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Help! I’m in Love with a Narcissist

By: Steven Carter, Julia Sokol
Narrated by: Steven Menasche
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"Narcissism - the relationship issue of our times." In Help! I’m in Love With a Narcissist, narrated with tender concern and in a helpful and plainspoken way by Steven Menasche, the listener who loves someone who love themselves more is cordially counseled on the different ways to build a workable, long-term relationship with such significant others obsessed with their own self.

Several different narcissistic relationship scenarios are told and discussed, ultimately leading to this self-help audiobook’s viewpoint that the road to loving a narcissist isn’t easy, but it’s navigable. Written by the best-selling authors of Men Who Can’t Love.

Publisher's summary

Written with the compassionate language that people have come to rely upon and expect from these proven relationship experts, this book goes beyond an explanation of the condition to help men and women avoid the self-destructive permanence of remaining with people incapable of loving anyone but themselves.

©2005 Steven Carter and Julia Sokol Coopersmith (P)2012 Audible, Inc.

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Very insightful

I loved the examples of people who actually went through the process. I honestly understand that this a real illness

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everything I didn't know

learned so much about the man I've been dating from this book. at times I thought they were talking about him directly..

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Very spot on and thorough!

Loved this audible. It was thorough and informative and VALIDATING!! I would totally recommend this book to anyone who has suffered from the abuse of a narcissist.

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Wow!

This is such a wonderful book I learned so much about myself, my family, my partners and why I choose the things I do. I am so ready for the next chapter in my life.

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Awesome

I’m so glad I listened to this book it was just the motivation, inspiration and information that I needed to get myself back on the right track. Awesome book for anyone that has been involved in a narcissistic relationship.
The lesson that I learned is “I’m in love with a narcissist but I have to love myself more and stay away from them.

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Interesting read with some good points.

It gave me much to think about. Made me think about several perspectives. it is not just black and white but true to melf too.

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Help! I’m in Love with a Narcissist

Very informative, lots of practical ideas on how to heal if this is your situation. Author is very knowledgeable with real life experiences of counseling such individuals.

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Relatable

I appreciate this book and the tools given throughout. All situations and scenarios won't fit into what you're going through but it is very interesting to listen to other narcissistic behavior to potentially watch out for. Using the tips given in this book for how I can navigate staying with a narcissist has already improved my relationship. The work is never done, but I enjoyed this book and will continue to educate myself.

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This is an immediate REPLAY for me!!
Very informative and educational. My new go-to audio! I’ll be downloading the associated books too A+++

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eye opening

very informative, made me reflect on myself and relationship. thank you for this book now I need way more information.

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