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Congratulations! You have a teenager in your home. Life will never quite be the same again (of course, you already know that). But it can be better than you’ve ever dreamed. In fact, you’re just five days away from your teenager asking, “What can I do to help?” Guaranteed! With his signature wit and commonsense psychology, internationally recognized family expert and New York Times best-selling author Dr. Kevin Leman will help you:
With Dr. Leman’s instinct and insight, plus an index with gutsy advice on 75 hot-button issues that keep parents up at night, Have a New Teenager by Friday will help you get real results - real fast.
©2011 Kevin Leman (P)2011 Oasis Audio
This book is okay. I've read many parenting books and there's little here that's good that I haven't heard before...but some of what's on here is just...not good.
Example: The writer portrays a parenting scenario of a child being disrespectful to her mother on a Saturday morning. The parent does nothing, keeping a cool head and ignoring the teen. Saturday evening when the teen asks for mom's car keys, mom has made sure to have them in her pocket, and says "no." "But why," the girl inquires? "Because I didn't like being disrespected this morning," the parent replies.
This is supposed to be an example of an effective deterrent...waiting 9 hours to stick it to a kid is not likely to improve their relationship, or teach self-control or respect, in my opinion. And there are a number of similar suggestions that I might find laughable in a parenting book, if it wasn't all so disappointing.
Then there's the fact that the author mentions your child may need to be moved to a different school or even a different city for any changes to work with him/her...so much for having a new teen by Friday.
Yes, There is a lot of eye opening information. Its a lot to take in.
Some of the examples really hit home.
It was all very good.
I have learned to be a little more layed back. I Try to respect where my kids are coming from and no matter what ... Always keep your cool. Its important to communicate and not dictate.
I would recommend this.
While I like Dr. Leman, the title and premise of this book is ridiculous, unethical and dishonest. You cannot change anyone, including yourself and especially your teenager within 5 days. Dr. Leman states that parents hold all the cards to change the teen. This is not true. While parents hold significant influence, parents are not the only variables in the lives of teenagers.
Some good practical advice but often simplistic answers. Again, I like Dr. Leman as a person and therapist, but parents should not believe this is all that needs to happen for significant change to occur. Beware of parental guilt if things do not work out by Friday afternoon.
I would recommend this book - I listen to it on an ongoing basis to keep focused on issues with my teenagers. How we do not realize what we are doing until it is pointed out by someone else.
Respond don't react!
The 5 Love Languages of Teenagers by Gary Chapman. Both books remind parents that our teens are going through many changes and we should be there to "guide" them to adulthood, not "dictate" them to it. Both books are Christian based without being "preachy".
"Purposive behavior" - what is it my teen wants to accomplish from her behavior?
Say something about yourself!
Yes I would, and will again It was a good listen.
I loved how the author gave you examples from his own life and teenage kids.
Things That Make You Go Hmmm. New ideas about your teen.
"Have a new teenager by Friday ....I. Wish!"
Easy to listen too and entertaining .some things difficult verges on homophobia
So loses credibility .my teenager got worse !
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