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The Five Love Languages: Men's Edition: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate | [Gary Chapman]

The Five Love Languages: Men's Edition: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate

Married people experience love most strongly through five love languages - quality time, words of encouragement, gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. With thoughtfulness and a gee-whiz tone that works well in all his audios, Gary Chapman aims his insights at men who want more from marriage, as well as those who have more to give. He's a humble teacher, describing the five languages with satisfying examples from his counseling practice and framing his ideas as suggestions.
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Married people experience love most strongly through five love languages - quality time, words of encouragement, gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. With thoughtfulness and a gee-whiz tone that works well in all his audios, Gary Chapman aims his insights at men who want more from marriage, as well as those who have more to give. He's a humble teacher, describing the five languages with satisfying examples from his counseling practice and framing his ideas as suggestions. Without making light of the work a marriage requires, he'll convince most men that, if they love their wives, they can easily express it in ways that can make a marriage truly special for everybody.

©2005 Gary Chapman; (P)2008 Oasis Audio

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    Douglas C. Bates Boston, MA 04-20-12
    Douglas C. Bates Boston, MA 04-20-12 Member Since 2014
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    "Fabulous Insight — Mediocre Literature"

    Author Gary Chapman's concept about the 5 love languages is an enlightening insight that everybody should know about. It's that important and valuable.

    The concept is straightforward. Here are the 5 love languages:

    1. Gifts.
    2. Quality time - enjoying doing things together.
    3. Physical/touch (n.b., don't confuse this with sex).
    4. Affirmation or compliments.
    5. Service (i.e., doing things to help the other).

    Everybody has a primary love language. If you express your love to your partner in this language, they will feel loved. If you express your love in another language, especially one they don't particularly value, they will not feel loved.

    It's natural to treat your partner as you would wish to be treated. Hence, you are likely to express your love to your partner via your preferred love language. That's great if you share love languages. You have no need of the 5 love languages concept. If not, you have a problem that understanding this concept can help.

    Sadly, the best way to learn about the 5 love languages is Gary Chapman the writer, and in this case, the reader too.

    Chapman writes at and reads to the high school dropout level. On one hand, that's a great thing, because this message needs to get to the people who seldom read books. On the other hand, for those who are accustomed to reading books, the writing and reading are something akin to reading a non-fiction children's book. While it's politically correct to reposition material to men as a target audience -- this book is just a modification of his original 5 love languages book to speak directly to men -- it's not politically correct to reposition the book to a more literate target audience. That's unfortunate, because for that audience the way the book is written and read is not only annoying, it could make readers think that smart, well-educated folks wouldn't make mistakes in the love languages.

    1 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    s_rithy 04-16-12
    s_rithy 04-16-12 Member Since 2015
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    "a must-read!"

    For all people wanting a better understanding of human relations, couple or not, you must read it. My wife and I both read the book, and our relationship has improved tremendously. We did not have specific problems relating to each other, but since this book, we became even closer than before. Also, be aware than the principles in this book applies also in your relationships with everyone...

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    Sandra 01-09-12
    Sandra 01-09-12
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    "A useful change in perspective"
    Where does The Five Love Languages rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    Not rocket science but a helpful refresher to remind one that all people do not value the same things in life.


    What did you like best about this story?

    Chapman writes about a common issue, miscommunications and misunderstandings between partners. He reminds the listener that what is of value to her may not be of value to him and that the


    Any additional comments?

    Quick and easy listen.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Niv Petach Tiqva, Israel 12-27-11
    Niv Petach Tiqva, Israel 12-27-11 Member Since 2015

    34 year old, married +2 wonderful kids. Like fantasy and self development: moral, humility, listening, relationship, kids education etc

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    "Exactly the same"
    Would you try another book from Gary Chapman and/or Gary Chapman?

    The 5 love languages is a great book and when I bought this one I expected more examples of the same spirit but I got exactly the same stories and I feel I hear the 5 love languages book again. Gary Chapman is an excellent writer and and I recommend warmly about the 5 love languages that e wrote.


    1 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Brian 12-05-11
    Brian 12-05-11 Member Since 2002
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    "Really Good Insight"

    Great at helping understand why things sometimes go the way they do and why you feel certain ways. I'm not usually into the self-help type stuff, but I really enjoyed it and learned a lot.

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    Lisa ELLIOTTSBURG, PA, United States 09-14-11
    Lisa ELLIOTTSBURG, PA, United States 09-14-11 Member Since 2014

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    "Makes a lot of sence for both men and women"

    Being a woman I also listened to this book with my husband and it really opened our eyes to see what we should of known all along. Sometimes you just need to be set on the right path.

    If you are looking for some advice whether you are already in a relationship or not this book really helps you find your way and gives you great tips.

    Thanks!

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Thomas Chicago, IL, United States 03-20-11
    Thomas Chicago, IL, United States 03-20-11 Member Since 2014

    I struggled in the sixties to get a college education, barely graduated, spent a life in the phone company as a technician in a call center.

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    "Marriage counselling"

    The author, who reads his own composition, has some good ideas about expressing love, in five major ways. He calls these ways, love languages, and proposes that everyone has one special language that they like to receive love in. I myself find that I like to receive love in all five ways, with no one way dominating. This is a must-read book for people educated in technical educations that left out any kind of emotional maturity, and then find their lives empty in their careers. You'll probably be sorry you didn't read this book earlier, but it is never too late to read, and to learn how to love in a mature understanding way.

    1 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    CarlU 03-20-13
    CarlU 03-20-13

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    "Outstanding"
    If you could sum up The Five Love Languages in three words, what would they be?

    Not only did the reader do a great job but the material was explained very well. I've had this book sitting in my house for around 16 years. I wish that I would have read it a long time ago. I'll be listening to this book a few more times.


    What was one of the most memorable moments of The Five Love Languages?

    Every time he connected to my feelings of our twenty year marriage. I look forward to the next twenty plus years!


    What does Gary Chapman bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    The expressions that his voiced carried would have been hard to get from the book.


    What did you learn from The Five Love Languages that you would use in your daily life?

    How to express love for other in ways that they will better appreciate.


    Any additional comments?

    This book is on my top five list of non-fiction books.

    0 of 1 people found this review helpful

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