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Who Asked You? Audiobook

Who Asked You?

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Publisher's Summary

Family ties are tested and transformed in the new novel from #1 New York Times bestselling author of Waiting to Exhale and How Stella Got Her Groove Back. With her wise, wry, and poignant novels of families and friendships - Waiting to Exhale, Getting to Happy, and A Day Late and a Dollar Shortamong them - Terry McMillan has touched millions of listeners.

Now, in her eighth novel, McMillan gives exuberant voice to characters who reveal how we live now - at least as lived in a racially diverse Los Angeles neighborhood.

Kaleidoscopic, fast-paced, and filled with McMillan's inimitable humor, Who Asked You? opens as Trinetta leaves her two young sons with her mother, Betty Jean, and promptly disappears. BJ, a trademark McMillan heroine, already has her hands full dealing with her other adult children, two opinionated sisters, an ill husband, and her own postponed dreams - all while holding down a job as a hotel maid. Her son Dexter is about to be paroled from prison; Quentin, the family success, can't be bothered to lend a hand; and taking care of two lively grandsons is the last thing BJ thinks she needs.

The drama unfolds through the perspectives of a rotating cast of characters, pitch-perfect, each playing a part, and full of surprises.

Who Asked You? casts an intimate look at the burdens and blessings of family and speaks to trusting your own judgment even when others don't agree. McMillan's signature voice and unforgettable characters bring universal issues to brilliant, vivid life.

©2013 Terry McMillan (P)2013 Penguin Audio

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    JALAYNE SAINT LOUIS, MO, United States 10-31-13
    JALAYNE SAINT LOUIS, MO, United States 10-31-13 Member Since 2015

    USPS MAIL CARRIER, WALKING 6-8 MILES DAILY, AUDIO BOOKS MAKE ME ENJOY MY WORKDAY

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    "brillant"
    What about the narrators’s performance did you like?

    they all made it as if you were right in the front row of a show, they were so real.


    If you could take any character from Who Asked You? out to dinner, who would it be and why?

    Betty Jean, and her sisters, cause I could use some old school, down to earth, without beating around the bush advice myself.


    Any additional comments?

    yes, this was an excellent book, I want to give Terry Mcmillan kudo's for her great imagination and skill in writing she is one of my favorite writers. BUT PLEASE LEAVE NARRATING TO THE PROFESSIONALS, (I'm sorry) but you should NEVER do this again, you are a writer, your voice is not???, I don't know how to put it without being rude, so let's just keep it as it is. Just keep writing, and I'll keep buying. Again GREAT BOOK.

    9 of 9 people found this review helpful
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    R. Pontiflet Fairfield, CA USA 02-04-14
    R. Pontiflet Fairfield, CA USA 02-04-14 Member Since 2015

    retired writer

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    "Good Story; Excellent Narration"
    What made the experience of listening to Who Asked You? the most enjoyable?

    Betty Jean's scenes.


    What was one of the most memorable moments of Who Asked You??

    Performance by Phylicia Rashad.


    Which scene was your favorite?

    Most of the scenes held my interest.


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    Yes... except time did not permit.


    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    T-90 Houston, Texas, United States 09-24-13
    T-90 Houston, Texas, United States 09-24-13 Member Since 2015
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    "Very life like - Dam"
    Where does Who Asked You? rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    I have listened to this book 3 times. Everytime the characters keep me in stitches. This book reminds me sooo much of many of my friends lives. Felica Rashad, and Terry McMillan, is hilarious and makes the character so life like. This book, has something for everyone, you cry, you laugh, you say some unchristen like things, and much more. It is well worth listening to. I'm soo glad I purhcased the audible instead of reading the book. But then, "Who Asked you" (laughing) Enjoy


    What did you like best about this story?

    The fact that BJ (Betty Jean) got another chance at happiness for herself, despite all the challenges she faced. The fact that Omar finally got self confidence and became a man and told his mother he was gay, and I laughed so hard, I nearly got in trouble at work, but I'm glad she found out the way she did. Justice, for her being soo overprotective with her child, and thinking she was all that. Life knocks you down, but love and prayer together overcomes everything, when you activate faith not fear. And even though BJ was not into church, she definitely had faith.We all need it.


    What does the narrators bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    Emotions, emotions, that took my imagination there ini the story. I found myself looking through the window, of each of their lives.


    If you were to make a film of this book, what would the tag line be?

    Got cha, and who asked you anyway


    Any additional comments?

    Everyone should go out and purhcase it today. The rating is very close to beating my 5 star rating for 'Waiting to Exhale". Terry knocked this one out of the park. I hope a film, is on the horizon. It'll be well received.

