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How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk | [Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish]

How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk

Internationally acclaimed parenting experts Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish have helped millions of families with their breakthrough, best-selling books. Now, they return with a lively, down-to-earth guide that tackles the tough issues teens and parents face today. After years of research, lecturing, and feedback, Faber and Mazlish have developed an innovative approach to maintaining a candid, open, mutually respectful dialogue between parents and teens.
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Publisher's Summary

Internationally acclaimed parenting experts Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish have helped millions of families with their breakthrough, best-selling books How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk, Siblings Without Rivalry, and Liberated Parents, Liberated Children. Now, they return with a lively, down-to-earth guide that tackles the tough issues teens and parents face today. After years of research, lecturing, and feedback, Faber and Mazlish have developed an innovative approach to maintaining a candid, open, mutually respectful dialogue between parents and teens. It's a strategy that curbs conflict, reduces frustration, and promotes thoughtful communication about everything from curfews and drugs to schoolwork and sex.

Written in Faber and Mazlish's trademark accessible style, How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk takes you inside their acclaimed workshops where you will hear, in the words of both parents and teens, what's on the minds of families today. Packed with suggestions that are easy to implement, and reinforced with stories, this indispensable volume will help build a foundation for a healthy relationship that puts the emphasis on rapport rather than reprisals. From age-old concerns about cliques and dating to contemporary worries about binge drinking and cyberbullying, Faber and Mazlish help parents tackle problems before they get out of hand. In their warm, lucid, unpatronizing manner, the authors show families how to be supportive and stay connected during the challenging teenage years.

©2005 Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish; (P)2005 HarperCollins Publishers

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    Robert Chico, CA, USA 01-06-07
    Robert Chico, CA, USA 01-06-07 Member Since 2002
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    "Got Teens?"

    Raising teenagers is a huge challenge in every way, but particularly with respect to communication. This invaluable book gives excellent pratical suggestions on how to communicate with your teen in all of the critical areas. Based on decades of experience, the two authors share their useful techniques and ideas. It is a resource I listen to over and over.

    9 of 10 people found this review helpful
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    Lea Gladewater, TX, United States 08-13-13
    Lea Gladewater, TX, United States 08-13-13 Member Since 2009

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    "Good basic info and somewhat motivational but...."

    It will make you feel like it is possible to interact with your teen in a more positive way.

    I will finish this book, and I am sure I will even listen more than once so that I can apply some worthy ideas and techniques. But the reviews that say the authors were 'trying to act' and that they felt they were being 'talked down to,' those reviews were spot on. The narration is a turn off, unfortunately. Overblown phrasing when a nice simple reading would have conveyed the information so much better, and I don't hate accents but their accents are annoying. I'll listen in spurts!

    3 of 3 people found this review helpful
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    Michelle Wheat Ridge, CO, USA 07-23-08
    Michelle Wheat Ridge, CO, USA 07-23-08
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    "5 Stars all the way"

    This was a fabulous book, chocked full of very specific details and directions on how to do what she is telling you to do. A lot of what she had to say I had already learned form other material that I have, but I will say even though I already had heard most of what she had to teach in this book (all wonderful, incredible, fabulous things by the way) she did give me many a light bulb moment and helped me to see where I could and should be using these skills more! This should be a 5 star book for any one else in need of a little parenting advice or help as long as you can ignore the voice! LOL

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Celia Johannesburg, South Africa 07-23-12
    Celia Johannesburg, South Africa 07-23-12
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    "Listened to this again and again"

    I have listened to Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish again and again. Each chapter needs to be practiced and re-inforced so that the skills become 2nd nature, so I find myself repeating and reviewing chapters periodically.

    When my children were younger, I attended a video "workshop" on their book "How to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk." The principles in this book focussed on adolescents are the same, but the examples that they use are relevant to teens and teen-parenting. They are so relevant that I felt like they were talking directly to me. Did they have a surveillance camera in my house, so that they could hear exactly what happened between my teens and me?

    Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish narrate their own book. Their narration is genuine and sincere, almost like my grandmother giving me parenting advice.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Roxanne Elizabethtown, KY, USA 02-14-08
    Roxanne Elizabethtown, KY, USA 02-14-08
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    "Might be OK with different narrators"

    The authors are narrating and their voices are so monotone and boring that I couldn't listen. Maybe the printed book would be better for this one.

    2 of 3 people found this review helpful
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    Andrea United States 10-10-13
    Andrea United States 10-10-13 Member Since 2012
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    "Overall a good reminder of how to treat your teens"
    What did you like best about How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk? What did you like least?

    I work with teen girls so I thought this book would be helpful for work. The book has some good points and good practices for talking to teens. This stuff should be common scence, but it is not.


    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    John M Williams Sykesville, MD, US 04-25-13
    John M Williams Sykesville, MD, US 04-25-13
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    "Book was ok and provided good general guidance"

    Good techniques, but examples were "rigged". The author(s) would run through two examples one before the techniques were applied and one after.

    In the examples without techniques, the teenagers were belligerent, defiant, and smart asses. In the examples with the techniques there was some of the same teenage activity, but they quickly complied, which I just found hard to believe.

    Although the examples seem poor, the techniques do have use and can improve things. I suspect that there are things out there that are better, but until I find it, these are not that bad. I'd say C+ or 3/5.

    Also, author(s) were very slow to talk. I started trying to listen at 1.25.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Nicole Carmel, IN, United States 11-05-12
    Nicole Carmel, IN, United States 11-05-12
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    "Felt like I was being talked down to"
    Is there anything you would change about this book?

    I would make it more informational and not a story. I would also have it read by someone other than the authors.


    Has How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk turned you off from other books in this genre?

    I did not need a story to learn the concepts.


    How could the performance have been better?

    The authors were trying to act and it was so unbelievable it turned me off.


    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Jerusha LOUISVILLE, KY, United States 07-17-12
    Jerusha LOUISVILLE, KY, United States 07-17-12 Listener Since 2010
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    "Good listen for teen parents..."
    If you could sum up How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk in three words, what would they be?

    Book is helpful.


    What was one of the most memorable moments of How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk?

    When the teenagers give their point of view.


    What about Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish ’s performance did you like?

    Very well done.


    What did you learn from How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk that you would use in your daily life?

    This book provides so many useful tips and suggestions I go back and listen again the more I work with my children (teens) I learn and use the book as a deterrence guide. It is helpful with many of my life situtations. I would have to say I am stol learning from this book.


    Any additional comments?

    Highly recommended if your patience have ran out. This book helps you speak wit your teen and helps you get your teen to speak to you without attitude or fuss. It is nice to have real conversations again.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Kimber Holly Springs, NC, United States 06-20-11
    Kimber Holly Springs, NC, United States 06-20-11 Member Since 2009
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    "Really works!"

    I have an 18 year old daughter and I wish I'd listened to this book years ago. I immediately saw results after applying the skills taught in this book and life has been much easier. I've gone through at least 3 or 4 other books trying to figure out how to deal with the teen drama and this book by far has been the best.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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