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He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys | [Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo]

He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

He's Just Not That Into You, based on the popular episode of Sex and the City, educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.
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He's Just Not That Into You, based on the popular episode of Sex and the City, educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.

Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "I'm in love with you and want to be with you".

He's Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out", consider the glorious thought that maybe He's Just Not That Into You. And then set yourself loose to find the one who is.

©2004 Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo; (P)2004 Simon & Schuster Audio

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"By all means read this smart, funny, and surprisingly upbeat little book." (Publishers Weekly)

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    Anon 12-28-04
    Anon 12-28-04
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    "Wish I'd known all this years ago!"

    Everything in this book seems like plain truth to me, since I've already learned most of it the hard way. I'm approaching geezerhood, though. As for all you spring chickens - if you can get the message now, you will save yourself years of wasting time on the wrong guys.

    A couple of minor criticisms: the authors assume that all women are looking for The One (not necessarily true), and I found Liz's insistent tone a little irritating sometimes. Nevertheless, I heartily recommend this book to all women.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Niall 03-27-12
    Niall 03-27-12 Member Since 2010
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    "Wow! So many questions have the same answer!"
    This book wasn’t for you, but who do you think might enjoy it more?

    Maybe I just don't like this book because I am a guy and I generally assume that girls are not into me unless I have a reason to think otherwise. This book is just a very long list of women asking the same question and getting the same answer: There is this guy- I like him but he doesn't seem to like me- What's wrong? The answer is invariably


    Has He's Just Not That Into You turned you off from other books in this genre?

    No, I love the genre- I like thinking about how people think. This might have even been a decent sentence or paragraph in a good book. But here is what it did not need to be A FULL BOOK. It's the same thing over and over- Hell, just read the cover- you already know the question-- you already know the answer-- Why spend hours hearing it repeated like a mantra? Is is to hypnotize you into acceptance?


    You didn’t love this book... but did it have any redeeming qualities?

    One of the co authors was a man and to him this was all pretty obvious-- so maybe I'm not the one who took the crazy pills


    Any additional comments?

    Lemme save you some time, ladies.
    Q: I like this guy but he won't go to dinner with me
    A: He's just not that into you
    Q: I like this boy and we are the same age! Why does he keep looking at other women?
    A: He's just not that into you
    Q: I keep flirting but nothing works! What's wrong?
    A: He's just not that into you
    Q: I told him I was into him and asked if he felt the same and he said

    6 of 8 people found this review helpful
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    Lynn Sunnyside, NY, United States 11-16-11
    Lynn Sunnyside, NY, United States 11-16-11
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    "Buy This Book"

    I am 58, and wish I had read this when I was 15. It would have saved me untold suffering.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Bridget 07-10-11
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    "Hilarious, Smart and Enlightening!"

    I've enjoyed every minute of this audiobook, it had me laughing out loud at many parts, the example letters from women were so familiar, either out of my own experiences or out of the experiences of women I have known. Two of the letters really took me aback as I felt like I could have written them myself. You would almost think that a book devoted to enlighten women that the man they have been with or are with now isn't that into you would kind of bring a person down, but it's uplifting, empowering and they are constantly boosting up the listener's self confidence. I would recommend this book to any woman, I think the advice and knowledge it gives the listener is so important, so useful and put in such a witty and knowledgeable way!

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    candice goleta, CA, United States 08-27-10
    candice goleta, CA, United States 08-27-10 Member Since 2013
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    "best audiobook i have ever bought"

    i dont normally write these but i felt this book was so helpful that i owed it a review. this book tells it like it is, it helped me understand what all those things i spend all night thinking about, all mean the same thing... hes just not that into you... after going though this book twice i got the courage and selfesteem to throw my guy out... and i know i made the rite choice. the book is upfront and witty, is blunt but kind, you feel like a stronger women just from hearing it. this book is for women of any age, i feel like i should have known this stuff in high school so i would not have and to deal with some losers i have dated. i will admit the female voice may sound a little annoying at times but u get used to it rite away and it really is worth it. if not buy the hard copy

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    Lu Johns Creek, GA, United States 10-16-09
    Lu Johns Creek, GA, United States 10-16-09 Member Since 2001
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    "Eye-opening"

    Sometimes it takes a common sense book to open your eyes to what is really going on (or not going on) in a relationship, and this book provided just that. I owe a lot to the message and appreciate being able to listen to it.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    R. Burdick Land O' Lakes, Florida USA 07-18-09
    R. Burdick Land O' Lakes, Florida USA 07-18-09 Listener Since 2009
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    "Outstanding Book!"

    I got this for my daughter. I wish I had been able to read a book like this when I was younger. It would have saved me a lot of grief over the years. Every woman should read this book several times. This book gives excellent, realistic, and practical advice and is entertaining as well.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Bogdel Denver, CO United States 06-26-09
    Bogdel Denver, CO United States 06-26-09 Member Since 2013
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    "Straightforward and Helpful"

    Very practical and straightforward. Good humor for tough issues. Good listening.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Liam lansing, MI, USA 02-19-09
    Liam lansing, MI, USA 02-19-09
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    "im a gay guy, and if you are too GRAB THIS BOOK"

    ok so i had to make a mental effort to change gender specific statements, but this book really empowered me to stand up for myself and say "no more"! its been 3 weeks now and i feel great! this guy had been leading me on for two years, my friends were sick of hearing about it and i was in a really pathetic place, settling for rare "crumbs of love" from this a-hole. listening to stories of others who had the same crap going on helped me to feel not-so-alone, and reminded me that i'm an awesome guy who deserves someone who really is "into to me", read it,listen to it do whatever you need to to get this priceless kick in the arse!

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Misty Winston Salem, NC, USA 01-28-09
    Misty Winston Salem, NC, USA 01-28-09
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    "Funny and entertaining!!"

    The things we girls always knew but just needed to hear from a guy! Now, every time something doesn't work out the way I had hoped, I'll just think oh well, I guess he wasn't that into me...his loss. Good listen as the narrators are funny and comical.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful

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