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Not That Kind of Girl Audiobook

Not That Kind of Girl: A Young Woman Tells You What She's 'Learned'

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Publisher's Summary

For readers or listeners of Nora Ephron, Tina Fey, and David Sedaris, this hilarious, poignant, and extremely frank collection of personal essays confirms Lena Dunham - the acclaimed creator, producer, and star of HBO's Girls - as one of the brightest and most original writers working today.

"If I can take what I've learned in this life and make one treacherous relationship or degrading job easier for you, perhaps even prevent you from becoming temporarily vegan, then every misstep of mine will have been worthwhile. This book contains stories about wonderful nights with terrible boys and terrible days with wonderful friends, about ambition and the two existential crises I had before the age of twenty. About fashion and its many discontents. About publicly sharing your body, having to prove yourself in a meeting full of fifty-year-old men, and the health fears (tinnitus, lamp dust, infertility) that keep me up at night. I'm already predicting my future shame at thinking I had anything to offer you with this book, but also my future glory in having stopped you from trying an expensive juice cleanse or having the kind of sexual encounter where you keep your sneakers on. No, I am not a sexpert, a psychologist, or a registered dietician. I am not a married mother of three or the owner of a successful hosiery franchise. But I am a girl with a keen interest in self-actualization, sending hopeful dispatches from the front lines of that struggle."

©2014 Lena Dunham (P)2014 Random House Audio

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    Amazon Customer 10-06-14
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    "Some interesting parts, but on the whole... meh"
    Would you recommend this book to a friend? Why or why not?

    I would recommend this book to an angsty, self-involved millennial friend with an obsession for journaling and oversharing. To other friends I may recommend the clever, hilarious autobiographies of Rachel Dratch, Tina Fey, Mindy Kaling and others.


    What do you think your next listen will be?

    Amy Poehler's autobiography (not out yet).


    What does Lena Dunham bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    I always like listening to autobiographies in the author's own voice. It feels like I am a priest at a very weird confessional.


    Do you think Not That Kind of Girl needs a follow-up book? Why or why not?

    Maybe a book that covers her more mature years? She will probably be a very interesting 50-60 year old. Right now, maybe it was a little...silly?


    Any additional comments?

    I didn't much love the book, but I liked that Lena Dunham just went for it. She's a hot mess in many of her stories and she knows it. But by her own admission, she doesn't particularly mind getting naked in front of a camera, so I guess this is the literary version of that. She's a good writer, and many times I liked her turn of phrase. But it was all a little too self conscious for me to feel really engaged.

    I felt like an old biddy constantly rolling my eyes at one or another of Dunham's blandishments about sex or the state of her emotional health.

    17 of 17 people found this review helpful
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    Brie Stoll Houston 10-07-14
    Brie Stoll Houston 10-07-14 Member Since 2016

    Brie

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    What did you like best about Not That Kind of Girl? What did you like least?

    I remember reading " Bossy Pants" and being delighted from the very first moment. This Book is the opposite of that. It is mostly a sad mosh-mash of psychosis. a young woman that spends most of her time worrying about things that don't make a bit of sense. Filled to the brim with sexual problems, true tales of sex that are not sexy or funny but like walking in on your parents. At the end you just kind of think " well, that just happened" and if you are me , wish you had just waited for the Amy Poehler book.


    What could Lena Dunham have done to make this a more enjoyable book for you?

    Give a little more and a little less. I wanted to hear about how she got noticed, how she made her show , her movies , something about the success and a little less about dysfunctional sex and fear of everything.


    What didn’t you like about Lena Dunham’s performance?

    It was ok .. It wasn't terrible.


    Was Not That Kind of Girl worth the listening time?

    not for me .


    Any additional comments?

    If you grew up very rich, overly analyzed and a little bit sad , this might make you happy.

    49 of 52 people found this review helpful
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    oldmanwagner 11-13-14 Member Since 2011
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    "excessive privilege = mighty entitlement"
    Is there anything you would change about this book?

