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The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating Audiobook

The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating

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Publisher's Summary

"Are you who the person you are looking for is looking for?" - Andy Stanley

Single? Looking for the "right person"? Thinking that if you met the "right person" everything would turn out "right"? Think again.

In The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating, Andy Stanley explores the challenges, assumptions, and land mines associated with dating in the 21st century. Best of all, he offers the most practical and uncensored advice you will ever hear on this topic. Not for the faint of heart, The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating challenges single Christ followers to step up and set a new standard for this generation!

"If you don't want a marriage like the majority of marriages," says Stanley, "Then stop dating like the majority of daters!"

Part One: "The Right Person Myth" - 1 Corinthians 13:4-5

Part Two: "Gentleman's Club" - 1 Peter 3:7

Part Three: "Designer Sex" - 1 Corinthians 6:18

Part Four: "If I Were You" - Proverbs 14:8

©2015 Zondervan (P)2015 Zondervan

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    Marie 07-25-15
    Marie 07-25-15
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    "Uninteresting - not what I expected"

    Struggled to keep listening. Narrator's voice a bit irritating. sorry to say but I'd prefer to give book back for a credit. please.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Suzanne Groton, CT 04-24-16
    Suzanne Groton, CT 04-24-16 Member Since 2016
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    "No-Nonsense Honesty, with a True Biblical Wisdom!"

    I really appreciated Andy's honesty and his assessment of the different mindsets of men and women and how culture and the world can lead us astray. This book taught me to examine myself and my patterns of behavior and motivated me to exchange bad choices for biblical ones, as it pertains to relationships. I highly recommend this book!

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Jessica 01-09-16
    Jessica 01-09-16
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    "I wish Andy himself would have narrated the book."

    But, Stu did a great job. The book was wonderful and full of great info. It really made me think. Even if u don't think u can commit to the one year plan, it's an amazing learning tool. As a mom, it also gave me some great advice to pass on. Things I wish I was told, and things I wish someone would have told the boys I had dated. And if u don't like it, as Andy wrote himself, there's always ebay lol.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    S. Ponce El Paso, Texas United States 09-10-15
    S. Ponce El Paso, Texas United States 09-10-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Every single person should read!"

    awesome book will read over again
    this is a must for anyone who is single newly single or going through a divorce and is interested in entering the dating arena this all makes sense we need to get to know who we are and what we need to change in our lives before we get into a new relationship and it's all based on what the Lord wants for us and I'm sure this can't get any better than that

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    Bryan Crawford Farmington, NM USA 11-13-15
    Bryan Crawford Farmington, NM USA 11-13-15 Member Since 2008
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    Would you try another book from Andy Stanley and/or Stu Gray?

    No I would not. Andy Stanley is a poor bible teacher who as the book of Jude would say "preaches what their itching ears want to hear"


    What could Andy Stanley have done to make this a more enjoyable book for you?

    Used a little bit more scripture.


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    Shanebo 09-25-16
    Shanebo 09-25-16 Member Since 2011
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    "Would have rather Andy Stanley narrated it himself"
    Where does The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    One of the better books, but narration isn't up to the abilities of the actual book author.


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    Yalonda Best 08-05-16 Member Since 2016
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    "Absolutely enjoyed it. It held my attention!"

    The time has been perfect for me because I committed to celibacy a little over a month ago and didn't really have a plan to stick to it long term. God is amazing and he's intentional. The audio held my attention and I completed it in 2 days. I am going to recommend this audio to my singles ministry at church and definitely to my young adult children.

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    Kimberly 07-29-16
    Kimberly 07-29-16
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    "Highly recommend!"

    Great though hard truths are shared. If the truths are taken to heart, much pain can be avoided and relationships can be enjoyed more fully. It helps that there's quite a bit of wit throughout the book.

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    Paul West Blocton, AL, United States 06-27-16
    Paul West Blocton, AL, United States 06-27-16 Member Since 2016
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    "Great book!"

    Become the person the person you are looking for is looking for! This is one of the great ideas that will stay with me from this book. I recommend you give this book a chance. It does not take a long investment and it will be worth it.

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    Amazon Customer 05-17-16 Member Since 2016
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    "amazing!"

    This book is life changing and opened up my eyes to life regarding love, sex, and marriage💙

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