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You Just Don't Understand | [Deborah Tannen]

You Just Don't Understand

This best selling audio program has revolutionized the way men and women talk and listen to each other - at home, at work, and wherever the communications gap between the sexes can lead to troublesome misunderstandings.
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Publisher's Summary

As sociolinguistics expert Dr. Tannen reveals, no one is to blame for the familiar feeling among men and women that members of the opposite sex just don't understand them. The problem dates back to childhood, when children learn to use language in distinctly different ways; years later, their adult efforts to talk to each other often place them at cross purposes - even when both mean well and are sincerely trying to communicate. Now in this groundbreaking audio program, Dr. Tannen illustrates how the best intentions can go easily astray between spouses, family members, co-workers and friends and gives valuable insight to help you communicate better than ever before. This best seller has revolutionized the way men and women talk and listen to each other - at home, at work, and wherever the communications gap between the sexes can lead to troublesome misunderstandings.

©1991 Deborah Tannen, All Rights Reserved; (P)1991 Simon & Schuster Inc., All Rights Reserved; SOUND IDEAS Is an Imprint of Simon & Schuster Audio Division, Simon & Schuster Inc.

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    Ben Tampa, FL, USA 01-23-05
    Ben Tampa, FL, USA 01-23-05
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    "Insightful"

    I was assigned this book in a class a few semesters ago, and couldn't understand why. That was untill I read it. It is insightful, and gives explainations, to terrible relationships I have had in the past. Now when I get frustrated with someone I think back to this book, and try to understand whether we disagree or are just misunderstanding each others.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Colleen 12-12-12
    Colleen 12-12-12
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    "Avoid misunderstandings that become catastriphic"
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    Examples were helpful and explanation was succinct


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    Great for anyone who interacts with people on a deep interpersonal,

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Jennifer TREMONT, IL, United States 11-22-13
    Jennifer TREMONT, IL, United States 11-22-13 Member Since 2013
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    "Terrible narration. Like sitting in a classroom"
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    It just wasn't written to listen to. It was a terrible delivery; almost monotone. Just awful.


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    G Rohnert Park, CA, USA 01-26-05
    G Rohnert Park, CA, USA 01-26-05
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    "You Just Don't Understand"

    This books represents an inciteful view of the linguistic differences between men and women. It takes a non-biased approach on dissecting the differences between the two sexes and how they interpret different meanings, from the same words, in identical context. Not your typical "Venus v. Mars" book.....

    1 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    David Justice Urbana, Ohio United States 11-29-04
    David Justice Urbana, Ohio United States 11-29-04 Member Since 2000
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    "men and women are different -- DUH!"

    All I got from this "book" is that men and women are different. Duh! For those under 35 or 40 this might be a revelation, but not for those of us above. I gave this "book" a 1 because it was not possible to give it a 0. In nearly fifty years on this earth I have found that the example people used are more the exception than the rule. people, both men and women, fall everywhere within the spectrum including the stereotypical man and stereotypical woman. While the "average man" and "average woman" groups might not be coincidental, they are both further from there stereotype extremes than one might infer from listening to this "book". Do yourself two favors: remember that men and women are different; and give your 8 dollars and 90 minutes to your favorite charity.

    As a small defense of this book, I've yet to find an abridged version of anything worth the money spent. Though I doubt it, it is possible that an unabridged version of this book might be worth a look.

    4 of 9 people found this review helpful
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    Rebecca Stillwater, NJ, United States 01-11-11
    Rebecca Stillwater, NJ, United States 01-11-11
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    "Terrible"

    I have listened to multiple self help books, this was a waste of money, very short little vignettes in monotone voice.

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    Joanna Shingle Springs, CA, United States 09-18-04
    Joanna Shingle Springs, CA, United States 09-18-04
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    I was looking forward to something new, insightful and different. Not.

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