Blending literature and memoir, Ann Patchett, author of State of Wonder and Bel Canto examines her deepest commitments: to writing, family, friends, dogs, books, and her husband in This is the Story of a Happy Marriage. Together, these essays, previously published in The Atlantic, Harper, Vogue, and The Washington Post, form a resonant portrait of a life lived with loyalty and with love.
This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage takes us into the very real world of Ann Patchett's life. Stretching from her childhood to the present day, from a disastrous early marriage to a later happy one, it covers a multitude of topics, including relationships with family and friends, and charts the hard work and joy of writing, and the unexpected thrill of opening a bookstore.
As she shares stories of the people, places, ideals, and art to which she has remained indelibly committed, Ann Patchett brings into focus the large experiences and small moments that have shaped her as a daughter, wife, and writer.
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"Readable and candid, Patchett’s collection is a joyful celebration of life, love and the written word." (Kirkus Reviews)
"Reading Patchett is like spending time with a deeply perceptive longtime pal, or a new friend that one instantly connects with." (USA Today)
"[A] sparkling collection." (The New Yorker)
Mother, knitter, reader, lifelong learner, technical writer, former library assistant & hematologist.
This is the Story of a Happy Marriage is everything other reviewers have said, and more. It’s a wonderfully-written and varied collection of Ann Patchett’s essays, ranging from musings about how she considered joining the Los Angeles Police Dept. in order to write about it and how she is influenced by her father, a retired LAPD police captain, to her feelings about her dog Rose and Sister Nena, the nun that taught her to read and write, to the eloquent and moving account of caring for her grandmother during her progression into dementia.
I’ve read and enjoyed (with reservations) several of Patchett’s novels. Bel Canto was great but I hated the ending, and I liked State of Wonder, except for some of the more ludicrous plot points. I personally found this collection of essays much more engrossing than any of her novels that I’ve read. She can write about almost anything, revealing thoughts, emotions, and advice without becoming preachy and overbearing.
I was completely unaware of Lucy Grealy, Patchett’s long-term friendship with her, and the controversies arising from their relationship. I’m very tempted to read Patchett’s Truth and Beauty to delve into this further, and may do that after I’ve had some time to digest the essay from Grealy’s sister in The Guardian. I’m hoping that Patchett will further show, as she did in this collection, that there are often quite a few ways of viewing a situation, and one absolute truth does not always exist.
I do have to thank Ann Patchett for leading me to an epiphany. In “Love Sustained”, she writes about the long and painful decline of her grandmother Eva:
“My grandmother had spent her life taking care of other people, cooking their food, cleaning their houses. It was her proof that she was valuable in the world. Now I cleaned my grandmother's apartment, which hurt her every single time. My cleaning was an accusation, no matter how quietly I went about it.”
When I read “It was her proof that she was valuable in the world.”, I gained a much better understanding of my dear mother-in-law. She raised five children with lots of hard work and no time to herself. Now that she has too much time to herself, she is missing that visible proof that she is valuable in the world. I could see her so clearly in that one simple sentence. I’m grateful for this entertaining and elucidative collection of essays that was a pleasure to read, and even more so when read by the author in the audio version.
I went to see David Sedaris on his last tour and he usually has a book recommendation and this time it was this book. Huzzah.
Well I tried to like it. I even listened to it twice, no luck. She shouldn't narrate her books.
It just went on and on. Her voice drove me crazy,sorry,
Ann Patchett at her finest. Real and surprising, funny, touching and honest. Each piece engaging in its own way. I learned so much, about writing, about what it's like to go through the police academy in LA, own an indie bookstore, love a nun, stand up and speak out in the face of criticism, and yes, have a happy marriage. Some of it is repetitive because of the nature of the collection. This is work collected over the years. Highly recommended.
Ann Patchett is a natural storyteller. Up until this point I had only read her fiction. This is the Story of a Happy Marriage are essays. At first glance I thought, oh, I'm not sure I'm going to like that. But from the first essay I read, I couldn't get enough. Stories of her life, her husband, being a divorced woman, her dog... Are all enchanting. Reading her stories is like sitting down with your best friend in learning about her life. Absolutely delightful. I'd recommend it to anyone. Thank you Ann Patchett for writing this book!
I felt that Ms Patchett made her voice more southern and therefore more racially profiled as she read. It sways her audience. Not allowing the listener come to their own conclusions about attitude.
l was familiar with Ann Patchett as a writer but this is my first chance to hear her words. What an insightful and inspiring writer! These short stories will not disappoint!
Nice collection spanning several years. Loved the essays about her dog, Rose, moved by her writing about relationship. Good read
Her voice is soothing and she tells the stories of her life in lovely prose. I enjoyed every minute. She is a gifted writer.
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