    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    Christina Washington, DC, United States 10-03-13
    Christina Washington, DC, United States 10-03-13 Member Since 2016
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    "Great Listen!"
    Where does Who Asked You? rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    This book is one of the best books that I've listened to in AA fiction. It was so good that I logged on to rate it, which is something that I have rarely done.


    What did you like best about this story?

    The pace of the reading was perfect, the characters was awesome and the story was easy to follow. It was like I was actually able to envision the entire story while listening.


    What does the narrators bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    The feeling behind the characters... they bring the characters to life through the reading... the feeling and emotions.


    3 of 3 people found this review helpful
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    Tishonna Cooney Austin, Tx 09-22-13
    Tishonna Cooney Austin, Tx 09-22-13

    I love to read books but I think I've found a new passion Audio Books. I love Urban Fiction as well as self help books.

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    "Who Asked You? Very Good Listen"
    What did you love best about Who Asked You??

    It was so down to earth. It was like real life. Like my life.


    Who was your favorite character and why?

    Betty Jean!!! She is my mom. Everything about her is my mom. My mom is raising her two grandchildren. She has some of the same struggles as Betty Jean.


    Which scene was your favorite?

    When Luther read the letter to Betty Jean. I couldn't stop crying....


    Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

    When Betty Jean lost her daughter.. That was hard for her!


    3 of 3 people found this review helpful
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    Veronica Ogden, Utah 04-19-14
    Veronica Ogden, Utah 04-19-14 Listener Since 2004

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    "WOW!!!!!!!!"
    Would you listen to Who Asked You? again? Why?

    I've listened to it several times. It's life changing.


    What was one of the most memorable moments of Who Asked You??

    When BJ finally takes time for herself.


    Which character – as performed by the narrators – was your favorite?

    BJ


    Who was the most memorable character of Who Asked You? and why?

    BJ was the most memorable character because she is todays grandparent.


    Any additional comments?

    I love to watch old black and white movies. In the movies you have children they become successful. Then they have children and they all come to the grandparent’s house for the holidays. Terry’s book is keeping it real. Life doesn’t follow a happiness blue print plan. Women devote so much of their lives taking care of others that we don’t have the time or energy to stop and take care of ourselves. We rear our children and then our children have children. But they don’t come home for the holidays, they come back to live with you. If they leave home and stay gone they drain you financially and/ or emotionally. Terry’s book saved my life. I’m a spiritual person. I reared my children and one granddaughter. I financially help out my children and grandchildren. I worked at my job for almost 20 years. I got a new boss who was a bully and fired me for being old. I didn’t feel old. Time has been good to me, but the face looking back at me showed the struggles of life. I’m 60 years old and one paycheck away from poverty. I’ve used my retirement to help my children. I prayed and asked God for help. I was looking through my library on Audible. Then I saw Terry McMillan’s new book, “Who Asked You?” The character BJ, reminded me of myself. She showed me that, even at my age there is hope. The narrators were excellent. Many thanks go out to Phylicia Rashad whose voice calmed my anxiety. Thank you, Terry for writing a book for today’s trials and tribulations. It was the answer to my prayer.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    ann coleman LEWISVILLE, TX, US 12-03-13
    ann coleman LEWISVILLE, TX, US 12-03-13 Member Since 2011
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    This book was so good. It was so real. I loved the ending!! Phylicia Rashad voice is so wonderful to listen to, she just draws you in from the beginning!!!

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    Barbara Wright millbury Ohio 09-18-13
    Barbara Wright millbury Ohio 09-18-13 Member Since 2015
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    "Another Stunner!"
    Where does Who Asked You? rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    I LOVED this! Once again Ms. McMillan pulls out all the stops! suprising at every turn...and once again I cried due to a unexpected but not suprising turn of events. like "a day late and a dollar short" this is a grabber! Thanks Ms. Terry...and keep them coming girl!


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    Melody Chicago, IL, United States 11-24-15
    Melody Chicago, IL, United States 11-24-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Family issues"

    Interesting story, relatable issues. But some authors need to leave the reading to the professionals.

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    Sonjyia 04-24-14
    Sonjyia 04-24-14 Member Since 2015
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    "Terry McMillan's best work .... Yet!"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    I have already recommended this book to several friends!


    What other book might you compare Who Asked You? to and why?

    I would compare this book to the lives of so many of my friends an family members. Truly relatable.


    If you were to make a film of this book, what would the tag line be?

    Girl, get your life!


    Any additional comments?

    Phylicia Rashad's voice is undeniable. I would love to see her in this role when this book is made into a movie.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    "loved it I especially enjoyed the characterisation"

    The characters were really good had a love hate feeling for nurse Kim and omar's mum which softened at the end. super ending which gave good closure. really enjoyed the narrators too, fantastic.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful

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