Out of nowhere, like a fresh breeze in a marketplace crowded with advice on what to believe, comes Byron Katie and what she calls "The Work". In the midst of a normal life, Katie became increasingly depressed, and over a 10-year period sank further into rage, despair, and thoughts of suicide. Then one morning, she woke up in a state of absolute joy, filled with the realization of how her own suffering had ended. The freedom of that realization has never left her, and now, in Loving What Is, you can discover the same freedom through The Work.
The Work is simply four questions that, when applied to a specific problem, enable you to see what is troubling you in an entirely different light. As Katie says, "It's not the problem that causes our suffering; it's our thinking about the problem." Contrary to popular belief, trying to let go of a painful thought never works; instead, once we have done The Work, the thought lets go of us. At that point, we can truly love what is, just as it is.
Loving What Is will show you step-by-step, through clear and vivid examples, exactly how to use this revolutionary process for yourself. You'll see people do The Work with Katie on a broad range of human problems, from a wife ready to leave her husband because he wants more sex, to a Manhattan worker paralyzed by fear of terrorism, to a woman suffering over a death in her family. Many people have discovered The Work's power to solve problems; in addition, they say that through The Work they experience a sense of lasting peace and find the clarity and energy to act, even in situations that had previously seemed impossible.
©2002 Byron Kathleen Mitchell; (P)2002 Audio Literature
"With warm and nicely chosen interventions with audience members, the authors demonstrate the essentials of accepting realities in others we can't change. It's a hard-charging message, at times relentless, that will shake up any listeners whose lives are held up because of nagging blame or anger toward others." (AudioFile)
If you are a truth seeker, this book was written just for you. It is life changing and amazing. She is pure love and truth and your self just knows this. When you listen you are just blown away by her wisdom, that clearly is not her's but all of ours. I loved it.. I wish I could thank her, but I can by thanking our Universe.
As Katie says there are no mistakes and this book is just that - no mistake. It is a ray of warm golden sunshine to a mind full of dark unpleasant thoughts. I can now see a way into that sunshine of the mind and am doing "the work" little by little every day. Thank you so much Katie
Dr Frank Shallenberger recommended this book to me and it has really helped me to see things for what they are instead of making myself miserable because they are not the way I wish. This has become the book I have given away the most to those who matter to me.
This is great material, and the audiobook is a good adjunct to the written work. I was disappointed by how much the audiobook is abridged from the written.
The big plus to the audio version is being able to the actual interviews.
A down to earth real way to address our "demons", who really are inreality ourselves is disguise. A Wonderful book of self discovery and freedom ... It really is all about us afterall.
I really liked this author's common sense approach to making the concept of non resistance real. For me it really drove home the link it has to our happiness with ourselves and our relationships.
This is listening at its best. Hearing the voices of those that Katy is guiding through the questions change from immense pain and sadness to laughter and playfullness was so powerful that I have listened to this over and over during the past few weeks. Their stories and the work they did were deeply touching and helped me to get through some issues that had been very difficult for me. Thank you Katie and Audible!
This book is especially good if you do it! katie lays it all out, and the actual interviews of 5 people are on the tape (it's abridged I just noticed, which explains why you don't hear about the NYC woman or the terrorist fears). I've started my second listen. I've developed new understanding and feelings about my 9th grader wanting to play video games all the time! "the work" or "inquiry" as she calls it rates 10 stars, I only gave four because I agree with the difficulty navigating the download, but it's easy with an ipod.
This is a really excellent self help book. I'm getting a lot out of it. But it is missing a bookmarks, segment marks or tracks which would make it easier to navigate from one issue or topic.
Ok, it's a clich? but this is really a wonderful book that has the potential to change your life.
Clean, pure and simple.
It's great, wonderful, strong and insightful book, filled with ideas and guidance.
Read this book!
"This book has changed my life"
I can't recommend this book enough. It has changed my life for the better. Thanks to Byron Katie I now know the true meaning of happiness and success. I wish I had read it years ago, it would have enabled me to cut out all the years of feeling not quite good enough. If this review means that just one person downloads this book it will make the effort of this review worthwhile.
"Life changing book"
Never read the print but I think this is best suited to an audio book because of the amount of dialogue in it. Actually hearing the recorded sessions and how participants react is what makes the book.
There was no story per se
No characters either. This is a non-fiction book so not applicable.
Yes absolutely, and I almost did!
Get this book, it could change your life!
"A superb, very clear and highly effective"
This book it absolutely superb. It comes across as very honest, truthful and straight to the point, yet with absolute kindness and love. Katie's own story is fascinating and she shares her own Truth in the same manner as she facilitates 'the work', with total integrity. I cannot recommend 'loving what is' enough for anybody who is prepared to 'get their hands dirty' and get to the real issues holding you back in life.
It made me laugh out loud at times, and, also made me look deeply and honestly at myself as well.
This is a 'must buy' for anybody that genuinely wants to transform their life for the better
"Being ok with the now"
My whole life I have always resisted what was happening to me. I would get frustrated and angry when things were supposed to go my way and didn't. Byron Katie shows me that the mind creates my own reality and my thoughts dictate the world I perceive to live in. Answering four questions and turning them around opened my eyes to what was really happening in my life. Loving What Is has transformed me into a more open-hearted and accepting person. Please listen to this book, it will set you free if you let it.
Wisdom, truth and self-examination
Everything difficulty is conquerable when you examine the truth of your thoughts and beliefs.
It's a more human delivery, much more personal.
Listening to the first examination of a person Katie Byron coached.
"What an encounter!"
This is the first time I am being introduced to Byron Katie's work. At first, I felt very awkward towards the simplicity with which she exposes life's most threatening and stressful events. But keeping an open mind while listening further and trying to apply the technique presented, I realized that life can be as simple as it is, with no drama. So, many thanks for sharing with the world a simple yet valuable philosophical way of approaching life!
Another feature that also made very pleased with this purchase is that, as being new to audio books, and as Katie herself narrates "Loving What Is" (together with Stephen Mitchell and adding audio excerpts from her seminars), it made the entire experience of listening to her book very alive, as if Katie and I were having a conversation, as two good friends.
This is the first time I'd encountered Katie following a recommendation from a friend. As they say; 'when the student is ready the teacher will appear' and she really teaches a different way to think in ways that could change your thoughts about any negative life situations forever...
"Great awakemomg call"
Forget about gurus, self-help messiahs and prophets of the new order. This is a very simple approach to facing our lives and ask tough questions about our deepest fears and worries. The audiobook is very crude, at times even shocking, made more dramatic by the real-life extracts included. But this makes it more valuable.
It's not about being right or wrong, it's about stopping our poisonous thoughts and dare to ask very simple questions. Thoroughly recommended.
"Amazing and life changing"
Relevant, uplifting, necessary
The real life examples, the interviews she has with people and the selection of people chosen cut across different generations, roles and problems I'm life so that many people are likely to identify themselves with the people and problems discussed in the book.
The discussion with the mother suffering from depression with a crying baby
Yes, but also to read it several times over!!
This book is almost like the perfect reference book or life manual!!
"This will open your eyes! A must read."
Yes. The dialogues couldn't be replicated in the print version.
It is a simple view on how to radically alter the way you approach life.
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