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  • The In-Between

  • Unforgettable Encounters During Life's Final Moments
  • By: Hadley Vlahos R.N.
  • Narrated by: Hadley Vlahos R.N.
  • Length: 7 hrs and 19 mins
  • 4.9 out of 5 stars (3,064 ratings)

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The In-Between

By: Hadley Vlahos R.N.
Narrated by: Hadley Vlahos R.N.
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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Passionate advocate for end-of-life care and TikTok star Hadley Vlahos shares moving stories of joy, wisdom, and redemption from her patients’ final moments in this “brilliant” (Zibby Owens, Good Morning America) memoir.

“This extraordinary book helps dispel fear around death and dying—revealing it to be a natural part of our soul’s evolution.”—Laura Lynne Jackson, New York Times bestselling author of Signs and The Light Between Us

Talking about death and dying is considered taboo in polite company, and even in the medical field. Our ideas about dying are confusing at best: Will our memories flash before our eyes? Regrets consume our thoughts? Does a bright light appear at the end of a tunnel? For most people, it will be a slower process, one eased with preparedness, good humor, and a bit of faith. At the forefront of changing attitudes around palliative care is hospice nurse Hadley Vlahos, who shows that end-of-life care can teach us just as much about how to live as it does about how we die.

Vlahos was raised in a strict religious household, but began questioning her beliefs in high school after the sudden death of a friend. When she got pregnant at nineteen, she was shunned by her community and enrolled herself in nursing school to be able to support herself and her baby. But nursing soon became more than a job: when she focused on palliative care and hospice work, it became a calling.

In The In-Between, Vlahos recounts the most impactful experiences she’s had with the people she’s worked with—from the woman who never once questioned her faith until she was close to death, to the older man seeing visions of his late daughter, to the young patient who laments that she spent too much of her short life worrying about what others thought of her—while also sharing her own fascinating journey.

Written with profound insight, humility, and respect, The In-Between is a heartrending memoir that shows how caring for others can transform a life while also offering wisdom and comfort for those dealing with loss and providing inspiration for how to live now.

©2023 Hadley Vlahos (P)2023 Random House Audio
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“Tender and transformative . . . The great surprise of The In-Between is that it makes dying feel like a peaceful, dynamic, and nourishing event that can potentially transform the lives of those who are left behind. Readers will cheer on Hadley Vlahos and, like me, be forever grateful that she wrote this book.”—Christie Tate, New York Times bestselling author of Group

“Vlahos’s compassionate, beautifully written book contains profound wisdom. It is for anyone with an open heart who loves a good story and anyone who fears but would like to better understand hospice and the end of life.”—Katy Butler, New York Times bestselling author of The Art of Dying Well

“Gentle and moving, The In-Between takes readers where few think they would want to go: deep into the world of hospice nursing. The combined beauty, faith, and compassion found in each patient’s death is meaningful and sublime.”—Theresa Brown, RN, New York Times bestselling author of The Shift

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Wow

I listened to this the whole day. I cried a lot, having been through a personal loss I was captivated by her experience. Nurse Hadley, you are an angel, this was amazing.

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Beautifully written

This book is beautifully written. I can't put it down. Poignant, personal, intimate and beautiful

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Perfection!

Couldn’t stop listening! Hadley’s experiences are so moving and weave beautifully with her personal story. Well written and delivered beautifully with her charming southern accent. You’ll laugh, cry- a lot, and view end of life care differently after listening. Tears are still streaming down my face. I pray we’re all blessed to have a Hadley in our lives when the time comes. Like the author, this book is an absolute treasure!

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I couldn’t “put it down”

I bought the book 30 hours ago and I’ve finished it, on 1X. Hadley shared stories that were so impactful, and she does a great job of moving things along without feeling disjointed from patient to patient. Thank you for sharing your unique heart Hadley.

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Healing and so heartwarming and breaking

This book helped me so much. Religion is hard in a person. This helped me with so many unanswered questions about Heaven and organized religion as whole. I’m so thankful for this book!

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Comfort and crying

Such a beautiful book. I was moved at every second and it brought such comfort to my experiences with grief. So grateful I stumbled onto that tiktok with the book!

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Heartfelt, touching and beautiful!

I was so excited to listen to this story! I preordered it a month before it published. Every story was so detailed and respectful to the patients and their families. My favorite was Reggie’s story as I lost my mother in 2017 to a similar situation. Thank you for sharing your stories with us, Hadley!!! ❤️❤️❤️

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You are right where you need to be

If there were more people in the world with this mindset, the world would be a much different place. I loved hearing your story. Thank you.

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Gatekeepers

Thank you for this touching & loving reality that many of us share. None of us are ever alone. You precious Gatekeepers love on both sides.

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Beautiful

These stories tell an awesome story of how Hadley became who she is today. I loved her writing style and I love any book the author reads :)

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