©2001 Robert Greene and Joost Elfers; (P)2001 HighBridge Company
"[Greene's] literary survey is fascinating." (Booklist)
The tone of the voice of the narrator is like he is about to tell a great secret, this tone he maintains throughout the whole book, this makes the books sound monotonous. Even though points are well illustrated, they do not stick in your mind, nor are interesting.
I liked this book and found it interesting. I would recommend it if you like learning about why people do what they do or act the way that they act. I listened twice and I am thinking about listening again. It wasn't too long or too short and was able to get a lot of information in between.
Everything explained here is self-evident. The author is simply putting words to describe what most people subconsciously do. Yes, the techniques can be misused by heartless psychopaths, but seducing somebody doesn't automatically equate to harming them. This is basically about flirting and attracting. If you are pursuing a man/woman, with long term intentions of forming a loving relationship, these techniques will be much more effective than passively waiting around or day dreaming about your crush. The words in here sound harsh and sometimes creepy, but that's how the author describes a primordial, harsh, subconscious nature that all humans share (whether you like to acknowledge it or not).
"The Ultimate Seducer" or "The Ideal Lover"
This book is captivating, i have never seen a book that grabs my attention. it gives me so much information and understanding of the behavior of both males and females and the act of seduction. I have completely been educated in the actions and roles of the female attitude towards my behavior and reactions to their gestures. the plots and schemes men and women go through to attain the roles of the ultimate seducer is miraculous. I have discovered the type of seducer i am and what i should do to improve my game as an Ideal lover, although in this time and age various methods may be a bit drastic or outrageous but to become an ultimate seducer, nothing tried, nothing done.
I found it to be a well-narrated audiobook that helps the listener absorb the content without getting bored. Contentwise it has an amoral stance but provides insight into the types of seducers and methods they employ.
I enjoyed the book, for the first couple hours of reading. Then it because quite repetitious and just plain boring. The author makes some good points early on but then spends the whole rest of the book trying to build a case which cannot be convincing to even a moderately intelligent individual.
Then this book is for you! Yes, unpredictability and mystery is sometimes alluring in a hook-up/partner, but in moderation. People of substance (the people we Audible.com members WANT to hook-up with, right?) will identify and RUN from Greene's paper-thin manipulations! If you are legitimately as emotionally isolated as this book suggests you should be to "ensnare" someone (i.e. drive them insane), then you're probably naturally employing its tactics. If not, is it really possible or necessary to FAKE emotional unavailability and disinterest? Sounds like crazytalk to me.
However, the narrator gives a good performance- but seems to channel the voiceovers on Haunted Mansion ride at Disneyland. I also enjoyed the historiography/typology of legendary seducers, very interesting connections! But the "advice" derived from the analysis is weak-minded and cheap, in my opinion.
This is a very very good book. It explains different types of people and helps the reader understand how people think. It is always a game and those the play the game the best turn out on top. This book teaches how you can get the most out of your relationships but most importantly it teaches the reader how you can get over that intial hump of uncertainty that starts every relationship.
I like business books and other non-fiction books that help me learn new skills I can apply at work and in life. Read sci-fi sometimes too.
Though well written, this book isn't very informative. The information given would be common sense to most. Add that to a monotone narrator and overall this was a bore. Kept listening hoping it would get better and eventuall teach me something, but alas, no....
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