Dr. Meg Meeker, best-selling author of Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters, follows up on her success with Boys Should Be Boys, a guide for parents on how to raise a strong son in these turbulent times. Taking listeners on a journey from boyhood to manhood, Boys Should be Boys delves into the mind, heart, and spirit of boys, showing parents how they can make a difference between the boy their son is and the man he will become.
©2008 Meg Meeker, M.D.; (P)2008 Blackstone Audio, Inc.
Had I read the negative reviews, I never would have bought this book! Thankfully, I didn't do my homework.
This book is gold. My only regret is I didn't have it for the raising of my older kids as it would have saved us a lot of pain and regret. The narrator's voice is a little preachy, but inoffensive if your focus is on the content. The material is excellent. Thanks Dr. Meeker for a great resource!
If you have a boy under your care you MUST read/listen to this book. I am a child of a single mother and did not learn the principles of fatherhood that Meg explains as vital to a boys growth and success in life. Highly Recommended!
I like this book in general. Until they talk about religion. It is NOT critical for a child to believe in god to become a good person.
In fact, I found the boys that I grew up with who were extremely religious were judgmental, hypocritical and ostracizing. I began dating one of them, it was a great relationship, his friends all hated me because I didn't believe in god. They stopped talking to him, they put him down, they called me names. Claiming that I was constantly seen around with other guys, having sex or doing drugs. None if which was true. I worked a lot, I had 2 jobs in high school, so I could save money to go to college. These were the times I allegedly was cheating and doing drugs.
Eventually, he broke up with me, so he could get back together with his "friends". Graduation happened, college happened, and I eventually found out that that sweet, caring, thoughtful boy, had killed himself.
Religion is not critical for raising happy healthy boys.
There are some good points in this book, but generally comes off as an "in my day, we used to play marbles, and bought gum drops for a penny". Some how they think because kids grow up different then they did 50 years ago it's worse. Video games are bad, hand written letters are good. The facts don't add up to what they are trying to portray as reality. Perception that this generation is the worst, is false and fabricated by the media. Because that is what sells and what older people want to hear. It's easier to accept that, then the facts.
If you want that type of book, and very conservative thinking this is the book.
This book is an extremely practical guide on how to raise exceptional young men. I have three boys and am extremely grateful for the multiple people that recommended this book to me. I will probably be re-reading this book every year or two as my boys continue to grow and need more and more of their father. I would recommend this book to fathers as well as mothers of boys of any age.
Loved this book- great stories and examples. I am going to get a hard copy just because I want to reference for years to come!
Yes, I reflected a lot on being a boy. Reminding myself of what it was like growing up and bringing to my mind ways to be a better more supportive father.
Strong Father Strong Daughter was also an excellent book by Meg Meeker. Understanding how much influence a father has on his daughters well being and development gives a lot of pressure to be a good dad.
Common sense and practical message imparted by Dr Meeker
General enhancements to parenting - standing our ground in situations when the worlds values seem to be varied from ours
Book was great but not as exceptional as her first book - "Strong fathers strong daughters"
The readers voice was not as appealing to me, this may account for my reception of the material.
Our 5yr old boy has been challenging his Kindergarten teacher. He is bright and learns quickly but is very rambunctous. Instinctually I knew that he was just being "a boy" but it was nice to get some confirmation. This book taught me that it's not just that "Boys will be Boys" but as the title says, "Boys Should Be Boys". And I just need to fight for him as well as shape him!!
Great Book! I would hightly recommend to any Mom and Dad of boys
It is awsome to hear such insight into the mind and actions of my little boy. I think i remember allot of my own boyhood, but this filled in the gaps.
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