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She Comes First Audiobook

She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

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Publisher's Summary

As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: "What do I do?" Ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue.

Welcome to the world of She Comes First, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but, in fact, it's coreplay: simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response.

Fun, informative, and easy to read, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and step-by-step instructions to ensure success. These simple methods represent a new era in sexual intimacy, one in which the exchange of pleasure occurs on a level playing field and fulfillment is mutual.

She Comes First exuberantly offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make a mantra of Rhett Butler's infamous line to Scarlett O'Hara, "You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how."

For Adults Only: You must be 18 years or older to purchase.

Find out what else is on Ian Kerner's mind in this interview with the author.

©2004 Ian Kerner; (P)2005 HarperCollins Publishers, Inc.

What the Critics Say

"An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!" (Playgirl)

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    Donald Murphy 03-09-16
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    "85% of this book is blah, blah, blah"
    What did you like best about She Comes First? What did you like least?

    I only listened to this book basically to become better at cunnilingus and understand why these techniques work. Cut this audio into like an hour of why this works and do this.


    What could Ian Kerner have done to make this a more enjoyable book for you?

    Cut out all the poetry and philosophical content most people don't care to hear. No offense, but you sound really stuffy like you need to blow your nose. You need a new reader to read your book for you.


    How did the narrator detract from the book?

    You quote Aristotle way too much. Most of the content of this book is the same filler a college student would use to fudge their way though a lengthy essay requirement.


    If this book were a movie would you go see it?

    You mean if this book were a 10 min. youtube video would I recommend people to go see it? Sure, this would be a good video just to advocate the awareness of how pleasuring females isn't exactly what mainstream nudges you to believe.


    Any additional comments?

    Scrap this whole book and save the important parts. Then, if you want to make an actual full book, use one chapter of female sexual history, and the other chapter of how to go down on a female. Now you have 2 chapters, about 1 hour of content, towards a real 4-8 hour audio book.

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    Heather 03-08-16
    Heather 03-08-16 Member Since 2013
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    "Yep loved it!"

    My girlfriend told me about this book and she wanted all boyfriends or husbands to read it, but I decided to. Yes me a girl! And I loved this book. Some many parts so very true. Guys for the love of Pete! Read this! ;) Your Welcum.

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    parole 02-20-16
    parole 02-20-16
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    "pretty. much. everything. we already knew "

    a lot. of technical wording stuff most people should already know a lot medical terms

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    Dale California 01-01-16
    Dale California 01-01-16
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    "barely made,it through"

    ok, rough time funishing it, very repetitive. nothing new. A woman should have read it.

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    Rachel 11-23-15
    Rachel 11-23-15 Member Since 2015
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    "My girlfriends love this book."

    I'm a woman, and not only are my two girlfriends and I HIGHLY satisfied by this practical and amusing book, but we're each making the men in our lives read it asap. I didn't realise I could feel that way.

    Seriously, men, read it. It'll be the best money you spend this year. If a man had no further credentials than that he applies the principles of this book, I'd take him to bed on the spot. If he's doing it, he's a guaranteed good lay.

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    Kari 11-10-15
    Kari 11-10-15
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    "A whole new world!"

    As a woman who never wired her brain to orgasm through oral sex I now feel excited to try - I have a new vocabulary for the thoughts and feelings that will allow this to happen. I wish all men and women would read this when they start engaging in sex - the world would be filled with happy satisfied and intimately connected people. Thank you Mr. Kerner for sharing all that you've learned!

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    Tony Zavala 09-15-15
    Tony Zavala 09-15-15
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    "i hate this empty, boring book."

    it is full of facts but mostly just quotes from other publications or authors, exhausting to hear one every minute.
    it was like reading an endless boring article at one of those soaps and gossip magazines...
    sorry, I heted it.

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    Tyrone 06-13-15
    Tyrone 06-13-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Interesting topic"

    I really enjoyed the book but there was so many moments in the reading where it was data overload for the statistical stand point.

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    William 04-16-15
    William 04-16-15
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    "Not specific enough"
    What disappointed you about She Comes First?

    The idea is good, but it was not informative enough. Should have gone step by step and explained the different methods and how ladies react. Also, dive into those that have never experienced orgasm before.


    Would you ever listen to anything by Ian Kerner again?

    Maybe


    Did the narration match the pace of the story?

    Yes


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    "Good book. I would recommend it to anyone."

    Good book. Exciting read. This book has information that's not talked about much. I would recommend it to anyone that wants to become the world class Cunniligusist!


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