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The Amateur Marriage: A Novel | [Anne Tyler]

The Amateur Marriage: A Novel

They seemed like the perfect couple: young, good-looking, made for each other. The moment Pauline, a stranger to the Polish Eastern Avenue neighborhood of Baltimore (though she lived only twenty minutes away), walked into his mother's grocery store, Michael was smitten. And in the heat of World War II fervor, they are propelled into a hasty wedding. But they never should have married.
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They seemed like the perfect couple: young, good-looking, made for each other. The moment Pauline, a stranger to the Polish Eastern Avenue neighborhood of Baltimore (though she lived only twenty minutes away), walked into his mother's grocery store, Michael was smitten. And in the heat of World War II fervor, they are propelled into a hasty wedding. But they never should have married.

Pauline, impulsive, impractical, tumbles hit-or-miss through life; Michael, plodding, cautious, judgmental, proceeds deliberately. While other young marrieds, equally ignorant at the start, seemed to grow more seasoned, Pauline and Michael remain amateurs. In time their foolish quarrels take their toll. Even when they find themselves, almost thirty years later, loving, instant parents to a little grandson named Pagan, whom they rescue from Haight-Ashbury, they still cannot bridge their deep-rooted differences. Flighty Pauline clings to the notion that the rifts can always be patched. To the unyielding Michael, they become unbearable.

From the sound of the cash register in the old grocery to the counterculture jargon of the sixties, from the miniskirts to the multilayered apparel of later years, Anne Tyler captures the evocative nuances of everyday life during these decades with such telling precision that every page brings smiles of recognition. Throughout, as each of the competing voices bears witness, we are drawn ever more fully into the complex entanglements of family life in this wise, embracing, and deeply perceptive novel.

©2004 Anne Tyler; (P)2004 Random House, Inc., Random House Audio, a division of Random House, Inc.

What the Critics Say

"[Anne] Tyler's strength resides in her penetrating psychological portraits and delight in mundane details, and these gifts are evident....Her observations about how abruptly even the most boring life can go wrong, and about the fact that we are all amateurs in our first marriages, are poignant." (Booklist)
"Yes, Tyler intuitively understands the middle class' Norman Rockwell ideal, but she doesn't share it; rather, she has a masterful ability to make it bleed." (Publishers Weekly)

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    Lisa phoenix, AZ, USA 01-25-04
    Lisa phoenix, AZ, USA 01-25-04
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    "Disappointing"

    Being an Anne Tyler fan I found this book to be less than expected. The characters are hard to warm up to and there seems to be no thread of happiness in this book. Used to the dry nature of Tylers novels I still found this one unsettling in a depressing sort of way.

    13 of 14 people found this review helpful
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    Mariah Oakton, VA, United States 01-31-04
    Mariah Oakton, VA, United States 01-31-04 Member Since 2002
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    "Vintage Anne Tyler But Different"

    The Amateur Marriage is a nearly vintage Anne Tyler novel:, offering a slightly off-kilter family, a fine sense of time and place and an excellent eye for detail expressed in well-turned phrases. But this book is written on a larger canvas than her others, spanning over 40 years in the lives of Pauline and Michael Anton. The story begins in 1941 at the start of World War II when Pauline falls in love with Michael for no other reason than she needed a man to send off to war. But Michael?s war career is short-lived and he soon comes limping back to Baltimore and into Pauline?s waiting arms. They quickly marry and live with Michael?s mother over the family grocery story. It is immediately clear that the couple is not a perfect fit. Pauline is impulsive, determined and ambitious while Michael is slow, plodding and perfectly happy in his small inner-city grocery store. Pauline?s will prevails, however, and the couple?along with Mother Anton and their new daughter, Lindy?move to one of the spanking new suburbs that blossomed around the country in the early 50s. Michael opens a new grocery story and the family adds to two more children. Except for the constant bickering between Pauline and Michael, all is well until Lindy abruptly vanishes, the only trace of her the three-year old son she abandons in San Francisco. Still devastated over the loss of their daughter, the Antons bravely press on and begin another round of carpools to raise their missing daughter?s son. Unlike most Tyler novels, this one contains no epiphanies, no sudden moments of understanding. Instead, there is a rather helpless sense of time rushing on while the characters spin out their lives caught up in trivialities. And while Tyler might be criticized for giving her characters little or no motivations for their life?s choices, she can be praised for creating a family we like and care about. And that is what makes this novel worth reading.

