Mode One

Let the Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking

By: Alan Roger Currie

Narrated by: Alan Roger Currie

As a man, when you decide that you want to express your romantic or sexual desires, interests, and intentions to a woman, how do you go about communicating those desires and interests to her?

Do you communicate your desires and interests to women in a cautious, vague, ambiguous, or "beat around the bush" manner?

Do you avoid approaching women and avoid initiating conversations with women altogether?

Do you regularly cheat on your wife or girlfriend behind her back?

Are you currently filled with so much bitterness, misogyny, and resentment toward women that you have no desire whatsoever to even interact with them?

In the audiobook version of Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're Really Thinking, author and professional dating coach Alan Roger Currie describes and examines what he refers to as the "Four Modes of Verbal Communication".

Currie makes the strong argument in his audiobook that the most effective interpersonal communication style that a man can exhibit with a woman is MODE ONE behavior, which represents when a man expresses his romantic or sexual desires, interests, and intentions to a woman in a manner that is bold, highly self-assured, up front, specific, and straightforwardly honest.

Currie harshly criticizes the idea of men maintaining disingenuous platonic friendships with women (what Currie refers to as "FunClubbin"), and he also points out that many men and women tend to exhibit behavior that is very duplicitous, dishonest, disingenuous, misleading, and manipulative when interacting with members of the opposite sex in today's dating scene.

Currie invites his male listeners to take notes while listening to each and every chapter (preprinted notes are available at modeone.net/journal/).

Warning: Some chapters in the audiobook include explicit language.

©1998, 1999, 2006 Alan Roger Currie (P)2014 Alan Roger Currie

A must listen to audio book for both men and women

What did you love best about Mode One?

First, I would warn my friends that Alan uses some "choice words" at times (profanity, X-rated language), but that aside, this is a very enlightening and entertaining audiobook. I have listened to Alan's popular podcast show on BlogTalkRadio, and his interviews are always worth listening to. Matter of fact, he includes excerpts from his two podcast programs in the audiobook. Alan does not mince words while offering advice to men on how to be more successful with women.

What was one of the most memorable moments of Mode One?

Most women prefer to have a long-term romantic and sex partner, but in this day and age, casual sex is also quite common. Alan offers some advice that I believe even most women would agree with, which is stop lying to women about what you really want (sex) and quit manipulating women's emotions to get what you want (again, sex). Women hate men who are liars, cheaters, and game-players!!

What about Alan Roger Currie’s performance did you like?

Author Alan Roger Currie speaks with a lot of conviction. You can tell that Alan has had more than his fair share of dating and sexual experiences with women. My only minor criticisms would be that Alan loves to really hammer down certain points of his (he repeats certain points as many as 3 or 4 times!) and as mentioned, he does use profanity and X-rated language in certain portions. I would not allow someone under 17 or 18 years of age to listen unless supervised by an adult

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

The audiobook content is definitely for men, but I genuinely enjoyed listening to it from a woman's point of view too. The main message seems to be, if you want to spark romantic interest in a woman, you have to have the courage and confidence to at least approach her and initiate a conversation with her.If you want to take it a step further and persuade a woman to indulge in more casual sex with you, then you really have to show women that you have a nice pair of big brass balls!! (women love super-confident men!)Chapter 10 (or what really should be listed as Chapter 8) is the marquee chapter. I am now going to be on the lookout for men who behave in Mode 2, Mode 3, or Mode 4 instead of Mode 1.

Any additional comments?

Alan is going to ask you to take a LOT of notes while listening. Women who listen can pretty much ignore the note-taking exercises, but I would suggest that the men take as many notes as possible. (Alan has some pre-printed notes available on his website)I think the audiobook is a good listen for BOTH sexes. Alan does not teach any methods or techniques that are deceitful or manipulative in nature, which is why he earned my respect as a woman. His teachings centre on bold, upfront, balls out honesty with women. And either women say Yay or Nay. If a woman says "Nay," Alan suggests you just simply move on to the next woman of interest. I think the audiobook is an excellent listen for even a woman!!

moooooodde oooooooonnnnee

I feel like this book was the shoestring that tied everything together. I've read a lot of dating books over the years. I started out with books such as how to succeed in dating and Neil Strauss' the game. Reading such books we're nice and changed my thinking about what was actually possible however it did not increase my prowess as a man on the face of the Earth. So I feel like this book, coming at the end of various books, helpful ones such as Robert Glover's no more mr. nice guy and David deida's the way of the superior man, help to solidify all that I had learned in subsequent books even going back to my 20s. I feel confident now that I don't have to play the game anymore waste time waste money and catch feelings for women that are not primed to my frequency. I know that it doesn't differ much but the only critique that I have for this book is; I wish you would have said more about the polyamorous community and how a married polyamorous man could apply this tactic in that specific situation. All that aside, this book is worth the price if you only listen to chapter 9 which is really chapter 8. Alan Rodger Currie, if you happen to glance over this, I would like to say, I love you man. This information is the type of information that boys all over the world need to hear. This is truly what separates the men from the boys. You came up with this concept when I was 2 years old and had my father told it to me, I would not have had the problems I had in middle school and high school, in college, and out of college. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I will go on to grab every book that you put on audible because I feel like you have something to say. I feel like you as opposed to all the other dating gurus are not just talkin theory and that there's an air of Truth in all that you say. I can't wait until I can actually apply this in the real world and I can't wait to read the next book which I've already purchased on audible, oooooh say it again. Words really don't express my gratitude and I hope that wherever you are and whatever you're doing, that there are many blessings that are on your plate, that are in your way, and that whatever you want relentlessly pursues you. Blessings

Excellent!

Where does Mode One rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

This book was really good. I never herd of Allen Roger Currie, but wish I had known about how to deal with women and relationships 20 years ago. Every guy needs to read this book.

Who was your favorite character and why?

Alan Roger Currie of course.

Which scene was your favorite?

No special parts. All of the parts are unique and special.

If you were to make a film of this book, what would the tag line be?

Mode One Baby!

Total Alpha Male

This is a gem of a book. No bullshitting, no dishonesty just straight to the point. I especially love the chapter on Total Alpha Males and Alpha Males with beta traits. I’m the latter by the way but after reading this book I’m ready to transition to the former to get laid more often than I am now. Thanks Allan Roger Currie
P.S - I’ve listened to all three of your audiobooks. It’s a must have collection for every heterosexual male out there.

This is it,on point,practice..it works

The truth is honesty works,Along with courage to be rejected.I 'm older now was married,now im not,forgot the play..it brought memories of just whispering in her ear getting the 😃 and the drawers..no dinner,no movie,no money ..just the whisper...allen lays it down