The Available Parent

Expert Advice for Raising Successful and Resilient Teens and Tweens

By: John Duffy

Narrated by: David Colacci

Length: 5 hrs and 48 mins

Publisher's summary

We have a tendency today to over-parent, micromanage, and underappreciate our adolescents. Dr. John Duffy's The Available Parent is a revolutionary approach to taking care of teens and tweens.

Teenagers are often left feeling unheard and misunderstood, and parents are left feeling bewildered by the changes in their child at adolescence and by their sudden lack of effectiveness as parents. The parent has become unavailable, the teen responds in kind, and a negative, often destructive cycle of communication begins. The available parent of a teenager is open to discussion, offering advice and solutions but not insisting on them. He allows his child to make some mistakes, setting limits, primarily where health and safety are concerned. He never lectures - he is available but not controlling. He is neither cruel nor dismissive, ever. The available parent is fun and funny and can bring levity to the most stressful situation. All of that is to say, there are no conditions to his availability - it is absolute.

©2014 John Duffy (P)2014 Blackstone Audio, Inc.

Wonderful, Invaluable Book for Parents of Teens

I am a Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist and, more importantly, a father of 2 teenagers (girl and boy). I have found this book eminently helpful. I am listening to it for the 2nd time. It is hopeful, encouraging, wise, directive, supportive and unusually humane - it presents a caring and kind way to understand and approach children, including our own children. It is by far my favorite book on parenting. I also list it as a resource on my psychiatric practice website.

good book

So many parents are making mistakes without even knowing.. This book clearly lays them out and offers great advice!

Loved it!

Enjoyed the different approaches to dealing with teens and to learn how to be more available. learning that physically being there, same place as child, is not the same as being there emotionally. The broader aspect of being available.

Invaluable parenting guidance

I wish I read this book 5 years ago...but it's not too late. I've already implemented many of the suggestions and parenting concepts taught by Mr. Duffy (with my three sons 14 - 19 years old.) Now I will pray my husband will listen as well.
Narration was easy to listen to and follow.
I highly recommend this book!

A must read for every parent

I absolutely loved this book. I am a mom of three teenagers and don’t have any parents to ask for advice, this book gave me a new perspective on how to understand my children and to have a clear idea on what to be an available parent really means. I was sad when the book ended. I highly recommended you read this book !!

Excellent Informative Book for Parents!

I have listened to this book 3 times and will continue to listen to it over and over during my boy's teenage years!

good book, worth the read for parents of teens

Good advice and doable ideas for parenting teens and preteens. worth the read or listen.

WOW 1st book to rate 5/5 less than 20% into it!

WOW 1st book to rate 5/5 less than 20% into it!
I was fumbling in the dark and looking for solutions and this book Pope's up like a candle in the darkness of my parenting a teen at home,

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Worth every penny and some!

love the concept of parent as consultant

overall a good book - if nothing else it will make me more thoughtful about how I approach parenting teens

will always probably hear the voice in my head " be available"

must read

very informative, and insightful. must read for parents struggling with their teens. thank you for writing this.