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The Narcissist You Know Audiobook

The Narcissist You Know: Defending Yourself Against Extreme Narcissists in an All-About-Me Age

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In the tradition of The Sociopath Next Door, clinical psychologist Joseph Burgo's The Narcissist You Know is a guide to help you identify, disarm, and coexist with extreme narcissists.

In today's social media and selfie-obsessed culture, we are living in an age of narcissism - and a society that often celebrates this potentially harmful trait rather than understanding it as a psychological disorder. Scientists are beginning to learn that narcissism exists on a spectrum - much like autism - and most of us exhibit some mild narcissistic tendencies. But one in 20 people falls into a category the author refers to as extreme narcissism, in which these self-absorbed characteristics result in destructive behavior that harms not only the individual but everyone around them, including friends, family, and coworkers.

With more than 30 years of experience studying personality disorders and treating extreme narcissists, Dr. Joseph Burgo has developed a useful guidebook to help you identify, understand, and manage narcissistic personalities. Relying on detailed profiles, vignettes from the author's practice, and celebrity biographies, The Narcissist You Know offers easy-to-understand tools and solutions you can use to defuse hostile situations and survive assaults on your self-esteem should you ever find yourself in an extreme narcissist's orbit.

Don't let narcissism destroy your relationships. Get the tools you need to understand, work with, and live with the narcissist you know.

©2015 Joseph Burgo (P)2015 Brilliance Audio, all rights reserved. Recorded by arrangement with Touchstone, a division of Simon & Schuster, Inc.

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    if you are thinking about looking into narcissism and understanding it for yourself and those around you don't even think twice get this book it will change your life. understanding narcissism in your life is so amazing and powerful if you come or think you come from a narcissistic family and this book makes it so easy to understand. if you are reading this comment don't even think twice get the book and listen to it I promise you will not regret it. and then after you read this book and realize the power that Sam has had in your life I highly recommend a book called the power of vulnerability. good luck, the fact that you are here gives me great hope for your future.

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    I expected this to be an OK book. I was so surprised when it turned out to be excellent! It was insightful on so many levels. I even wrote down a few of the gems that really stuck out.

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    Agnieszka 07-04-16
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    "Helped me with my sister"

    I started listening to this audiobook in the middle of big fight with my older sister. I was looking for a way to deal with her, I was angry at her and her toxic behaviour... This audiobook changed my perspective and helped me understand that I was also the one fueling the negative cycles between us and I have some issues myself. As a result I'm able to empathise with her much more now. One of the most wise books ever.

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    Christine Seattle, WA 08-03-16
    Christine Seattle, WA 08-03-16 Member Since 2016
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    I really liked this book a lot. It gave great examples of famous people who have narcissistic traits. Additionally, it explained the root causes of the behavior which I found extremely helpful. By understanding what causes the behavior (extreme shame, feelings of being inadequate or defective often stemming from childhood) it is easier to figure out how to better interact with people like this. I have been struggling for a while with the best way to deal with my son's father and now I have a better idea of how I need to approach him in our interactions. I did however find this information personally hard to hear. As an empathy myself, it saddens me that there are people out there in the world that are in such pain that they feel they need to constantly prove to others that they are superior in order to make themselves feel good. They will never be able to experience the joy of being loved for who they really are because they are so afraid that who they are is not good enough.

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    Synesthë 05-23-16
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    "Interesting collection of anecdotes"

    This book is a collection of anecdotes about different types of narcissists--regular people and celebrities included. It's interesting, but not particularly useful. The only real information about what to do if you encounter one is "don't interact with them". More entertainment value than analysis or advice.

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    Lori 09-13-16
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    "Worst book on the topic I've read so far"

    Point was that we are all somewhat narcissistic but he took 12 chapters of celebrity and 2 dimensional personal and fictional examples to "prove" this rather simple point. No new ideas generated and the writer's attempts at introspection left much to be desired. The book also subtly blamed narcissistic abuse victims.

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    Edda T. 06-06-16
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    What would have made The Narcissist You Know better?

    I found the book interesting until the liberal bias came in and makes the book less credible.


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