Explicit yet instructive, fun yet tasteful, this enlightening audio also explains why women respond the way they do. For years, women attending her "great lover" training seminars begged Lou to bring to men the same straight-forward information she offered them. How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure takes the mystery out of what it takes to be a great lover and will dramatically increase her sexual satisfaction and yours.
©1999 Lou Paget. All rights reserved; (P)1999 ©2006 HighBridge Company
I'm a retired graphics designer. My business was designing and laying out books for small independent publishers and preparing them for print. Now I spend my time working in my garage wood working shop building furniture while trying to get my 'honey-do' list down to a manageable size.
This book is simply wonderful. I've listened to it completely through three times now with a week or so between listens to imbibe and put into practice what I've learned. I can honestly say that with each listen I picked up a little more that helps me give my wife 'absolute pleasure' as promised.
From the very first page of my very first listen, so much of what the author suggest doing (or not doing) has rung so true, that its sent me back for repeated listens.
One of the most amazing things to me is that my wife and I have been married for nearly 10 years now and I thought I knew her pretty well in bed. But after taking the time to practice some of the tips in this book and noticing my wife's overwhelmingly positive response (an understatement), I'm bewildered by how well I actually 'didn't' know what she liked and how much she does like but never expressed to me.
I also felt this book to be very expansive covering topics that rarely get mentioned in other books on the subject. Stuff us guys really need to know. Not just 'text book' stuff, but real input and feedback from real women and men. That helps me trust the info more.
Lastly, I really like Lou's delivery. Her 'workshop-like' experience really shines here as she's an excellent speaker, making the book easy to listen to. It's not boring or monotonous, and doesn't give me the feeling that she's simply reading it, but more like she's just sitting there talking to a group of us. That's one reason why I think I was able to listen to this repeatedly without growing tired of it as I've done with other written and audio books.
I rarely give anything 5 stars, but this book delivers.
Excellent discussion of the subject with a very professional approach and easy listening style. I was very impressed by the author's knowledge of the subject. She has first hand experience with conducting sex seminars and has gleaned helpful information from women that men need to know to be expert lovers. It was like having a personal coach and confidant who gave me all the secrets to satisfying my partner, which is what I was after. I will be listening to it over and over because there was so much pertinent information that I am sure I didn't absorb it all the first time. I feel deeply in debt to Lou for her research and willingness to share with us men who really want to satisfy our lovers but have had little "inside" information from women. I like the fact that she shares women's preferences as a whole and that she is a woman herself - because I am much more confident taking advice about pleasing a woman from a woman!
Shorter version, and written prior to Kerner's tome. Paget narrates, and has a good reading voice. Nice to hear this from a woman.
MS Paget has shown me that the more you know the more you know you ought to know when it comes to women. I read the book and it brought back a lot of things that I had forgotten. And things I never thought of although they make a lot of sense when you become aware of them .Where was this book when I was younger? When my woman listened to it she just laughed and all I keep hearing was “I been trying to tell you the same thing for years now.” MS Paget thank you for teaching this old silver tongued devil how to do some new tricks with it.
the author narrated her own book, which I love. talked a lot about how to mentally stimulate your partner and some of the more subtle aspects of sex. not a 'playbook'.
Yes - still very good information - just nothing brilliant and new
People are complicated. Men need help in understanding the complexities of women. This book does a little but much more is needed.
Not this author
Vague suggestions. Directions made no sense.
This book is for young boys or forty year old virgins. Nobody that has ever actually been with a woman needs this. Her directions are so vague that they don't make sense. Synopsis, bathe and cut your fingernails, open her door, don't have pics of your ex in your bedroom, give her lots of foreplay. 101 stuff.
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