The Perils of Cyber-Dating
Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online
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Julie Spira
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Julie Spira
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This newly revised audiobook edition includes bonus dating advice and an epilogue, complete with a magical twist and a fairytale ending that will warm your heart and make you believe in love. This romantic tell-all memoir spanning over 250 online dates is filled with heartfelt, witty, and hilarious stories. Julie Spira, a pioneer in the Internet industry and America's top online dating expert, became the first on her block to post an online dating profile. You'll follow her journey as she skillfully navigates the Web, hoping to replace what she once thought was the love of her life with a new Internet mate.
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- W. M. McKibben
- 04-22-17
Funny, informative and courageous!
I met Julie professionally circa 1980, so her story is uniquely.intertwined with my own memories of our evolving, decades long friendship. We work in the same industry, but hearing her courageous personal tale has given new respect for her wisdom, courage and wit. I thoroughly enjoyed this memoir and applaud Julie for successfully reinventing herself. I'm very proud to be in her circle of friends.
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- leilita
- 02-23-16
Witty & Engaging
Once I started listening to "Perils of Cyber-Dating" I was hooked. The story is witty, engaging and the tone set by the author - who reads the book - is friendly and affable. It felt as if I was talking to my "girlfriends who lunch out"
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