals and Controversies00:18:01 Reflecting on the Influence of Technology and AI00:24:22 Discussing Expectations and Misunderstandings in Relationships00:26:16 Desire for New Experiences and Physical Interaction00:26:43 The Game of Being the Catch00:27:16 Understanding Expectations and Communication00:28:15 The Power of Ego and Pride00:29:01 The Impact of People Around You00:30:11 Tolerance vs Acceptance00:31:21 The Importance of Genuine Conversations00:31:40 The Reality of Relationships00:32:18 The Challenge of Acceptance and Tolerance00:32:46 Re-evaluating Friendships and Relationships00:37:02 The Importance of Accountability00:46:34 Understanding Identity and Genuine Conversations00:48:46 The Importance of Growth and Progress00:53:53 Acknowledging Good Things and ProgressKey Takeaways:1.     The hosts discuss the importance of understanding one's own uniqueness and identity in the face of societal influences. They emphasize that understanding who you truly are can guide your approach to relationships, decision-making, and personal growth.2.     The conversation highlights the significance of clear, open, and truthful communication in relationships, specifically, expressing one's actual truths without fear of how the other person may react. They suggest that such communication may prevent misunderstandings and build stronger bonds.3.     The hosts stress the fact that the individuals in one's immediate environment greatly shape their identity and behavior. They argue that one's interactions and experiences with these people substantially affect how they perceive themselves and the world.4.     The hosts explore the distinction between acceptance and tolerance in interpersonal dynamics. They suggest that while tolerance can be seen as coping with or enduring something, acceptance involves a more wholehearted and genuine embrace.5.     Lastly, the conversation unpacks the idea of living a life that's in conflict with one's public presentation. The hosts warn about the potential repercussions of such a conflicting lifestyle, encouraging listeners to live authentically and harmoniously with their public image.“20 Life Prompts that Facilitate Effective Parenting” (eBook) - https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1DSN Merch Store: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital#fallfromgrace #weallneedgrace #judgenot #courtofpublicopinion Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblacFollow the show:https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcasthttps://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcasthttps://tiktok.com/podcast_popsAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. follow this podcast, 2. turn on auto-downloads,3. give this podcast a 5-star rating, 4. leave a stellar written review, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.comSupport the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Johns & Co Apparel: https://johnsandcompany.coLove Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishajstudios.comThe Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help others through telling stories of it all“Better Men. Better Fathers.”Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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