I want to talk about leadership. But not what it looks like when you do but instead what it looks like when you don’t.

I consider myself to be a leader. For myself. For my family. For my clients. For my following.

Am I always a good leader? No.

Here is the evidence that sometimes I flat out fail as a leader.

1. My wife is struggling to trust the process and have faith that we will find a place to live.

As my family’s spiritual leader I am supposed to clarify the vision and hold space for my family to find clarity and confidence in the vision through my leadership. Fail.

2. I have clients still living in the darkness of their lies and I am missing opportunities to collide with them through meaningful conversations because I haven’t done my due diligence.

I have a client who is hundreds of dollars behind on his coaching fees but because I wasn’t watching the backend of my automations I didn’t know. He is telling me weakly everything is trending well financially while he is declining on every payment. I can’t pay for him but I can hold him accountable and use it as a trigger for a truly honest conversation. But I have to be paying attention for that.

3. I want to build a social media movement guiding ADHD parents to mute their inner critic and trust their inner voice. Right now I can’t even get a conversation started with one follower, let alone tens of thousands.

The leader of a movement knows what to say to engage his followers in meaningful conversation and I am just not there as a leader yet.

I am not the leader I want to be! It sucks. But it is a fact.

Facts fuel solutions though. That is good news. I just defined 3 solid things I can actively start working on so I can increase my status as a leader.

That is how easy it is to grow when you tell the truth.

You admit what isn’t working.

You identify how you want it to work.

You take action to fix it.

What is something you are failing at that you want to fix right now?

On today’s episode of Authentic On Air “Our Impulsive Journey”, Coach Bruce provides an update on his journey, discussing his progress in his body, balance, business, and relationship with God.

He talks about the challenges he's faced, including health issues and the need to support his wife's healing and growth. He emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for past actions and focusing on personal development.

Coach Bruce also shares his excitement and fear as he embarks on a new phase of his journey, leaving everything behind and rewriting the story of his family. He invites listeners to join him in uncovering their impulsive potential.

Takeaways

Taking responsibility for past actions and focusing on personal development is crucial for growth and improvement.

Supporting and being a constant presence for a partner's healing and growth is essential in a relationship.

Embracing fear and discomfort is a sign of growth and can lead to learning and self-discovery.

Leaving behind everything known and rewriting one's story can be both exciting and terrifying.

Uncovering one's impulsive potential and living impulsively can bring satisfaction and purpose to life.

• Impulsive faith is the idea of trusting oneself and listening to the inner voice.
• Maintaining physical health and a routine can be challenging while dealing with external stressors.
• Having faith in oneself is intertwined with having faith in a higher power.
• Finding balance between impulsivity and structure is important.
• ADHD parents can benefit from exploring their inner voice and living with power and potential.