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Love Is a Choice

By: Dr. Robert Hemfelt, Dr. Frank Minirth, Dr. Paul Meier
Narrated by: Christopher Solimene
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In Love Is a Choice, best-selling doctors Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, and Paul Meier walk you through their 10 proven stages to recovery from codependency that results from external circumstances. Humans are susceptible to codependency because of our sinful tendency to use defense mechanisms to fool ourselves. In codependent relationships, deceitful games are played, and important Christian principles are often taken out of context and abused. God wants us to have healthy relationships with a balance between being dependent and independent.

The doctors describe how the most effective means of overcoming codependent relationships is to establish or deepen a relationship with Christ himself. They describe the causes of codependency, pointing out the factors that perpetuate it, and lead listeners through their 10 stages of recovery.

©1989 Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, and Paul Meier (P)2017 Tantor

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The authors have a Excellent track record. This book provides a practical review of Codependency. it's great prep for personal councling.

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Self-help book with some Christian parts.

This book truly broadened my definition of what codependency looks like. Lots of successful people are struggling with these issues.

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Great book - horrible presentation

I love the book’s content. But this staccato reading is painful to absorb. I will probably listen to the whole thing but this is brutal.

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Amazing book truly life changing!

The book is fantastic truly life changing and eye opening!

The voice narrating it is god awful!

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Great information in this book.

This book was very helpful in my understanding of healthy relationships. I recommend this book.

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Great book. Terrible narration!

The content of the book is incredible, but the person reading it is worse than a computer voice. I had to order the paperback to read it again so I can really get the full impact of the author’s intentions.

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good overall but religious oriented

the book overall is good but I didn't appreciate that pushes a lot a religious point of view and as a key portion for recovery.

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A very revelatory read, a tool for healing.

It's focus on the symptoms of and reasons and means for overcoming co-dependency and how to avoid causing it by poor choices in the next generation was incredible. I found myself initially recognizing elements in others at varying degrees and them some in myself. Priceless. I'm ordering the print version now!

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Healing

Explains codependency completely! It then explains in great detail how to heal from it! Great book!!!!

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Life changing

It revealed to me the hidden gems I could not understand about how my past is the reason for my current mental state. I learned how to come in terms of what has happened in order to live a happier life.

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