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An Open Conversation with Mark and Monica

By: Mark Neubauer and Monica Neubauer
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  • Mark and Monica Neubauer have invested hours and years into cultivating good conversation skills with each other and with others. People are complex beings and we live in shades of nuance that are best understood in conversation and the telling of stories. They will share stories of the journeys of their lives and have conversations with others about topics that may be tough to show how much we all really have in common.
    Copyright Mark and Monica Neubauer 2022
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  • Life Expectations with Mark and Monica

    Life Expectations with Mark and Monica
    Dec 7 2023
    Welcome back to "An Open Conversation with Mark and Monica." In this episode, we delve into the theme of "Expectations." Monica and Mark Neubauer share real stories and insights on the impact of expectations in various aspects of life. From managing grocery expenses to parenting styles, aging, and societal norms, the Neubauers discuss the influence of expectations on relationships, work environments, and the real estate industry. They explore the importance of clear communication, adapting to changes, and embracing imperfections. Join us as we navigate through the complexities of expectations in this open and honest conversation. Timestamped overview 00:00 Adapting to changing workplace expectations across generations. 04:20 Frustration with agent's text-only communication preference. 07:41 Prioritizing healthy food, balancing expenses creates tension. 10:26 Joy can be found despite suffering expectation. 15:05 Overprotective parenting aims for an ideal childhood. 19:55 Parenting and gardening have similar outcomes. 20:43 Value in different approaches; imperfection is universal. 25:39 Miscommunication happens when words don't match feelings. 27:12 Enjoyment, challenges, and perspective on life's journey. 33:18 Value achieving easier movement and aging well. 34:18 45-minute strength training class for older women. 37:01 Seeking normality and adapting to situations positively. Key Points and Bullet Underpoints Primary Topic: Grocery Expenses and Financial Management - Impact of food expenses on finances - Importance of managing grocery shopping - Need for better financial management to avoid high grocery bills - Unexpectedly high grocery expenses due to Mark's surgery Primary Topic: Aligned Expectations in Life - Raising children and managing leisure activities - Reflecting on finding joy amidst suffering - Societal expectations of a perfect life and handling disappointments - Concept of misery being optional when reality does not meet expectations - Illustration of road trip and the impact of false expectations Primary Topic: Communication in Relationships and Work Environments - Importance of clear communication in developing new relationships - Poor communication leading to frequent failures - Adjustments in work environments to meet the expectations of new generations - Impact of lack of communication in the real estate industry - The value of scheduled check-ins for evaluating and improving systems in relationships Primary Topic: Aging and Expectations - Tailored exercise classes for specific age groups - Normalizing and adapting to changes in the body as it ages - Need to adjust expectations and embrace imperfections - Kids feeling pressure to be perfect in various domains - Lack of chance for people to make decisions and explore on their own - Unaligned expectations in midlife with the reality of aging - Challenges of unexpected physical changes and adjustment to aging     If you want to start the journey to having better conversations, share your spiritual journey and listen to An Open Conversation, sign up at: https://www.anopenconversation.com/contact.   We will send you 10 conversation starters to help you with having AN OPEN CONVERSATION. Follow us on FB at:  https://www.facebook.com/AnOpenConversation  Receive updates on podcast releases and share your pain journey with our Open Conversation Community. About The Neubauers: Monica Neubauer is a Speaker, Author and Everything DiSC consultant.  Follow Monica at: www.MonicaNeubauer.com Mark Neubauer is a creator of many things. This website is for his art.  www.TheLaughingArtist.com
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    38 mins
  • Holidays and Relationships with Mark and Monica

    Holidays and Relationships with Mark and Monica
    Nov 23 2023
    Mark and Monica are looking forward to the holidays and time with family and friends.  And with their favorite movies. 

    Here is a review of the points Monica made at the end of the conversation. Remember, you cannot control others.  You can only control yourself.  Have some fun!
    1. Say you are Sorry.  I am sorry. 
    2. Forgive others.  It is easier when they apologize, but it is good for you to do this all the time, regardless of whether they say it or realize it or not.
    3. Do your best to understand them.  
    4. In conversation and time with others - at holidays or any gathering. 
    5. Listen to what others are saying.  If you disagree, listen until they finish.  Thank them for the conversation and move on to another conversation.  There is no need to argue.  You won't change them. 
    6. If you are a bit tired or don't want to "have to stay a long time".  You don't have to stay.  Go, have fun and leave early at an appropriate time.  If it is at your house, you can go to bed and let your guests continue to have fun.
    7. Be in control of yourself.  Whatever that means for you. For me, it means eating and drinking in moderation. 
    8. Give grace to others.  We all make mistakes.  Let more things go.  Give more hugs. 
    9. Choose to no be offended.
    10. Take time to process the feelings you have when anyone is late or does something you don't like - process the feelings, snuggle the pet, or get or give a hug, and then move on. 
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    32 mins
  • Emotions and Self-Awareness with Mark and Monica

    Emotions and Self-Awareness with Mark and Monica
    Aug 24 2023
    30 mins
Social Sciences Personal Success Relationships
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