Things I've Been Silent About

By: Azar Nafisi

Narrated by: Naila Azad

Length: 13 hrs and 27 mins

Publisher's summary

"I started making a list in my diary titled “Things I Have Been Silent About.” Under it I wrote: 'Falling in Love in Tehran. Going to Parties in Tehran. Watching the Marx Brothers in Tehran. Reading Lolita in Tehran.' I wrote about repressive laws and executions, about public and political abominations. Eventually I drifted into writing about private betrayals, implicating myself and those close to me in ways I had never imagined." (from Things I Have Been Silent About)

Azar Nafisi, author of the beloved international best seller Reading Lolita in Tehran, now gives us a stunning personal story of growing up in Iran, memories of her life lived in thrall to a powerful and complex mother, against the background of a country’s political revolution. A girl’s pain over family secrets; a young woman’s discovery of the power of sensuality in literature; the price a family pays for freedom in a country beset by political upheaval - these and other threads are woven together in this beautiful memoir, as a gifted storyteller once again transforms the way we see the world and “reminds us of why we read in the first place” (Newsday).

Nafisi’s intelligent and complicated mother, disappointed in her dreams of leading an important and romantic life, created mesmerizing fictions about herself, her family, and her past. But her daughter soon learned that these narratives of triumph hid as much as they revealed. Nafisi’s father escaped into narratives of another kind, enchanting his children with the classic tales like the Shahnamah, the Persian Book of Kings. When her father started seeing other women, young Azar began to keep his secrets from her mother. Nafisi’s complicity in these childhood dramas ultimately led her to resist remaining silent about other personal, as well as political, cultural, and social, injustices.

Reaching back in time to reflect on other generations in the Nafisi family, Things I’ve Been Silent About is also a powerful historical portrait of a family that spans many periods of change leading up to the Islamic Revolution of 1978-79, which turned Azar Nafisi’s beloved Iran into a religious dictatorship. Writing of her mother’s historic term in Parliament, even while her father, once mayor of Tehran, was in jail, Nafisi explores the remarkable “coffee hours” her mother presided over, where at first women came together to gossip, to tell fortunes, and to give silent acknowledgment of things never spoken about, and which then evolved into gatherings where men and women would meet to openly discuss the unfolding revolution.

Things I’ve Been Silent About is, finally, a deeply personal reflection on women’s choices, and on how Azar Nafisi found the inspiration for a different kind of life. This unforgettable portrait of a woman, a family, and a troubled homeland is a stunning book that readers will embrace, a new triumph from an author who is a modern master of the memoir.

©2008 Azar Nafisi (P)2008 Books on Tape

Critic reviews

"Absorbing...a testament to the ways in which narrative truth-telling - from the greatest works of literature to the most intimate family stories - sustains and strengthens us.” (O: The Oprah Magazine)

“A gifted storyteller with a mastery of Western literature, Nafisi knows how to use language both to settle scores and to seduce.” (New York Times Book Review)

“An immensely rewarding and beautifully written act of courage, by turns amusing, tender and obsessively dogged.” (Kirkus Reviews, starred review)

Interesting story and very well-done!

The story was so engaging and interesting to hear. The author did a wonderful job illustrating her life in a time of Iranian history which Islamic revolution is about to happen. I only wished that the book had a professional narrator who could spell names right and not as ridiculously as she did in this version. Really had a negative effect on the flow of story line.

Family portrait in the frame of history

Love the book like I love two other books by the author ; food for thoughts and soul.

I was transported to another world.

Story is beautifully narrated. It carries so many family dynamics that transcend culture and are more about human dynamic.