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Love, Dishonor, Marry, Die, Cherish, Perish
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- Narrated by: David Rakoff
- Length: 2 hrs and 34 mins
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From the incomparable David Rakoff, a poignant, beautiful, witty, and wise novel in verse whose scope spans the twentieth century
Through his books and his radio essays for NPR's This American Life, David Rakoff has built a deserved reputation as one of the finest and funniest essayists of our time. Written with humor, sympathy, and tenderness, this intricately woven novel proves him to be the master of an altogether different art form.
LOVE, DISHONOR, MARRY, DIE, CHERISH, PERISH leaps cities and decades as Rakoff sings the song of an America whose freedoms can be intoxicating, or brutal. The characters' lives are linked to each other by acts of generosity or cruelty. A daughter of Irish slaughterhouse workers in early-twentieth-century Chicago faces a desperate choice; a hobo offers an unexpected refuge on the rails during the Great Depression; a vivacious aunt provides her clever nephew a path out of the crushed dream of postwar Southern California; an office girl endures the casually vicious sexism of 1950s Manhattan; the young man from Southern California revels in the electrifying sexual and artistic openness of 1960s San Francisco, then later tends to dying friends and lovers as the AIDS pandemic devastates the community he cherishes; a love triangle reveals the empty materialism of the Reagan years; a marriage crumbles under the distinction between self-actualization and humanity; as the new century opens, a man who has lost his way finds a measure of peace in a photograph he discovers in an old box—an image of pure and simple joy that unites the themes of this brilliantly conceived work.
Rakoff's insistence on beauty and the necessity of kindness in a selfish world raises the novel far above mere satire. A critic once called Rakoff "magnificent," a word that perfectly describes this wonderful novel in verse.
Critic reviews
"Mesmerizing... Combines his wit and his gravity....Astounding." (Publishers Weekly)
"A fitting memorial to a humorist whose embrace of life encompassed its dark side...[the book] retains a spirit of sweetness and light, even as mortality and inhumanity provide a subtext.... Strong work. It deepens the impact that this was the last book completed by the author." (Kirkus Reviews)
"An extraordinarily and deliriously entertaining work....hearfelt, charmingly profound....[a] giddy, wistful triumph" (Paul Rudnick, The New York Times Book Review)
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- Pauline
- 09-10-13
Beautiful, knowing.
What made the experience of listening to Love, Dishonor, Marry, Die, Cherish, Perish the most enjoyable?
Although the author has written this novel in verse, the story and the flow of the language are not limited by the rhymes. Wise, knowing, humorous writing. Characters I wanted to spend more time with. Vignettes that felt true and real, told in the most beautifully elevated yet natural way. From meatpacking workers in the early part of the 20th century (?) to San Francisco in the 1980's, we enter the characters' little worlds and get to know them, briefly but deeply. The best poetry, of course, can condense language and make it powerful. I think Rakoff has succeeded beautifully here.A word on the narration: the author apparently felt strongly about reading his own book despite being weakened by cancer. It's true, the voice is a little frail, a little breathless at times. To me, it only added to the poignancy. Hearing this story read to me felt like a gift. I didn't find it hard to hear or understand, and I easily adjusted to the style.
Which scene was your favorite?
I love the whole story of Cliff.
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So sad this author is gone.
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- Ragna
- 04-14-18
love it. love David Rakoff <3
Beautiful. Funny. sad. total genius! williams listen again and again. and Íra, thank you .
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- Clarice W.
- 08-06-13
Uniquely beautiful!
Where does Love, Dishonor, Marry, Die, Cherish, Perish rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?
I am very sad to find that the author is no longer with us. I actually found the rhyming of this book to be lovely and it takes more time and effort and just plain smarts to write a book that also 'rhymes'. Mr. David Rakoff has departed this world, leaving his mark behind with one last heartwarming and heartwrenching, humorous, intelligently clever, forlorn and brilliant novel. David's own voice reading this story makes me long for his return - but is a reminder that our last words spoken are forever a part of this world. Especially now that we can put our words into recordings. Love, Dishonor, Marry, Die, Cherish, Perish: A Novel, are short stories in verse form which are an absolute treat to listen to, and a reminder that the spoken word lives on.
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- yyzgwm
- 07-12-15
Heartbreaking
One of the suggestions to encourage reviews is, "struggled to finish it?" I did, but not in the sense it was meant. Every generous, clever, thoughtful and humane word reminded me of what we've lost with David's death. It was indeed a struggle to finish, but more than worth the effort.
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- EWK
- 07-28-15
Brilliantly funny, raw and cleverly poetic
Brilliant! What a weave of characters, stories and poetry. I truly miss this tenderly funny man that always seems to strike a nerve with his in your face realness.
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- Caitlyn
- 03-26-16
Wow.
At first, it feels like a Charles Dickens & Dr Suess collaboration... So, it took me a minute to get used to the format - but thankfully, it's not a slave to the rhythm & rhyming.
The characters are rich & interesting from the start, so I was hooked. I listened in one sitting.
The story is beautifully tragic. I found that the poetic format really accentuates the highs & the lows.
I really appreciate that this book is read by the author. I was familiar with the authors personal story before I listened, but the bonus track was a fantastic addition.
I can't wait to listen again - in fact, I'm going to start right now.
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- jo
- 12-21-19
Listen to a genius die
David Rakoff is the only person I really like.
There needs to be more to this review so I’ll note that he’s venal, glib, and too clever by half. He’s magnificent. Gawd, he would have gotten that.
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- S. Walmsley
- 04-10-15
Beautiful bleak and a haunting voice
Worth it just got the post log by the audio engineer after the author. That said...one appreciates it even more hacking spent those hours with the author.
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- shelly in atlanta
- 08-10-17
Loved it.
David Rakoff was a scathing wit whose poetry and prose was phenomenal. His sublime bitchiness is matched only by the tenderness of his heart and understanding of the human condition. Such a sad thing he's no longer here.
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- L.L.
- 12-22-17
Best Audiobook Performance I’ve Ever Heard
The already excellent story and writing are elevated by the superb narration by the author. This was a book made for the audio format. It’s all delightful, and also a little dark.
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