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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work Audiobook

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert

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Publisher's Summary

Straightforward in its approach, yet profound in its effect, the principles outlined in this book teach partners new and startling strategies for making marriage work. Gottman has scientifically analyzed the habits of married couples and established a method of correcting the behavior that puts thousands of marriages on the rocks. He helps couples to focus on one another and pay attention to the small day-to-day moments that, strung together, make up the heart and soul of any relationship. Gottman has culled seven principles essential to the success of any marriage:

  • Maintain a love map
  • Foster fondness and admiration
  • Turn toward instead of away
  • Accept influence
  • Solve solvable conflicts
  • Cope with conflicts you can't resolve
  • Create shared meaning

Packed with questionnaires and exercises whose effectiveness has been proven in Dr. Gottman's workshops, this is the definitive guide for any couple who wants their relationship to realize its highest potential.

©1999 John Gottam, Ph.D. and Nan Silver (P)2011 Tantor

What the Critics Say

"Gottman comes to this endeavor with the best of qualifications: he's got the spirit of a scientist and the soul of a romantic." (Newsweek)

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    "Good information but very drawn out"
    Would you try another book from John M.; Nan Gottman; Silver and/or John Allen Nelson?

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    Would you recommend The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work to your friends? Why or why not?

    Yes but you need the paper copy to work through it


    Did the narration match the pace of the story?

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    Was The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work worth the listening time?

    It is worth the time but you have to be very committed to work through all the exercises


    Any additional comments?

    Buy the paper copy

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    jlight 09-29-16
    jlight 09-29-16 Member Since 2014
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    what a clear, concise guide for relationships that is informed by research but makes common sense

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    Torrey N. Mindrebo 09-07-16 Member Since 2016
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    "Great book!"

    I really enjoyed reading this book with my fiancé as we approached marriage. It was a great book with in depth information that really spanned all the questions that both of us had and more. I fully appreciated all of the research and dedication that the author clearly put into the topic of a healthy marriage!

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    Sue Linford 08-31-16
    Sue Linford 08-31-16 Member Since 2016
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    "WOW! What a wealth of knowledge and good ideas."

    I highly recommend this book to all couples, wherever they are in their lives or relationships.

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    malaz 07-01-16
    malaz 07-01-16 Member Since 2016
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    "this book is better as a paper version"

    too much questionnaires for an audio book. hard to follow, better get a paper version.

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    Taniqua 06-27-16
    Taniqua 06-27-16
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    "Great info. Great Book"

    This is great in the sense that someone actually sat down and studies married couples. Not human alone but the interactions, they took that data (which dispels A LOT of advice and counseling out there) and put it into simple English for couples to have a blue print that is proven.

    As the description says, "packed with questionnaires and exercises." So those do not translate perfectly to audible story but the info is there, you will have to pull out a pencil and write it out or get a different version.

    But the info is solid and has already made a huge difference.

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    Sarah Dopp San Francisco, CA 06-22-16
    Sarah Dopp San Francisco, CA 06-22-16 Member Since 2016
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    "Great book, exercises are difficult without book"

    The material and presentation are excellent, but the audiobook format doesn't work well for exercises -- it turns into a long repetitive lists that you can't really use, just need to skip over. Still, if you prefer audio to paper, you'll get a lot out of this.

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    Brian 06-07-16
    Brian 06-07-16

    Brian is an avid reader. He is interested in great stories and human behavior. His job is as a behavioral specialist in public schools.

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    "An Essential Book on Relationships"

    I am divorced. When I got engaged I and my fiancée both decided premarital counseling was a good idea. We both were interested in making it work and starting off strong. The counselor advised us to read this book. Not only has following this book helped both of us be closer, it has also revealed the mists we have both made in past relationships. It is amazing how much that this book reveals. I wish it were required reading.

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    steve estrada CALIFORNIA 05-20-16
    steve estrada CALIFORNIA 05-20-16 Member Since 2016
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    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    This book was recommended by my counselors and I'm glad I read it. I wouldn't say it's the sole book to read on marriage but I definitely learned some stuff! There were absolutely times where I had to stop what I was doing and take a bunch of notes.


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    NerfHerder42 Illinois, USA 05-12-16
    NerfHerder42 Illinois, USA 05-12-16 Member Since 2015

    Guinness World Record Holder. 热中老古. Purveyor of LoL. Time Magazine's 2006 Person of the Year. Viking Warlord

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    "Bring along a pen and paper"

    The true value of this book is in the insightful activities it provides for spouses and partners to do together. Unfortunately, in the audiobook format, that means someone reading dozens of items at you to take back to your partner. Make sure you write them down or you'll find yourself revisiting several parts, several times.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful

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