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How to Talk to a Widower | [Jonathan Tropper]
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How to Talk to a Widower

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  • by Jonathan Tropper
  • Narrated by Eric Ruben
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  • LENGTH
    7 hrs and 58 mins
  • RELEASE DATE
    08-01-08
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Publisher's Summary

Doug Parker is a widower at age 29, and in his quiet suburban town, that makes him something of a celebrity - the object of sympathy, curiosity, and, in some cases, unbridled desire. But Doug has other things on his mind.

First, there's his 16-year-old stepson, Russ - a once-sweet kid who now is getting into increasingly serious trouble on a daily basis. Then there are Doug's sisters: his bossy twin, Claire, who's just left her husband and moved in with Doug, determined to rouse him from his grieving stupor. And Debbie, who's engaged to Doug's ex-best friend and maniacally determined to pull off the perfect wedding at any cost.

Soon Doug's entire nuclear family is in his face. And when he starts dipping his toes into the shark-infested waters of the second-time-around dating scene, it isn't long before his new life is spinning hopelessly out of control, cutting a harrowing and often hilarious swath of sexual missteps and escalating chaos across the suburban landscape.

Funny, sexy, and smart, How to Talk to a Widower is a novel about finding your way, even when you have no idea where it is you want to go.

©2007 Jonathan Tropper; (P)2007 Brilliance Audio, Inc.

What the Critics Say

"Alternately flippant and sad, Tropper's book is a smart comedy of inappropriate behavior at an inopportune time." (Publishers Weekly)
"Tropper has the twentysomething guy thing down to a science. His prose is funny and insightful, his characters quirky and just a bit off-balance but decent enough to take to our hearts." (Booklist)

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    Mara EUREKA, CA, United States 12-24-12
    Mara EUREKA, CA, United States 12-24-12 Member Since 2010
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    "We all Grieve and Heal at out own pace"
    Where does How to Talk to a Widower rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    It's one of my favorites and and reminds of how much people do not understand how widows and widower's are misunderstood when they are in the grieving process after their spouse or partner have died.


    What was one of the most memorable moments of How to Talk to a Widower?

    I really can't remember. It's been a while since I listened to the book. I think it maybe it was in how Doug's Step-son's father really didn't want the boy in his life and wanted to move away from him as far as possible.

    I got the sense the only one who cared about the Step-son was Doug.


    What does Eric Ruben bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    Putting into words what it feels like in losing a spouse/partner.


    If you were to make a film of this book, what would be the tag line be?

    My opinion would be not turn into a film. Something is lost in translation of what the author is trying to say.


    Any additional comments?

    Can't think of any.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    KP Oakland, CA 11-23-12
    KP Oakland, CA 11-23-12 Member Since 2006
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    "Funny and touching at the same time!"

    Jonathon Tropper is really funny. The book made me laugh out loud multiple times because he is so funny, witty, and sardonic. He's also very insightful, and his writing is heartfelt. So one moment I could be laughing out loud, and the next I might be crying :)

    I have only read one other J. Tropper book, The Book of Joe. I think I liked that one just a little better then this. I did feel like the plot of How to Talk to a Widower went on a bit too long about the travails of widowhood, whereas the plot of The Book of Joe had more dramatic push to it, somehow. Maybe that's just me.

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    Anne SANTA FE, NM, United States 09-21-12
    Anne SANTA FE, NM, United States 09-21-12 Member Since 2003
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    "Fun book"
    What did you like best about this story?

    I loved the main character and the relationships in the story.


    Which character – as performed by Eric Ruben – was your favorite?

    I liked the main character and his twin sister. Both were flawed in very different ways, but put them together and they were hilarious.


    Any additional comments?

    This is a light, fun book. It also has very touching moments. I would recommend it, hands down.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Brett eureka, CA, United States 11-06-11
    Brett eureka, CA, United States 11-06-11 Listener Since 2009
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    "Crappy narrator"

    Narrator sounds like he has a tennis ball in his mouth. It's very off putting and the ultra thick sounds of his voice, to me, are even disgusting. It's amazing to me that bad narrators are still hired. Good god producers show some discernment, some savvy. Pathetic.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Dianne Dallas, TX, United States 03-28-11
    Dianne Dallas, TX, United States 03-28-11 Member Since 2009

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    "Pleasant Surprise!"

    I really didn't know what to expect when I purchased this book during a sale, but thought I would give it a try. I was very pleasantly surprised! It was entertaining and funny! A good listen!

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Carol Calgary, AB, Canada 11-17-11
    Carol Calgary, AB, Canada 11-17-11 Member Since 2009
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    "Interesting Read"
    If you could sum up How to Talk to a Widower in three words, what would they be?

    An eye opener. (due to the references and suggestions on how someone might consider not communicating with a person who has gone through such a devistating loss.)


    What other book might you compare How to Talk to a Widower to and why?

    This book reminded me a little of the book A Million Little Pieces by James Frey but I feel How to Talk to a Widower was a much better read. Even the narrator is similar but his dry youthful voice that drones on was somewhat more tolerable with this book - considering the character's remorse. At first I thought his narrating would be the death of me but I gave it a chance and ended up enjoying it during the later part of the novel. (besides, the last book I read was The Outlander and anything seemed good after that melodramatic drivelling harlequin romance novel)


    Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

    I enjoyed the examples where Doug wrote magazine articles describing his interaction with people relating to his grief. I appreciated the insight on the subject.


    Any additional comments?

    This is an easy read and a good story - sad obviously but quite funny at times as well. I appreciated the sarcastic wit.

    0 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    sandra decatur, TX, United States 05-04-11
    sandra decatur, TX, United States 05-04-11 Member Since 2010
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    "Not memorable"

    Nor is the main character especially sympathetic, he's actually someone who could use a serious kick in the pants toward being an adult.

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