Your ex-spouse is bad-mouthing you to your children, perhaps even trying to turn them against you. If you handle the situation ineffectively, your relationship with your children could suffer. You could lose their respect, lose their affection, and even, in extreme cases, lose all contact with them.
This groundbreaking work gives parents powerful strategies to preserve and rebuild loving relationships with their children and provides legal and mental health professionals with practical advice to help their clients and ensure the welfare of children.
Divorce Poison offers advice on how to:
©2010 Richard A. Warshak, PhD (P)2015 Tantor
"Useful resource for families dealing with divorce and child rearing." (Booklist)
Like other readers/listeners there were many similarities in my own divorce experience. I wish I had found this book earlier for me to better help my children understand loving both parents is okay despite the circumstances of divorce. It's extremely hard when divorcing a narcissist.
Found this incredibly applicable, I was enlightened and educated. The narrator was fabulous. I actually followed advice in this book to a T and it solved my many questions. Outcome was excellent
The practical & functional step by step approach
Warshak breaks down the process & symptoms of "divorce poisoning" to aid the reader's understanding
A good narrator. Easy to understand his voice
All the real life stories of our children......I cried so much that I will have to listen to it again
i have hope again! thank you so much. you will save my family. I still have to open up my communication with my daughter. but someone professionally finally knows and can prove what I'm through. I almost gave up many times. I'm so happy i didn't. i would have never made it here and probably my life. I'm an empath so you can see how 6 years of this has done to my well being. I blame myself for not being more assertive. I will survive because of you. I literally cried like a baby and laughed while crying as i listened to your book. i also have attention deficit issues. so that's why i did the audio. fyi your narrator is amazing. I could listen to!his!voice all day long lol. again thank you with all my heart. this is it. this is the first day of the rest of our lives. i will reach out to!you when I've taken care of my family to share my stories and how i coped. maybe it can help someone else in my situation. and earlier detect it. :) your biggest fan MATT
This book helped us realize we aren't crazy! My fiancé has an ex wife that is completely unstable and has poisoned his children against him. We have been been astonished and heartbroken to witness the changes in their behavior and hearts towards him. He loves his children and would do absolutely anything for them, but they have hardened their hearts to him. I just knew we couldn't be alone in the fight, and this book not only validated that we are not alone, but also gave us the tools we need to help try to repair the relationships that are suffering. Thank you, thank you, thank you for the time and effort that went into researching and writing this book!
After taking over half of the book to get there. the author got to the heart of what matters. I would suggest skipping the first half. He repeats himself in the second half so you won't miss anything. Kind of like I just did.
I found much of this book to be very useful, especially how he makes it clear that being the targeted paren should not mean being a passive one.
The model which he goes from though, PAS (parental alienation syndrome) is mired in controversy.
I disagree that, as the author contends, that this needs to be eight years long issue where the alienator often gets the upper hand.
Anyone wanting to learn about a more effective approach to dealing with this should look up Dr. Craig Childress and his attachment-based parental alienation information.
if you and your spouse dont see eye to eye please read this. its scarey what people think are best for their kids when they are really hurting them. love the book. had many omg momemts. shed a lot of tears. gives you hope!
I love to read and listen to audio books.
An excellent, excellent book on the causes and effects of parental- alienation, on identifying and addressing destructive behaviors, and on acts that take place prior to, during, and after a divorce. It's a must-read for any parent wanting to become an advocate for their child, and for all professionals who influence relationships between the parent and child. I absolutely recommend this book.
Superficial. Tell me something I don't know. This blows the "can't we all just get along" whistle. No we can't. Anybody with a modicum of insight and people skills would have thought of this stuff.
In addition, this book is written in such a generic way that anyone reading it could see his/her ex in it.
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