©2005 Dr. Kevin Leman; (P)2009 Oasis Audio
If you get frustrated easily or yell a lot, the advice in this book will help give you some ideas on how to stay focused and calm in the various situations that are all to common with the littles. I borrowed this audio book from the library first and decided to have it in my audio library to refresh when needed (I mean all the time).
This book has been life-changing for my wife and I. We were always asking our kids (we have 4) 3-5 times to do basic tasks such as put the toys away, go up to your room to get dressed for bed, get in the car and get buckled. By the 3rd request our voices were elevating and by the 5th time we were yelling. Our kids were programmed to only operate once our voices reached a certain volume. This book gave us the skills needed to ask only once and to have a plan ahead of time if you have to ask twice. Our blood pressure is much less and our kids are responding the first time. It feels like a miracle and this only took 1 week to implement. We are happier and our kids are much happier and respectful.
I only have one child and he just turned two, but I found this book super applicable to my life even with a toddler. I suppose this isn't everyone's parenting style, but it sure is mine. This book was firm and refreshing in a world of "crunchy", permissive, hippy parents that are too scared to discipline their kids. Loved it and will read it again! I need to own it in a physical copy, too. Thumbs up from me.
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