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The Confidence Code: The Science and Art of Self-Assurance - What Women Should Know | [Katty Kay, Claire Shipman]

The Confidence Code: The Science and Art of Self-Assurance - What Women Should Know

Working women today are better educated and more well-qualified than ever before. Yet men still predominate in the corporate world. In The Confidence Code, Claire Shipman and Katty Kay argue that the key reason is confidence.

Combining cutting-edge research in genetics, gender, behavior, and cognition - with examples from their own lives and those of other successful women in politics, media, and business - Kay and Shipman go beyond admonishing women to "lean in".

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Publisher's Summary

Following the success of Lean In and Why Women Should Rule the World, the authors of the best-selling Womenomics provide an informative and practical guide to understanding the importance of confidence - and learning how to achieve it - for women of all ages and at all stages of their career.

Working women today are better educated and more well-qualified than ever before. Yet men still predominate in the corporate world. In The Confidence Code, Claire Shipman and Katty Kay argue that the key reason is confidence.

Combining cutting-edge research in genetics, gender, behavior, and cognition - with examples from their own lives and those of other successful women in politics, media, and business - Kay and Shipman go beyond admonishing women to "lean in". Instead, they offer the inspiration and practical advice women need to close the gap and achieve the careers they want and deserve.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying reference material will be available in your My Library section along with the audio.

©2014 Katty Kay and Claire Shipman (P)2014 HarperCollins Publishers

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    Alexandra 05-11-14
    Alexandra 05-11-14 Member Since 2014
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    "Well-written, unclear how actionable"

    I enjoyed listening to The Confidence Code, but afterwards when I tried to think of what I'd do differently, I came up empty-handed. This may be because I'm not quite the right audience. While I found the parts of the book that painted lack of confidence as a real issue very compelling, I didn't take away too many next steps for my own life, except perhaps "Call out women you see doing these things." Since I can't change my genes, and can't get a different mother, I'd have liked more clear-cut To Do's for the already-adult. It's possible they were there and I missed them, but I listened to the book twice to be sure, and nothing jumped out at me on the second runthrough. That said, I'm very grateful they wrote the book because it does such a good job of drawing attention to the very real issue.

    5 of 5 people found this review helpful
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    Megan Hewins Spokane, Washington USA 06-23-14
    Megan Hewins Spokane, Washington USA 06-23-14 Member Since 2013
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    I read the teaser article about this book in The Atlantic and was intrigued enough to read the actual book. I'm not a self-help or trendy non-fiction reader, so this book was quite the departure for me. However, the thesis presented in the article in the The Atlantic really resonated with me.

    As an adult whose returned to college, I often find myself appalled at the lack of confidence and agency in the young women I take classes with. Often, in many settings from school to work I find myself as the only outspoken woman in a group, and even then, I know how much confidence I lack in comparison to my male colleagues.

    I interned at a literary journal and while 70 to 80 percent of the classes, workshops and conferences for creative writing I attend are populated by women, strangely those numbers flip when it comes to who is submitting work to magazines and journals. It's strange that while the majority of writing students are female, an overwhelming majority of those who submit stories are male. It's something I've always found puzzling and concerning. But after reading this book it seems to me that a business, like writing, that involves monumental amounts of rejection, is something women in our society have not been trained to accept.

    One of the main ideas in the book is that women are not given the same opportunities as men to fail and fail often enough to become well-practiced in failure, and thus when encountering failure in the real world for the first time as adults, we shrink back and learn we can't fail if we don't try. Which becomes learned helplessness. Women learn to only go for sure-bets and keep reinforcing their lack of confidence by avoiding failure. The book posits that failure, and lots of it, is a necessary building block of confidence.

    I wish a lot attitudes and ideas in this book were not true. It was disheartening to realize how much we as women tend to work against ourselves and our success in order to be considered "good girls." There are three things I will take away from this book and internalize for life. Fail harder, stop ruminating, and own my success - I will never again credit luck for what I have achieved.

    There are no great epiphany "ah-ha!" moments here, but rather confirmation backed up by scientific studies on why we, as women, lag behind once we leave the sheltered world of school to the business environment. But the book is quick to note, as well, that it's not as easy as Leaning In, because self-assertive women at work are labeled as aggressive bitches. And for this, the book has no solutions, save some very wide platitudes about blending male and female qualities to succeed in the workplace. And that is a very nuanced process that would probably take up another book.

    Great read if you have a daughter, work with girls, or if you're doing everything right, but not getting ahead at work and can't figure out why.

    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    Christy 08-11-14
    Christy 08-11-14

    Nonfiction writer by day, fiction lover by night.

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    "A disappointment"

    Having heard the authors on the radio, I wanted to see what additional wisdom I could glean from listening to the whole book. I could barely make it through (and skipped a lot). The information was repetitive and laboriously presented. Worse, the book focused on the problem and spent little time talking about solutions. I guess I wanted more of a "what can we do about this" book rather than a "here's the problem" book.

    The other problem was the narrator. Her high-pitched, lispy voice drove me a little nuts and didn't seem to fit the tone of the subject. I could hear her doing, for example, a YA novel, but this didn't seem like a good fit.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Yolanda 01-27-15
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    I have already Recommended the book to of my friends many- excellent book. Even my husband loved it!good reading.

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    Audrey 01-20-15
    Audrey 01-20-15 Member Since 2013
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    Goodv information but would have liked more of an action plan for developing my more confidec;E.

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    Kimberly Chicago, IL USA 01-16-15
    Kimberly Chicago, IL USA 01-16-15 Member Since 2012

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    Great information about confidence. The science behind it and the way the environment influences us. Primarily from the female perspective but applicable for men.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Shelly 08-26-14
    Shelly 08-26-14
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    If you could sum up The Confidence Code in three words, what would they be?

    Great for Women!


    What did you like best about this story?

    I enjoyed how the authors used interviews as well as scientific studies to back up their writing.


    What about Sandy Rustin’s performance did you like?

    I like how she wasn't monotone. Felt like I was reading the book aloud.


    Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

    The entire book!


    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Herstory buff San Antonio, Texas 06-18-14
    Herstory buff San Antonio, Texas 06-18-14 Member Since 2013

    biography fan

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    What made the experience of listening to The Confidence Code the most enjoyable?

    There were good ideas for women to consider about their own lives --getting on track and staying on track.


    Would you recommend The Confidence Code to your friends? Why or why not?

    Yes, but it is not a terribly exciting read.


    Have you listened to any of Sandy Rustin’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

    never have listened to her before.


    What insight do you think you’ll apply from The Confidence Code?

    The acknowledgement of how important confidence is to a woman's career and how her confidence is strikingly different from men's cultural upbringing. That information was interesting and insightful.


    Any additional comments?

    A good book to add to your reading list if you like success in business, etc., for women stories and feminism.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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