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I Love You but I Don’t Trust You Audiobook

I Love You but I Don’t Trust You: The Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in Your Relationship

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Publisher's Summary

Is my relationship worth saving? Will the trust ever come back? How can things be good between us again? Whether broken trust is due to daily dishonesties, a monumental betrayal, or even a history of hurts from the past, it can put a relationship at risk. This is the first book to show you exactly what to do to restore trust in your relationship, regardless of how it was damaged.

In this complete guide, couples therapist Mira Kirshenbaum will also help you understand the stages by which trust strengthens when the rebuilding process is allowed to take place. And you will learn how the two of you can avoid the mistakes that prevent healing and discover how to feel secure with each other again.

©2012 Mira Kirshenbaum (P)2016 Tantor

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    Carol Crawley 12-12-16 Member Since 2013
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    "Very eye opening!"

    This book really helped me understand there are different kinds of betrayal that eat away at trust. I always new I didn't feel safe in my relationship of 26 years, but I couldn't put my finger on it. This book opened my eyes and confirmed my feelings, helped me put a label to what I was feeling which also confirmed that no I am not crazy and no I am not being unreasonable. I read this book in 3 days! By the way I'm an MFT and I will definitely be using what I learned from this book with my clients. So so good!

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    Jeff 08-25-16
    Jeff 08-25-16 Member Since 2016
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    "Exactly what I needed. Thank you!"

    Very insightful. This is THE road map back to trust. This was exactly what I needed. Thank you!

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Sunly Chan 03-13-17
    Sunly Chan 03-13-17
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    "Great book"

    This book was very helpful. I would recommend this to anyone who wants to rebuilt trust in relationships. A lot of key points and very easy to follow and understand.

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    mizzaga 01-13-17
    mizzaga 01-13-17 Member Since 2015
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    "Amazing advice"

    This woman is incredibly insightful and a beautiful soul. She gave me practical advice and tools for deep introspection.

    As for the reviews about her swearing....

    Effing grow up. It was appropriate when used. She identified with my emotions through the use of those words. Your offense to language is NOT a reason to disregard this amazing work.

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    ivan 12-29-16
    ivan 12-29-16 Member Since 2016
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    "Sup"

    This audio book gave me a much needed insight and change of view in the way I was approaching my own relationship. In hearing this book I gained the confidence to continue mending my relationship.

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    Maria tania 12-14-16
    Maria tania 12-14-16
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    "I loved it."

    everything in this book is great. it touched many points I wasn't able to speak to anyone about. thanks

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    Lauri M. 12-14-16
    Lauri M. 12-14-16
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    "I'm a better person since reading this."
    Would you listen to I Love You but I Don’t Trust You again? Why?

    I started readying this book because I felt betrayed. As the words continued, it was like a light bulb went off. If I want to be able to trust again, then I really need to change the way I looked and acted about the situation. I completely surprised my husband by this and he is skeptical still, but by changing the way I reacted to things (the opposite of what I would normally do) I found that I could be more open and understanding to what happened. I figured it would take a long time to get over, but it didn't and I am much happier because of it. I shared this book with my husband so hopefully it helps him as well. I highly recommend this book.


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    marshomwiggle 12-13-16
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    "It was okay"

    It was okay. Had some good points but wasn't a fan I'd the swearing rants and the last part where the author says I've told you how to trust, now go do it. It's easy. Okay, if she says that she must not have been betrayed so much that it was easy to rebuild trust.

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    kenneth v. 08-30-16
    kenneth v. 08-30-16 Member Since 2014
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    "was so so"

    i found this book had a few good points but was mostly just an ok read

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    Kirstin 11-04-16
    Kirstin 11-04-16
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    "too many swear words"

    the F word and all others were used. this is supposed to be a self help book, but I felt harmed in the process. if swear words don't bother you - it has great concepts and ideas to work through

    0 of 2 people found this review helpful

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