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- Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man's World
- Narrated by: Alan Downs Ph. D
- Length: 7 hrs and 14 mins
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- Discover Your Inner Age, Ignite Your Hidden Strengths, and Reroute Misdirected Fear to Live Your Fullest
- By: Crystal Andrus Morissette
- Narrated by: Andi Arndt
- Length: 9 hrs and 24 mins
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The Emotional Edge is an exciting expansion of Crystal's successful brand - she has tackled weight management, confidence building, and spiritual growth; now she combines all that and more into her most powerful program yet. The Emotional Edge is a guide for letting go of the past and embracing a more empowered future. This audiobook is spiritual self-help designed to teach listeners how to overcome behavioral ruts and engage the world from a happier, more empowered place.
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the world needs more of this.
- By Amber Jessop on 11-25-17
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Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?
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- By: Lundy Bancroft
- Narrated by: Gary Galone
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Like a constant friend, this collection of meditations is a source of strength and reassurance designed to speak to women like you, women in relationships with angry and controlling men. It helps you to digest what is happening a piece at a time, so you can gain clarity, safety, and freedom.
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Just what I needed.
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By: Lundy Bancroft
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Rethinking Narcissism
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- Narrated by: Kiff VandenHeuvel
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In Rethinking Narcissism listeners will learn that there's far more to narcissism than its reductive invective would imply. The truth is that narcissists (all of us) fall on a spectrum somewhere between utter selflessness on the one side and arrogance and grandiosity on the other. A healthy middle exhibits a strong sense of self.
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Great info, but proceed with caution
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By: Dr. Craig Malkin
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The Men on My Couch
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When Dr. Brandy Engler opened her sex therapy practice for women in Manhattan, she got a big surprise. Most of the calls were from men. They wanted to talk about womanizing, porn addiction, impotence, prostitutes - and most of all, love.
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John Bradshaw is arguably the most accomplished and well-known leader alive today in the addictions field. He taught us about functional and dysfunctional families, showed us how shame could become toxic and poisonous to our core selves, and helped us understand and heal the wounded, vulnerable "inner child" conceived by, and thriving in, that environment. In Post-Romantic Stress Disorder (PRSD), Bradshaw gives readers a clear explanation of the difference between falling in love, lust, and true love.
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How do you own the world, how do you own disorder?
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Conscious Uncoupling
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Conscious Uncoupling is a breakup or divorce that is characterized by goodwill, generosity, and respect. And it's an audiobook for anyone who has ever experienced a bad breakup of any kind - with a girlfriend, boyfriend, friend, boss, employee, husband, or wife - and who wants to try another way.
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Exceeded my expectations
- By Vida D on 08-15-19
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Finding Your Own North Star
- Claiming the Life You Were Meant to Live
- By: Martha Beck
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As the creator of Life Designs, Inc., Martha Beck has helped hundreds of clients find their own North Stars and figure out how to fulfill their potential and create joyful lives through her lectures, seminars, and one-on-one counseling. In this book she shares her step-by-step program that will guide you to fulfill your own potential.
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Narration not for me
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Jump...and Your Life Will Appear
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Are you ready to make changes in your life - but feel something is holding you back? Is your soul asking you to take a leap - but you’re too afraid to take it? Are you ready for something new - but aren’t sure where to start? If this sounds like you, this audiobook will give you the courage and faith you need to jump across the threshold from where you are - to where you want to be. Jump...and Your Life Will Appear is a step-by-step guide to clearing the path ahead so you can let go and make the change you need the most.
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Inspiring and motivating!
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Codependent No More
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Is someone else's problem your problem? If, like so many others, you've lost sight of your own life in the drama of tending to a loved one’s self-destructive behavior, you may be codependent—and you may find yourself in this book. With personal reflections, exercises, and instructive stories drawn from Beattie’s own life and the lives of those she’s counseled, Codependent No More helps you break old patterns and maintain healthy boundaries, and offers a clear and achievable path to healing, hope, freedom, and happiness.
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great book with unbearable reader
- By Nielah on 09-01-22
By: Melody Beattie
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- Matthew Phelps
- 08-30-12
Must read for any gay man
Would you listen to The Velvet Rage again? Why?
