What Comes Next and How to Like It

A Memoir

By: Abigail Thomas

Narrated by: Abigail Thomas

From the best-selling author of A Three Dog Life, which "shines with honest intelligence" (Elizabeth Gilbert): a fresh, exhilarating, superbly written memoir about aging, family, creativity, tragedy, friendship, and the richness of life.

What comes next? What comes after the devastating loss of Abigail's husband, a process both sudden and slow? What form does her lifelong platonic friendship take after a certain line is crossed? How to cope with her daughter's diagnosed illness? Or the death of her beloved dog? Is life worth living without three cocktails before dinner? How do you paint the ocean on a sheet of glass?

And how to like it? How to accept, appreciate, enjoy? Who are our most trusted, valuable companions, and what will we do for them? Instead of painting an ocean, paint a forest, turn it over, scrape the surface, and presto: There is the ocean. When you've given up, when you least expect it, there it is.

What Comes Next and How to Like It is an extraordinarily moving memoir about many things, but at the center is a steadfast friendship between Abigail Thomas and a man she met 35 years ago. Through marriages, child raising, the vicissitudes and tragedies of life, it is this deep, rich bond that has sustained her. Listeners who loved "the perfectly honed observations of a clear-eyed and witty writer" (Newsweek) in Thomas' "spare, astonishing" (Entertainment Weekly) memoir, A Three Dog Life, will relish this beautiful examination of her life today - often solitary but rich and engaging, with children, grandchildren, dogs, a few suitors, and her longtime best friend.

©2015 Abigail Thomas (P)2015 Simon & Schuster

Critic reviews

"Abigail Thomas reads to listeners with the unrehearsed emotion of a chance meeting with an old friend." (AudioFile)

I loved every minute of it

I love the tiny chapters, each with its own morsel of thought-provoking questions… and wisdom… and humor… and wonder.. and joy.

Wonderful

Loved the story and loved the author’s voice.
I wish more of her books were available on audible!

not sure what I expected

anyone weirder in the head than I should probably not be writing books... a little too much like looking in a mirror

Raw truths

Abigail Thomas writes with an economy of words and the fullness of a heart wide open.
I am grateful to have found her writings.

Flight of Ideas

I loved A Three Dog Life, the author's previously published memoir. I found it honest, deeply thoughtful and compelling. I had high hopes that What Comes Next might pick up where that book left off and continue along the same lines. No such luck.

Instead this book is jumpy, nervous, scattered and almost flighty. There are 150 short chapters in a book that only lasts 3 hours and 13 minutes. Some of these chapters last only one minute or really a sentence or two. It is very jarring, random and disconnected.

But worse than this--the whole feeling of the book puts the reader into the awful position of being the third wheel at lunch with two old best friends. These best friends laugh and argue about things that happened over their 30+ year friendship while you, the reader, just sit and listen. There is no attempt to include you, fill in detail as they speak in best friend "code" finishing each others cryptic sentences having a good laugh.

It left me cold, confused and excluded from a book that I think the author wrote for herself alone. No reader needed here. Sorry I wasted my time on this one.