We don't think too much about sex; we're merely thinking about it in the wrong way.
So asserts Alain de Botton in this rigorous and supremely honest book designed to help us navigate the intimate and exciting - yet often confusing and difficult - experience that is sex. Few of us tend to feel we're entirely normal when it comes to sex, and what we’re supposed to be feeling rarely matches up with the reality.
This audiobook argues that 21st-century sex is ultimately fated to be a balancing act between love and desire, and adventure and commitment. Covering topics that include lust, fetishism, adultery, and pornography, Alain de Botton frankly articulates the dilemmas of modern sexuality, offering insights and consolation to help us think more deeply and wisely about the sex we are, or aren’t, having.
©2012 The School of Life (P)2012 Macmillan Digital Audio
I listened to it twice. I would consider listening again. It is full of brilliant insights and observations.
I liked his description early on about a couple's first date and his description of what they were both experiencing and why.
He has a rich voice and does justice to the articulate text.
Intimate relationships are complicated imperfect things. If we adjust our expectations we can appreciate relationships and sex for what they are rather than having pie-in-the-sky expectations.
Great book. I can think of 100 people I could recommend it to.
entering marriage in an idealistic way. Eye opening and validating. Romantic marriage for decades is impossible, makes me realize I am not inadequate but striving for the impossible. those who say they have it I now know aren't truthful consciously or unconsciously.
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