There was quite a bit of information presented, and I think listening to it again might help me access more of it.
What did you like best about this story?
The inclusion of anecdotes really helped me relate my own life to the issues described in the book.
Which scene was your favorite?
Chapter 14, where he talked about life skills.
If you could give The Velvet Rage a new subtitle, what would it be?
An owner's manual for the gay life.
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Very Profound for Me
Would you consider the audio edition of The Velvet Rage to be better than the print version?
Yes - I enjoyed Alan Downs reading his own words. There are subtleties in his voice that add significance.
What did you like best about this story?
How much I can relate to the struggle and the potential for growth he offers.
Have you listened to any of Alan Downs’s other performances before? How does this one compare?
I haven't. This is the first.
What’s the most interesting tidbit you’ve picked up from this book?
Probably the first chapters where he discusses shame, its origins and manifestations etc. I'd never though about my own shame in those terms before. Very helpful!
Any additional comments?
Really worth the read, guys.
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- E. Durham
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Heartwarming and Informative
Alan's tone and approach is heartwarming with its message of hope. This message is presented without flourish. This made the content less entertaining but far more personal and moving. I am grateful for the wisdom shared and have already begun to share some of it with my friends. I recommend the book to every gay person wishing to understand more about their emotional world and to everyone else for the same reason. A little understanding can only help and this book has much to share.
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- Carl Haley
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So so
Some good ideas. But it feels often like the writer believes all gay men have the same problems. He doesn't seem to think any gay man can grow up without being ashamed.
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- Corey
- 09-05-13
Most moving book I have ever read. A+++
Would you consider the audio edition of The Velvet Rage to be better than the print version?
Haven't read the printed version but ordered it so I could highlight specific portions. Having both wouldn't be a bad idea.
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How closely it related to me.
Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?
YES!!! Although I didn't have the time to I listened as much as possible.
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- Jim
- 08-25-13
A Great Perspective that Resonates
If you could sum up The Velvet Rage in three words, what would they be?
This book offers a clear perspective on the life of gay men and the challenges we face dealing with the way our lives feel need to be and how they should be. The perspective really resonates with me and made me sit back and think about how much the shame and expectations of gay life impacted and continue to impact me. Worth every minute of listening pleasure.
What was one of the most memorable moments of The Velvet Rage?
One thing - dont pass up that man who may not be perfect because you pass up the chance to meet an amazing person.
What about Alan Downs’s performance did you like?
Very easy to listen to very easy to enjoy.
What’s the most interesting tidbit you’ve picked up from this book?
Shame impacts everyone.
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- Doug LaMountain
- 11-05-18
Waited 49 years for this.....
Overwhelmed just by the 1st chapter in what my definition of shame is vs the real meaning. I continue to hide my true self even after all these years, I have learned to be me, to be enough, then a new lady friend asked me if I had a girlfriend, I froze....again... yet in my mind I’m saying, “ your have no clue do you” so my true self is me, is Doug,
And I have to remember that what others think of me is none of my business..
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- 07-08-20
Can’t relate
Well, if you want a story about someone that’s self loathing, this is the book for you. I’ve heard about this book for years, and finally got it. Wow, just wow. Who relates to this author? The entire narrative is about a guy who is self loathing and projects that onto all other LGBTQ people. No, that wasn’t, and isn’t my experience. I’ve had hard times, and all the rest, but jeezus this guys story is so sad it’s pathetic. I’d say that he definitely needs a professional to talk to, BUT HES ACTUALLY GOT PH.D at the end of his name. Is he still making payments on the extra letter additions to his name? I’m either confused, or bored with how this book has remained in conversations all this time.
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- Mike CHESWORTH
- 06-08-15
A MUST read for every gay man.
I first read this book after a particularly painful breakup in 2007. I was definitely a solid phase 2. Seven years later I find myself reading this book again nursing another broken heart. This time I found myself teetering on the brink of three. The ending chapters of this book were like a warning showing me exactly what I was doing, as I was beginning to foreclose on authenticity.
Thank you Alan for writing this book!!!
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- RSparks
- 05-19-15
Thank You!
I've already recommended this book to some of my friends as well as family members who need guidance and a further insight into the injustice that gay men face in this world.
I highly recommend this book for any gay man. Period.
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