    The lack of focus and the lists, my goodness the lists. While perhaps a workable trope in a written book, in a performed work they're just tedious and unhelpful.


    What was most disappointing about Lena Dunham’s story?

    The navel gazing, whine of it.


    What three words best describe Lena Dunham’s performance?

    I. Can't. Remember.


    If this book were a movie would you go see it?

    hell to the no. pretty sure its already I show I don't watch.


    Any additional comments?

    don't buy this book.

    17 of 18 people found this review helpful
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    Kim Smith 10-24-14
    Kim Smith 10-24-14 Listener Since 2009

    K Smith

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    What disappointed you about Not That Kind of Girl?

    I like the show "Girls" and was interested in learning more about the creative force behind the show. I'm a bit older--middle age--and don't believe I was the target demographic for the book. Rather than learning about a creative young person, I found it very self obsessed. I didn't feel like any real insights were shared in the book.


    Would you ever listen to anything by Lena Dunham again?

    No


    Would you be willing to try another one of Lena Dunham’s performances?

    No


    If you could play editor, what scene or scenes would you have cut from Not That Kind of Girl?

    All of them


    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
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    MC 10-07-14
    MC 10-07-14 Member Since 2016
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    "Waste of a credit..."
    What disappointed you about Not That Kind of Girl?

    This is a memoir of a pretentious 20-something who led a very uneventful life. Why a life like her's warrants a memoir, I do not know.
    She never addresses how she became successful. She spends an entire mind-numbing chapter (about 20 minutes) listing her food diary. I think she expected her OCD and sexual issues/escapades to be funny, like in a David Sedaris novel. Unfortunately, Lena Dunham is not half the writer that David Sedaris is.


    Who would you have cast as narrator instead of Lena Dunham?

    Anyone else. Her habit of whining or turning every phrase up at the end (like a question) was very off-putting. I thought that was a character choice on Girls. No, she is really that annoying.


    45 of 52 people found this review helpful
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    Tara 11-17-14
    Tara 11-17-14
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    This book wasn’t for you, but who do you think might enjoy it more?

    So upset that I wasted a credit on this terrible book.


    Any additional comments?

    So boring. I can't believe this is a best seller.

    10 of 11 people found this review helpful
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    Anne 08-16-15
    Anne 08-16-15 Member Since 2014
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    "don't waste your time and money"
    How could the performance have been better?

    Exclude the entire chapter where she recites her caloric intake, which had no follow up meaning.


    What reaction did this book spark in you? Anger, sadness, disappointment?

    Annoyance


    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    Emily Brooke Lund 11-09-14 Member Since 2015
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    "I'm not the kind of girl for this kind of book"
    This book wasn’t for you, but who do you think might enjoy it more?

    People who enjoy over-sharing pointless stories about their life


    Would you ever listen to anything by Lena Dunham again?

    highly unlikely


    You didn’t love this book... but did it have any redeeming qualities?

    relate-able on some levels when it comes to how women over obsess about weightloss and what we put in our mouths.


    Any additional comments?

    It disturbs me that so many people enjoyed this book...maybe it reads better than it listens. Lena was not a good narrator to her own stories sadly.

    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    Emily 12-02-14
    Emily 12-02-14
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    "Confusing & no storyline"
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    Way too sexual, awkward and sad. I would not recommend this. There is no "lesson" being taught and now I know her uncomfortable sex history and I wish I didn't...

    9 of 10 people found this review helpful
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    Mercedes Quilmes, Argentina 01-15-15
    Mercedes Quilmes, Argentina 01-15-15 Member Since 2014

    Graphic designer and University professor. I love comics and to be always learning something new!

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    "Not THAT great"

    I think it is not an amazing book although it represents her line of humor the writing is too repetitive, too full of herself for me..

    3 of 3 people found this review helpful

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