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The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict | [Arbinger Institute]

The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict

Through an intriguing story of parents struggling with their troubled children and with their own personal problems, The Anatomy of Peace shows how to get past the preconceived ideas and self-justifying reactions that keep us from seeing the world clearly and dealing with it effectively.
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Publisher's Summary

Through an intriguing story of parents struggling with their troubled children and with their own personal problems, The Anatomy of Peace shows how to get past the preconceived ideas and self-justifying reactions that keep us from seeing the world clearly and dealing with it effectively.

Yusuf al-Falah, an Arab, and Avi Rozen, a Jew, each lost his father at the hands of the other's ethnic cousins. As the story unfolds, we discover how they came together, how they help warring parents and children to come together, and how we too can find our way out of the struggles that weigh us down.

The choice between peace and war lies within us. As one of the characters says, "A solution to the inner war solves the outer war as well." This book offers more than hope - it shows how we can prevent the conflicts that cause so much pain in our lives and in the world.

©2006 Arbinger Properties, Inc.; (P)2008 BBC Audiobooks America

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    Jennifer Weiss 03-08-15
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    "Awesome!"

    Always helpful, every time I read it or listen to it! Gives me a new way of looking at things and a way out of my own deception.

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    Rich 02-21-15
    Rich 02-21-15 Member Since 2012
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    "Practical and Enlightening"

    This is a great book, written in story form makes it easy to see and find practical application to the principles. I found it personally very revealing, if I apply what I learned I will be a better person.

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    sarndra Kennedy 02-18-15 Member Since 2015
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    "A must read, if you are struggling to communicate"
    What did you love best about The Anatomy of Peace?

    The way it changed the concept of how I saw everybody and everything


    What other book might you compare The Anatomy of Peace to and why?

    Leadership and self deception


    Which character – as performed by Oliver Wyman – was your favorite?

    Lou


    What did you learn from The Anatomy of Peace that you would use in your daily life?

    To look at everyone as if they were one of my own


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    Kaylyn Eagle Mountain, UT, United States 02-08-15
    Kaylyn Eagle Mountain, UT, United States 02-08-15 Member Since 2010
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    "Life changer!!!"

    I read Leadership and Self-Deception first and loved it too. The ideas in this book are life changing. I will definitely have to listen to it several times to fully grasp everything. I hope to start applying the principles taught into my life.

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    Judy 01-14-15
    Judy 01-14-15 Member Since 2015
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    "A Must-Read/Listen-To for Everyone!"

    This is one of those books that will truly change your life for good, if you allow it to. Excellent!

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    Sherry Calgary, Canada 08-23-14
    Sherry Calgary, Canada 08-23-14 Member Since 2007
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    "Peace starts within"

    In the first moments of the book when it talked about sending teens to a survival camp I was hooked and was more focussed on learning where this camp is and how can I send my own teen there. This was fleeting at best. As with all books designed to help oneself, I was quickly reminded that Peace starts within not with others with whom we do not have Peace with.

    I found myself nodding in agreement throughout most of the book as the narrative told the story of where "I" within the conflict which holds out Peace in my world. I found myself connecting to the characters, not just as parents, but as people.

    The narrator did an exceptional job in conveying the individuals and my attention was held rapt.

    The only thing I wished for was a .pdf download of the diagrams that they spoke about in the book. I will be buying either the actual book or downloading the kindle version in hopes of seeing those diagrams whilst listening again to the book.

    I feel that this will be a book to serve as a foundation for me and invite anyone to invest in absorbing its contents.

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    Niv Petach Tiqva, Israel 04-19-14
    Niv Petach Tiqva, Israel 04-19-14 Member Since 2015

    34 year old, married +2 wonderful kids. Like fantasy and self development: moral, humility, listening, relationship, kids education etc

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    "Nice approach for teaching."
    If you could sum up The Anatomy of Peace in three words, what would they be?

    The book is written as a story and via the story intends to teach a method for being at peace with yourself.
    Half way through the book I felt I learned nothing and intended to jump to my next learning.
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    Because the book is written as a story I was tempted to keep listening.
    And then the story made me cry, twice!
    So I completed the book.
    I feel I have learned a new concept which I started considering on my day to day interaction.
    I can also understand why the concept is more teachable via a story.
    And overall I'm happy to have read the book.
    However I don't know if I would recommend this to others as I'm not sure many would like this story approach for teaching.


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    Mike 05-14-13
    Mike 05-14-13 Member Since 2008

    Normal on the outside, something else on the inside. Kinda like a banana!

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    "Still learning from this book."
    Would you consider the audio edition of The Anatomy of Peace to be better than the print version?

    I think the audio edition to be better than the print version in all aspects but one. The audio edition has to describe the diagrams that are in the print edition. This is not a big factor if you can draw them out while listening, but a little harder while driving.


    What did you like best about this story?

    Like any good story this story teaches you while entertaining you. I liked how the author intertwined the lessons within the characters interactions.


    What about Oliver Wyman’s performance did you like?

    Oliver's voice is pleasant, and handled most of the voices well.


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    Yes.


    Any additional comments?

    The lessons this book is trying to teach you can have a profound impact on you (if you are willing to really, really listen).

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    Patricia 11-27-12
    Patricia 11-27-12
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    "Useful concept; written at about a 3rd-grade level"

    The concept in this book is very useful, and the whole world would run a lot more peacefully, if people would learn to look at themselves, when tension or conflict arises. In fact, many people credit this book and it's companion, Leadership and Self-Deception, with saving their families, or even their lives. It certainly did open avenues of conversation in my family. The book is written as a story, though, and is overly simplistic and really dumbed down. This may help it to reach a broader audience, but it was even too annoyingly patronizing for my teenagers. Nobody I know likes being talked down to.

    You certainly do NOT have to read/listen to both books. The concept is simple enough, though it takes the authors half the book to spin it out. The second half hammers the point home--and hammers and hammers... The performance was a little cloying--and the portrayal of women's voices was absolutely simpering and cartoonish, almost mocking.

    If I had read this book, I would have skimmed it, at best. Listening takes much too long.

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    Heather Sandy, UT, United States 08-08-12
    Heather Sandy, UT, United States 08-08-12
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    "Help understanding conflict and me"
    If you could sum up The Anatomy of Peace in three words, what would they be?

    Calm, eye-opening, insightful


    What was one of the most memorable moments of The Anatomy of Peace?

    Realizing what box I was in realizing that a lot of the problems I was having weren't coming from others but from myself


    Which character – as performed by Oliver Wyman – was your favorite?

    Lou


    Any additional comments?

    This was a life changing book and I'm glad I was reccomended to read it.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful

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