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Not 'Just Friends': Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity | [Shirley P. Glass, Jean Coppock Staeheli]

Not 'Just Friends': Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity

Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.
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Publisher's Summary

Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.

©2004 Shirley Glass, Jean Coppock Staeheli (P)2012 Brilliance Audio, Inc.

What the Critics Say

Not ‘Just Friends’ puts a new face on infidelity. The author, using clinical experience and current research, broadens its definition, causes, and means of resolution. I recommend it for anyone considering an affair, in an affair, or recovering from an affair.” (Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples)

“A must-read for anyone who ever hopes to be happy in a long-term relationship.” (Pat Love, Ed.D., author of The Truth About Love and Hot Monogamy)

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    Amazon Customer MEDFORD, OR, United States 11-05-12
    Amazon Customer MEDFORD, OR, United States 11-05-12 Listener Since 2009
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    "This book has changed my life. Amazing!"
    Where does Not 'Just Friends' rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    By far, the best self-help book that I've ever bought.


    What did you like best about this story?

    The book has changed my whole perspective on infedelity. I really CAN conquer infedelity and recuperate from it.


    What about Laural Merlington’s performance did you like?

    I wish I had even a 1/3 of her vocabulary! She's a walking dictionary which makes listening, much more attention-grabbing.


    Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

    The whole book reached to the depths of my soul and gently pulled me up. I no longer feel guilt, blame, shame or defective. It's not me.


    Any additional comments?

    This book is for the cheater and the cheated. It's for before, during and after infedelity. A MUST read for anyone entering a relationship of any kind.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Neal United States 09-19-13
    Neal United States 09-19-13 Listener Since 2008
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    "Ever heard 'Just Friends' or I love you BUT..."
    If you could sum up Not 'Just Friends' in three words, what would they be?

    This book is for anyone who has ever heard 'we are just friends' or I love you but i'm not in love with you or been involved in an affair (the betrayed, the affair partner OR lover) or even if you are trying to 'affair proof' your marriage... this book hits all angles and is very well written.

    I highly recommend it.


    What other book might you compare Not 'Just Friends' to and why?

    What makes love last or Hold me tight - because all three are a must have for all marriages.


    What does Laural Merlington bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    Very well read, it is a pleasure to listen too.


    What insight do you think you’ll apply from Not 'Just Friends'?

    Understanding affairs from many angles in an insightful way.


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    If your life has been touched by an affair, even if it is past and long gone... read this book.

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    Luke C. T. Kung Sahuarita, AZ, United States 09-04-12

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    Undecided. I am not sure if this is a biased writer.


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    The chapers ran together and half the time I didn't know that was almost at the end of the first half of the book.


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