Lyn Kelley, Ph.D., CPC, drawing from years of experience (her own and her clients') gives you the little-known secret tactics - all the things controllers and manipulators DON'T use but don't want you to know! She tells you word-for-word, what to say to the controller to get him off his position and onto yours She explains how women get "hooked" on controllers, how to know the severity of his case, how to know if he can change, and how to get him to surrender to you.
©2012 Lyn Kelley (P)2012 Lyn Kelley
"Excellent Book"
Dr. Lyn speaks as though she is talking directly to me, and she is my best friend.
Learning about the Red Flags.
I liked hearing her talk in her own words.
How to spot manipulation right away!
I have spent a lot of time looking for a resource that would help me understand what the heck was going on in my relationship. The most frustrating thing was knowing something was wrong but not being able to articulate it because the behavior I was dealing with was so covert. This book validates my experience and helps me understand what I have been dealing with. It also helped me to see some of my own flaws (which I know I have but I did not realize how certain flaws contribute this issue). I am not finished with the book but I am so grateful for what I have heard so far that I just had to share this in case it may help someone else who is involved with a manipulative person. Read this, it will help you get perspective on what's really going on.