Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "I'm in love with you and want to be with you".
He's Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out", consider the glorious thought that maybe He's Just Not That Into You. And then set yourself loose to find the one who is.
©2004 Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo; (P)2004 Simon & Schuster Audio
"By all means read this smart, funny, and surprisingly upbeat little book." (Publishers Weekly)
Definitely help me understand that He's NOT that into Me! and there's nothing I can do about it. Lobe yourself first and the rest will come :) Recommended! also listen to It's Call a Breakout because it's Broken! somethings like this one were Hard to listen.. but very true!!! women can hold to a fake fantasy for so long and don't realize that is better to LET GO
All I have to say is you have to get this book. Period. That is my review!
Oh wow and the level of language? It's depressing and uninspiring. And the lady is yelling and getting all emotional. Can you have some dignity and speak in an upbeat tone that makes you sound intelligent? Guess not
This book suggests that women who date a guy who is sending her mixed signals truly is just not that into her. Women, quit reading into mixed signals. A guy who is into you will make his feelings known and very clear. Wait for that guy who will do this and accept nothing less because you're worth it.
As someone who was particularly embarrassed to buy this book and say I actually own it, I can say with complete certainty that I NEEDED TO READ/HEAR THIS. After recently having yet another wishy-washy guy come into and then out of my life (extreme interest and then complete ghosting), I had had enough. Screw embarrassment. I already felt embarrassed ... and ashamed that this had happened to me. I needed to realize that this wasn't about me not being good enough, fun enough, pretty enough, interesting enough, or smart enough. This is about the fact that I (and every woman) DESERVE better, and that we shouldn't settle. As Liz says, I too am a pessimist, but I want to believe that I deserve better and will get better as a result of my FAITH (Greg). I'm so thankful for this book, and am also reading "It's Just A F***ing Date." I highly suggest both books. Thank you to the writers for making these books!
I really enjoyed this book. I think we all need to start believing we deserve what's best for ourselves and stop making excuses for the lame men we find ourselves obsessing over. It seems so simple and so easy to know when someone isn't into you but clearly it's not that easy!! it's actually really hard and this book points that out. I loved it!
I loved this book so much, it really was an eye opener and I think all women should read this book to really carry with them as they weave in and out of relationships to truly value themselves and stop putting themself diwn for things beyond their control. Ive recommended this book 3X before I even finished it, and am so glad I chose the audio book over the physical copy.
Thank you Greg for explaining to me that, all the obsessing , crying, reasoning and angry amount to he is just not in to you. That guys can be real "dicks" and not every women understands all of the codes for why they cannot commit, love or care enough to be honest. Men can be complicated. I will re omens this book to ALL OF MY girlfriends it's a must read.
I'm a male listener, just wanted to know female perspective on relationships. Yes I will agree most of the things are true, and I am one of those guys who is the one that is not that into her. I am half way in the audiobook and find that I'm already bored, because I already know all that they are talking about. But it's true, if I am really into someone I will do whatever it takes to be with her. For the girls, best thing they can do is, if they found out that the guy is really not that into them, they should just move on, the situation will never change. And when the guy find someone he is really into, he will do anything to get her. Of course then the woman has the power.
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