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This Is Where I Leave You Audiobook

This Is Where I Leave You

The death of Judd Foxman's father marks the first time that the entire Foxman family - including Judd's mother, brothers, and sister - have been together in years. Conspicuously absent: Judd's wife, Jen, whose 14-month affair with Judd's radio-shock-jock boss has recently become painfully public. Judd joins the rest of the Foxmans as they reluctantly submit to their patriarch's dying request: to spend the seven days following the funeral together.
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Judd Foxman has not had a good year. Shortly after catching his wife in bed with his boss (a Howard Stern-like DJ whom he works for as a producer), he learns that his father has died. Not only must Judd attend the funeral, he then has to honor his dad's dying request — sitting shiva for seven days with the rest of his eccentric family, including his sex therapist mom, older brother Paul (who's married to Judd's high school sweetheart), sister Wendy, and youngest brother Phillip, who leads a carefree life of hedonism. While a few of the storylines ring cliché (namely catching your wife with your boss), this book is anything but. The dialogue between the family members is realistic, witty, and caustic. And just when you're hysterically laughing at a scene, the next one sucker punches you with the vulnerability and authenticity of Judd's emotions.

Narrator Ramon de Ocampo delivers the right tone for this novel written from Foxman's point of view — dry and defeated — but the nasal quality of his voice is sometimes distracting and can even border on effeminate. Besides that, his pace is perfect, as well as his voice changes for the dialogue of different characters — he really shines as Judd's mother and some of the older Jewish men that drop by to pay their respects.

While This Is Where I Leave You is very funny, the truly laugh-out-loud scenes are few and far between, with the heart of the book being the very real, and very emotional trials of Judd Foxman and the relatable love/hate relationship he shares with his family members. —Colleen Oakley

Publisher's Summary

The death of Judd Foxman's father marks the first time that the entire Foxman family - including Judd's mother, brothers, and sister - have been together in years. Conspicuously absent: Judd's wife, Jen, whose 14-month affair with Judd's radio-shock-jock boss has recently become painfully public.

Simultaneously mourning the death of his father and the demise of his marriage, Judd joins the rest of the Foxmans as they reluctantly submit to their patriarch's dying request: to spend the seven days following the funeral together. In the same house. Like a family.

As the week quickly spins out of control, longstanding grudges resurface, secrets are revealed, and old passions reawakened. For Judd, it's a weeklong attempt to make sense of the mess his life has become while trying in vain not to get sucked into the regressive battles of his madly dysfunctional family.

©2009 Jonathan Tropper; (P)2009 Recorded Books, LLC

What the Critics Say

"The affectionate, warts-and-all portrayal of the Foxmans will have fans wishing for a sequel (and clamoring for all things Tropper)." (Amazon.com review)
"Tropper strikes an excellent balance between the family history and its present-day fallout, proving his ability to create touchingly human characters and a deliciously page-turning story." (Publishers Weekly)

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    Shelby 02-11-15
    Shelby 02-11-15 Member Since 2013
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    The audio chapters should be split according to the chapters in the book instead of 9 long chapters aha aha

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    Jillian 02-05-15
    Jillian 02-05-15
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    Is there anything you would change about this book?

    Not a fan on books, or in real life, when family members are just mean to each other. I think I would change the book so that the formerly unloving family members come together after bonding over the deaf of one of their own.


    If you’ve listened to books by Jonathan Tropper before, how does this one compare?

    No I haven't so I have nothing to compare it.


    Did the narration match the pace of the story?

    Yes, the narration was fine and easy to follow.


    Do you think This Is Where I Leave You needs a follow-up book? Why or why not?

    Definitely not. There was a clear ending to the story, no need for follow up.


    Any additional comments?

    Would not recommend.

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    Lauren 02-03-15
    Lauren 02-03-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Loved it"

    Hilarious! Loved the story, contemporary to the ages yet thoughtful to the grieving. Narrator was great he was able to separate his voice to each character.

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    Angelbaby Houston, TX USA 01-30-15
    Angelbaby Houston, TX USA 01-30-15 Member Since 2012

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    "I thought my family had issues!!"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    Yes I would recommend this book.


    What was one of the most memorable moments of This Is Where I Leave You?

    The most memorable moment of this book was when the brothers all had their moment at realizing the never stopped loving each other and that they were always brothers and even though they had individual anger, it wasn't like the anger was directed at the right person or for the right reason.


    What does Ramon de Ocampo bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    I will always say that the emotion in the readers voice is the experience that I like. I have to admit when I read a book on my own I have to read the chapters twice the first time throught to just read it and then another time to try and put emotion to it.


    If you could take any character from This Is Where I Leave You out to dinner, who would it be and why?

    I would actually take the mother out to dinner, she is the one who I feel I could have a good conversation with, she has raised her kids and they all have different personalities and came out different, she had been through 40 years of marriage, experienced life and experienced the loss of a loved one. She has been through so much that I have not been through and would love to sit and talk to her about.


    Any additional comments?

    I have not seen the movie for this book yet, but now I am ready to see it, this book made me laugh, made me feel sad and sorry for some characters, cheer for the characters at times, and relate to them. I am ready to see how they made this book come to life on the big screen.

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    Sharon United States 01-28-15
    Sharon United States 01-28-15 Member Since 2012
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    "Hysterical! Loved it!"

    Hysterical! I seriously horse laughed at certain parts of this book! It's real life humor and situations that I loved so much that I immediately bought his book How to Talk to a Widower. Btw, the movie was not near as good as the book.

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    Alicia 01-28-15
    Alicia 01-28-15 Member Since 2014
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    "Amazing!"

    I picked this book up in an Audible BOGO event and I absolutely loved it!

    The recap goes as such; 4 siblings come together to sit Shiva for 7 days. They aren't quite sure how to deal in such close proximity for that long and of course some family drama ensues.

    There were several parts of the book that I found myself literally laughing out loud! There were some very descriptive scenes and some vulgarity, but it didn't bother me. Highly recommended!!

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    jklppng 01-28-15
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    "Good Story"

    I enjoyed listening to this book and getting to know the characters. Just wish that it was a bit longer, I didn't want of to end. :)

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    Susan 01-22-15
    Susan 01-22-15

    This is my granddaughter's picture! She is my love.

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    "A Little Better than I thought it would be"

    It wasn't hard to get involved in this family. They are all slightly dysfunctional.I don't know what the payout was in the end; other than knowing each other better. If the exercise could be done for a lot of families with adult children having problems with the different personalities involved, maybe life would be better. I liked the idea of the story and most of the characters. maybe I am old school, but when family is gathered to mourn a passed family member, I don't think there would be as much sex going on. It wasn't overdone, maybe disrespectful in their dead father's home.

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    Criss 01-22-15
    Criss 01-22-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Entertaining, funny and at times moving."

    I enjoyed the story. There are a lot of funny laugh out loud moments and the characters persona were well developed. The narration fell a little flat sometimes, but the protagonist is a bit deflated so it often fit. I was annoyed by the voice he used for the female characters.

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    Kay broken arrow, OK, United States 01-21-15
    Kay broken arrow, OK, United States 01-21-15 Member Since 2014
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    "Entertaining."

    Judd walks in on his wife having sex with his boss and his father has died. This is his story of grief for both as well as for his life. Good narration, good story.

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