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Women Who Love Too Much Audiobook

Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change

Is having 'somebody to love' the most important thing in your life? Do you constantly believe that with 'the right man' you would no longer feel depressed or lonely? Are you bored with 'nice guys' who are open, honest, and dependable? If being in love means being in pain, this book was written for you. Therapist Robin Norwood describes loving too much as a pattern of thoughts and behavior, which certain women develop as a response to problems from childhood.
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Is having 'somebody to love' the most important thing in your life? Do you constantly believe that with 'the right man' you would no longer feel depressed or lonely? Are you bored with 'nice guys' who are open, honest, and dependable? If being in love means being in pain, this book was written for you. Therapist Robin Norwood describes loving too much as a pattern of thoughts and behavior, which certain women develop as a response to problems from childhood.

Many women find themselves repeatedly drawn into unhappy and destructive relationships with men. They then struggle to make these doomed relationships work. This best-selling book takes a hard look at how powerfully addictive these unhealthy relationships are - but also gives a very specific program for recovery from the disease of loving too much.

©1985 Robin Norwood (P)2012 Penguin Audiobooks

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    Kindle Customer Rochester Hills, MI 02-03-13
    Kindle Customer Rochester Hills, MI 02-03-13 Member Since 2014
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    If you could sum up Women Who Love Too Much in three words, what would they be?

    Thanks to this book, I know what I need to do to get help.


    What other book might you compare Women Who Love Too Much to and why?

    Any other books on codependency recovery


    Which character – as performed by Ellen Archer – was your favorite?

    No favoirte. All was good.


    What did you learn from Women Who Love Too Much that you would use in your daily life?

    Continue christian growth


    Any additional comments?

    I now have hope for a better future.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Cary Majano Gardena, CA USA 07-17-15
    Cary Majano Gardena, CA USA 07-17-15

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    "Very very informative"

    I love this book!! AS a man who has been in a relationship with a woman who loves too much, and I myself loving too much, this book has helped me confirm the cycle, and gave multiple examples of how to stop the chaos, and start living my life, instead of what she wants, and for me to stop any form of manipulation. this book should be read by anyone, man or woman, that feels trapped and disgusted in their current relationships. I related to many of the people, though I never had substance abuse problems, or did anything unlawful. however the feelings and emotions expressed were identical to the sickness of Loving too much.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    sasha 04-21-15
    sasha 04-21-15
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    "Offers recovery steps. "

    This should be the second book each codependent woman can read. The first is codependent no more. This book thought me 9 good practical steps to recovery. However the first step should be that you have decided that you don't want to be where you are anymore. Next learn about anxious attachment style . Stop trying to help the irresponsible people around you and become the most selfish woman ever. Then welcome yourself to your new happy life.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Paula Marchesini 04-06-15
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    "Life-changing"

    I have read many of the great works of philosophy and literature of Western culture, but no book has had a greater impact on my practical life and on my ideas about what it is to be a woman than Women Who Love Too Much. I feel I have just been born and have a chance to live a completely different life, in which I will for the first time be able to put myself, and not some undeserving man, in first place. This is a must-read for all women, especially those of us who find our lives impaired by loving too much. I cannot think of a single girlfriend of mine who wouldn't benefit tremendously from this read. The audio version is terrific. I am about to start listening to it a second time to make sure the ideas stay fresh im my mind. I feel very grateful that this book found me and dread to think of what would have been of my life otherwise.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Julie New York, NY, United States 07-30-14
    Julie New York, NY, United States 07-30-14 Member Since 2015
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    What did you love best about Women Who Love Too Much?

    It helps me examine why I've been attracting the wrong guys and why I keep breaking up with them. This is was like a surgeon doctor that went deep inside my psychological mind, took me back to my childhood, and told me why.


    What was one of the most memorable moments of Women Who Love Too Much?

    It describes women who are self-sacrificing too much, only to get a broken heart in return.


    Have you listened to any of Ellen Archer’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

    No. I like her voice.


    What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

    Be selfish by loving yourself first, then be selfless through helping others.


    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    countrygirl Canada 01-15-16
    countrygirl Canada 01-15-16 Member Since 2016

    I am the mother of three grown children. I own a horse ranch and enjoy listening to Mystery/Suspense novels and Personal Development books.

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    "Really informative"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    Yes I would, if you want to understand why you do things so you can start to do them differently it is great.


    What other book might you compare Women Who Love Too Much to and why?

    I would compare this book to Let Go Now: Embracing Detachment These are the two best books I have read on the topic of letting go and detaching.


    Which character – as performed by Ellen Archer – was your favorite?

    No characters


    What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

    That I can not control anyone or anything but myself.


    Any additional comments?

    I would highly recommend this book, especially if you are stressing yourself out about what other people are saying and doing.

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    Rebecca Morgan 12-16-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Beautifully done"

    This was a book that I will put into practice and revisit when needed. It caused me to really take a look at myself and my pattern of destructive relationships. Definitely life-changing for those women who are ready for recovery.

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    jeanettia vandon Wentzville, MO, US 10-05-15
    jeanettia vandon Wentzville, MO, US 10-05-15 Member Since 2015
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    "I learned alot about myself & the healing process"

    I'm not well, I will be, this book shows me how to heal myself thanks

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    Joleen 08-31-15
    Joleen 08-31-15
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    "game changer"

    book has been a significant to on helping me to understand myself and to have healthy relationships with the persons around me I truly enjoyed this and recommend it to a lot of people I know

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    Latorya 06-12-15
    Latorya 06-12-15
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    "Very helpful book. Very hopeful too"

    I could relate with this book very much. It made me feel that I wasn't alone. That there are women who have struggled like me. I read this book years ago and didn't relate,ry dysfunctional relationship that stripped away my self esteem, I related 100 percent.

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  • Samantha croker
    2/7/15
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    "Brilliant"

    A must read for any woman who feels like she's never gunna find the right way forward when it comes to men. More importantly it teaches you the path to guide you if you wish to change the pattern of relationships when they are not healthy, not doing you any good. Makes you take a look at yourself and I'm so glad I read this.., !! :)

    3 of 3 people found this review helpful
  • Anna
    9/27/15
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    "My new Bible:)"

    It's like I just want to write "why I didn't discovered this book before? My life could be so different." But the truth is that before my all bad experience with men I probably would not be able to understand this book at all 'cause I wasn't ready. After my last heartbreak which cost me almost my life I knew I need help because I thought something is wrong with me. Reading this book (or listening in this case) is eyes opening experience . Now I understand and I'm ready to recover.
    So if you are here, reading this now and considering to get this book for yourself, you are probably ready too. Go for it.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • Susan
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    "excellence"

    before i read it I thought it was a waste of time listening/reading this book....how wrong I was, although my problems are not as deep as a lot of the examples ....ii still have issues/problems and this book hifhlighted them.

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