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Parenting Without Power Struggles: Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids While Staying Cool, Calm, and Connected | [Susan Stiffelman]

Parenting Without Power Struggles: Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids While Staying Cool, Calm, and Connected

While most parenting programs are designed to coerce kids to change, Parenting Without Power Struggles does something innovative, showing you how to help your children awaken their natural instincts to cooperate, rather than employing threats or bribes, which inevitably fuels their resistance. By staying calm and being the confident "captain of the ship" your child needs, you will learn how to parent from a place of strong, durable connection, and you'll be better able to help your kids navigate the challenging moments of growing up.
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Publisher's Summary

Do you ever find yourself asking...

  • How can you get your children to do their homework without meltdowns, threats, or bribes?
  • How can you have a drama-free morning where the kids actually get out the door in time for school?
  • How can you better manage your kids' screen time without making them want to hide what they're doing from you?

Family therapist Susan Stiffelman is here to help. While most parenting programs are designed to coerce kids to change, Parenting Without Power Struggles does something innovative, showing you how to help your children awaken their natural instincts to cooperate, rather than employing threats or bribes, which inevitably fuels their resistance. By staying calm and being the confident "captain of the ship" your child needs, you will learn how to parent from a place of strong, durable connection, and you'll be better able to help your kids navigate the challenging moments of growing up.

Drawing upon her successful practice and packed with real-life stories, Parenting Without Power Struggles is an extraordinary guidebook for transforming the day-to-day lives of busy parents - and the children they love.

Download the accompanying reference guide.

©2010 Susan Stiffelman (P)2013 Tantor

What the Critics Say

"Stiffelman's engaging work gives parents tools to navigate confidently in both calm and stormy family seas." (Publishers Weekly)

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    Nothing really matters Ottawa, Ontario, Canada 10-13-13
    Nothing really matters Ottawa, Ontario, Canada 10-13-13 Member Since 2014

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    "Highly recommended."

    This was a great book. It suggests a very caring and appealing parenting approach and the author's logic is hard to disagree with.

    I have already strengthened the relationship I have with my son using this author's advice and that to me is a priceless reward for buying "Parenting Without Power Struggles". My only quibble is that while the advice in this book will probably work with less compliant, stronger-willed children like my daughter, it seemed to me that it would take a long time to have the effect I needed to happen ASAP.

    I found "Setting Limits With Your Strong-Willed Child" worked quickly and effectively for my hard-case daughter, who was starting to drive me crazy. But, if I also follow the "Parenting Without Power Struggles" approach, I am sure that will deepen my relationship with her over the long-term. So, I'd recommend both books and both approaches, despite this author's distaste for time-outs and consequences.

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    Nicole H 04-18-15
    Nicole H 04-18-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Great book!"

    Very helpful for building a relationship with your kids, which then turns into an easier time parenting. I just bought her next book and I'm so excited to see what new things I can learn.

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    Allison 04-16-15
    Allison 04-16-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Truly helped"

    The voice of the author is so calming and the content goes beyond the surface into the heart of the issues and doesn't just offer support for the crazy moments but offers strategies to have a lifetime of connection and love with your children!

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    Monica 03-16-15
    Monica 03-16-15 Member Since 2015
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    "A must have for parents"

    I have listened to this book twice and each time I learn, grow, feel inspired and sometimes cry. Susan knows what she is talking about and it comes across calmly and effectively that anyone can implement what she recommends. Good luck!

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    Lauri 07-14-13
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    "Be the Captain of your ship."
    What did you love best about Parenting Without Power Struggles?

    Susan Stiffelmans voice is perfect to the reading of her book. She is calm, soothing and reassuring as you absorb her advice on Parenting without Power Struggles. Be the captian of your ship. Show your children that you can guide them through the rough and calm patches of day-to-day life, the ins and outs, and the operation of your home. Imagine how amazing it would feel to not get sucked into a back-and-forth verbal struggle with your kids about little things. And remember, you are the parent!


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