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She Comes First Audiobook

She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

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Publisher's Summary

As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: "What do I do?" Ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue.

Welcome to the world of She Comes First, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but, in fact, it's coreplay: simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response.

Fun, informative, and easy to read, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and step-by-step instructions to ensure success. These simple methods represent a new era in sexual intimacy, one in which the exchange of pleasure occurs on a level playing field and fulfillment is mutual.

She Comes First exuberantly offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make a mantra of Rhett Butler's infamous line to Scarlett O'Hara, "You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how."

For Adults Only: You must be 18 years or older to purchase.

Find out what else is on Ian Kerner's mind in this interview with the author.

©2004 Ian Kerner; (P)2005 HarperCollins Publishers, Inc.

What the Critics Say

"An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!" (Playgirl)

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    Amazon Customer 04-06-15
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    "Good book. I would recommend it to anyone."

    Good book. Exciting read. This book has information that's not talked about much. I would recommend it to anyone that wants to become the world class Cunniligusist!


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    Wendy 03-31-15
    Wendy 03-31-15 Member Since 2011
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    "Amazing information"

    Both male and female should listen to this book. Good information great detail and fun play on words thru out.

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    CV TEXAS 03-30-15
    CV TEXAS 03-30-15 Member Since 2014
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    "I've listened to this book 3 times!"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    Great breakdown on truly how to bring a woman to ecstasy in a way I've never heard it told from a man. Ian knows what he's talking about and he makes it plain and easy to understand.


    What was one of the most memorable moments of She Comes First?

    The visual imagery he creates as he explains in vast detail how to stimulate your partner in various ways and why.


    What insight do you think you’ll apply from She Comes First?

    All


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    Steve Abbott 03-19-15 Member Since 2010
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    "The info provided was fairly basic."

    This book could be 1/2 this size and still provide all the relevant information.
    Not bad but could be somuch more.

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    Deidra mesa, AZ, United States 03-16-15
    Deidra mesa, AZ, United States 03-16-15 Member Since 2014
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    "Incredible!"

    If you are on the fence about whether or not this book will help you, just remember: there are 18 parts to the clitorus. If you didn't already know that you need this book. Knowledge is power!

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    Gary Bailey 08-14-14
    Gary Bailey 08-14-14 Member Since 2013
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    "Every Man Should Listen to the Audio Book"

    The audio book was outstanding. I thought I knew what I ding when it came down to pleasing a woman, but after listening to the book I discovered I wasn't even touching the surface. She Comes First is eye opening to the mature minded man who goal is to please his woman.

    Thought it was great...

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    Allyn B Jacobs Des Plaines, IL United States 04-03-14
    Allyn B Jacobs Des Plaines, IL United States 04-03-14 Member Since 2016

    30+ IT/Geek Male. Used to read lots, but now the "reading" is best done via audible.

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    "Informative, but I think as a supplement.."

    The book might be required here. I don't know if there are any illustrations in the book, but I find that by text alone this is not the greatest of investments. It has some common sense ideas, but the narrator's voice, while that of the author (great in that regard) has this very Fran Dresher Nasal type voice. So, I hit the performance score low.

    I think that if you got the book, and wanted to "read by listening" your first time thru it's great. But plan on buying the book, (and not a kindle text only version) if you want to get it's full benefit.

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    Brian 03-17-14
    Brian 03-17-14 Member Since 2014
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    "a must read"
    If you could sum up She Comes First in three words, what would they be?

    really, wow, ready


    What was one of the most memorable moments of She Comes First?

    Paying more attention to her body language is one big part. This book completely changed our oral relationship. I can't say enough about this book.


    Any additional comments?

    After listening to this book I felt like I had true insight into this subject. While this is a very good start, it shows you how far a person can go to understanding a woman's beautiful parts.

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    Mr. 09-15-13
    Mr. 09-15-13
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    "New title for book "Women Enjoy Cunnilingus""
    What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

    There is one idea I will remember from "She Comes First". Women enjoy cunnilingus.


    Any additional comments?

    Ian does a decent job of rounding out the book with general knowledge of sexuality. However, the major focus of his work is detailing the art/science of orally stimulating a woman's genitalia.

    Purchase this book to learn about cunnilingus.

    Personally, I've enjoyed this book. And my partner looks forward to the application of my new found knowledge.

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    stephen LAGO VISTA, TX, United States 02-15-13
    stephen LAGO VISTA, TX, United States 02-15-13
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    "For those who want to know what GIVER, means"
    Would you consider the audio edition of She Comes First to be better than the print version?

    Have not read it as I do not have time in my busy schedule to read


    What was one of the most memorable moments of She Comes First?

    How the authour brings to his audience , How to steps to giving real pleasure to his/or her partner


    What about Ian Kerner’s performance did you like?

    This book I had seen in Transformers, revenge of the fallen and was Intrigued to know what the title actually meant, I learned so many techniques that, i have actually applied to my own life in gving my partner multiple, Os, She is extremely greatful,i read this aswe are ten times closer now


    Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

    Not just anyone part,but many parts, I learned alot of things about the female anntomy, I never knew before


    Any additional comments?

    This is a great listen and recommend every man read this book if You, truly want to be a giver and not just a receiver.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful

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