    11 of 12 people found this review helpful
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    Susan M. Adams Western New York 03-28-05
    Susan M. Adams Western New York 03-28-05

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    "romance? please re-catogorize!"

    reading this was an unpleasant experience - making you care for the characters in the wonderful opening chapters just enough so that you could feel enormous disappointment when you were left in limbo as to their fate when decades would vanish from their lives. It was really painful. more than a waste of time - this read was downright aggravating! and Audible should not call it romance, more like Greek tragedy.

    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    glamazon The Coast of Rhode Island 01-25-04
    glamazon The Coast of Rhode Island 01-25-04 Member Since 2003

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    "Awesome Anne Tyler"

    Okay so I'm a little biased. Grew up in Baltimore, got married in Baltimore, had an amateur marriage exactly like the one in the book but geez this woman gets it right every time. Once again she leaves me with the feeling that no family is perfect, that everything is okay, it always was and always will be. Just not in the way I might think.

    17 of 21 people found this review helpful
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    Sanford Rosenberg Richmond, VA 01-31-04
    Sanford Rosenberg Richmond, VA 01-31-04

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    "Not up to par"

    A big Anne Tyler fan, but this fell way short of my expectations. The characters seemed quite flat, and their obvious disinterest in one another did little to pull me in. It was as if every character was sedated in some way... oddly bothered less by the most life-altering events than by the mundane annoyances of their day-to-day lives. Perhaps this was her intention? Either way, I found very little in the way of character development-- a far cry from what I had expected given the quality of her earlier works.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    John Miami, FL, USA 02-06-06
    John Miami, FL, USA 02-06-06
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    "a bad marriage and a bad book"

    How can one very gifted author write so badly in one book (Amateur Marriage) and so beautifully in others (most of her other books are magnificent)? What was she thinking when she wrote this dull interminable piece of fiction? It is a book of endless character development whose only plot is: a bad marriage gets worse.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Amazon Customer USA 04-29-05
    Amazon Customer USA 04-29-05
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    "Depressing and Frustrating"

    Too many skipped years. Sad story without much of a redeeming value. You care for the characters, then all of a sudden 10 years go by. You care again and then a main character is suddenly written off. Frustrating. Too many skipped years and the overall story was just sad and depressing.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Steven Schneider 02-25-05 Member Since 2010
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    "anne tyler's Amateur Marriage is Real Entertaining"

    What I really mean is this book is Real & Entertaining. Ms. Tyler has the talent to explore the psyche and nuances of people and display them with raw candor. Her subtle handling of her characters and the evolution of their lives was heartwarming and aluring.
    I applaud her style and look forward to listening to another one of her "life" adventures.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Jana Richmond, CA, United States 06-28-04
    Jana Richmond, CA, United States 06-28-04 Member Since 2003
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    "Boring, depressing, waste of time"

    I've enjoyed reading previous Ann Tyler novels, but this one was like listening to my mother tell me boring stories about old distant relatives I didn't know or care about. It was well read but the story was predictable (wartime couple marry, raise kids, separate, divorce, man remarries, etc.) with each decade and its effects on the family members displayed generically (40s war effects on families; 50s black turtle necks and beatniks; 60s drugs, hippies; etc.) I finally stopped listening a couple hours from the end when I realized I could care less about any of the characters and was feeling punished by having to keep listening to avoid wasting my money.

    3 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    Carolann Oxford, MI, United States 04-09-04
    Carolann Oxford, MI, United States 04-09-04 Member Since 2002

    I live in Michigan and have been a member of auible since it's onset. Hobbies are photography and writing...I am in the process of formatting my first novel for kindle and I hope everyone will read it. I LOVE AUDIBLE and listen to at least 3 unabridged books a month. !

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    "Amateur Marriage"

    I like Anne Tyler and she managed to keep a rather mundane story interesting. I do not think it was one of her best. I felt a little disconnected at the end, and I didn't much like the way she made her main character dissapear. There was something disturbing about the story, as I'm sure the author intended. It was not a warm fuzzy that left you satisfied. It wasn't very uplifting.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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