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Boundaries Audiobook

Boundaries

Christians often focus so much on being loving and giving that they forget their own limitations.
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Publisher's Summary

Christians often focus so much on being loving and giving that they forget their own limitations.

Have you ever found yourself wondering:

  • Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
  • What are my legitimate boundaries?
  • How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?
  • Why do I feel guilty when I consider setting boundaries?

Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend give you biblically-based answers to these and other tough questions, showing you how to set healthy boundaries with parents, spouses, children, friends, coworkers, and even yourself.

You'll see vital principles of boundaries at work as Drs. Cloud and Townsend take you through a day in the life of "Sherrie", first as she lives with almost no boundaries, then as she begins to apply proper boundaries with others in her life.

©2001 Henry Cloud and John Townsend; (P)2001 The Zondervan Corporation

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    Gabrielle Smyrna, GA, USA 06-04-10
    Gabrielle Smyrna, GA, USA 06-04-10
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    "The most detailed book on relationships."

    I really like this book but get out your notepad because you will need to really take time to digest the wealth of revelation in this book. It's unbelievable how this book not only reveals the reasons and solutions to other peoples behavior issues but also highlights your own strengths and weaknesses. I like books that not only tell it how it is but also tell you how it's supposed to be based on the truth in God's word. I love this book. I will have to listen to it over and over. I highly recommend this book.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Linda 03-04-07
    Linda 03-04-07
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    "Excellent!!"

    This really gets down to the 'truth' of whats going on. And presents it in context with Scripture.

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    John 08-15-05
    John 08-15-05 Member Since 2006
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    "Could not get into this book"

    I listened to almost all of Part one, and then just decided/realized that I was not getting much out of the book. The narration was just so-so, and the book did not flow well. The examples were less than real for me. This may be a book that is better read than listened to.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Jose Juan Mexico City, N/A, Mexico 09-12-07
    Jose Juan Mexico City, N/A, Mexico 09-12-07
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    "Covers everything"

    This books covers every aspect of boundaries. I found it very useful since it really makes you think about the subject. I would have liked it better without all the blibical references. They were little boring for me but the narrator does a great job for keeping it enjoyable

    7 of 9 people found this review helpful
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    Brent Barboursville, WV, United States 01-16-08
    Brent Barboursville, WV, United States 01-16-08 Member Since 2015
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    "Good content bad reading"

    The content of the book is well thought out and presented. It has a lot to offer me.

    The narration is another matter. When the reader came to a passage in which a woman was speaking he would use a voice that sounded weak and felt condesending toward women. My wife listened to more than half of the book with me, but she faithfully protested the voice used to portray the female characters.

    The text is very gender inclusive. The reading is not.

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    D 07-22-15
    D 07-22-15 Member Since 2015
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    "A must read for everyone.. The sooner, the better!"
    Would you consider the audio edition of Boundaries to be better than the print version?

    I have both the audio version and the print version. While I like having a Table of Contents, I kept getting bogged down while reading the print version. The first 100 pages, or so, are somewhat difficult to digest. I found myself losing focus. The audio version, for me, worked quite well! I did have to rewind a few of the key points, but it was fairly smooth. I also like the portability and accessability of having it on my phone! I can listen in the car, while on a flight, while working out, etc.!


    What was one of the most memorable moments of Boundaries?

    What I appreciate most about Boundaries is that it helped me to understand why I am the way I am in certain situations. It helped me to face my past, find myself, and it gave me some tools with which I can grow. My relationships are better already!


    What does Dick Fredricks bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    The narrator varies his pace, voice, and inflection quite well which helped me to maintain focus and not "gloss over." He made the book easier to digest!


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    Because of the material presented, I do not recommend you attempt to listen to this book in one sitting.


    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Rob 07-03-15
    Rob 07-03-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Good information, far beneath the bible."

    In places, an over abundance of bible quotes, only serves to muddy the waters and doesn't uplift the information. The material, though valuable, is hard to dig out behind it all.

    The performance of the characters in the story was terrible, clinging to stereotypical women's voices was tiresome from the get go. He would have done better just reading the material straight.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Trishonna Clearlake, CA, USA 04-30-09
    Trishonna Clearlake, CA, USA 04-30-09
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    "Boundaries"

    This is a must have book... I especially enjoyed the Audio version. The man reading the book did an excellent job. Very easy to listen to and not only entertaining and humorous but very helpful and practical... I hightly, highly recommend this Audio Book and give it a full 5 star rating...

    3 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    Douglas Scroggs auburn ,georgia 01-01-08
    Douglas Scroggs auburn ,georgia 01-01-08 Member Since 2014

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    "awesome"

    outstanding, a must read for christians, wish i had this information 25 years ago..

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    Nola New York, NY, United States 02-06-08
    Nola New York, NY, United States 02-06-08
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    "Boundaries with analogies"

    I was very much looking forward to this book. It contains valuable and useful advice, stories, and examples of how boundaries are crucial to our well-being and healthy functioning as humans. However, at one point I found myself wondering if this was actually a bible study guide. Although I can respect the authors' spiritual/religious beliefs I think that referencing every statement to a passage in the bible overwhelms the simplicity of the message (regarding boundaries). I come from a christian background but found this a bit intrusive and off-key, so I am not sure how people of other faiths or who are not particularly religious would react. Does this mean that boundaries cannot be available to them?

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  • Hephzibah
    9/1/15
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    "love it"

    love the book . audio was crystal clear. would get the book too. thank you

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • Mrs G Keen
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    "Excellent!"

    I would highly recommend this. Very good biblical advice for setting boundaries with people . It would improve your relationships

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  • Zaher
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    9/27/08
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    "excellent"

    This is an excellent book.

    1 of 3 people found this review helpful
  • JSM
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    "Very useful book with a fatal flaw"
    What disappointed you about Boundaries?

    Excellent primer on personal boundaries BUT I stopped listening when I heard the writer condone spanking a child.


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