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My Korean Deli: Risking It All for a Convenience Store | [Ben Ryder Howe]

My Korean Deli: Risking It All for a Convenience Store

This sweet and funny tale of a preppy editor buying a Brooklyn deli with his Korean in-laws is about family, culture clash, and the quest for authentic experiences. It starts with a gift. When Ben Ryder Howe’s wife, the daughter of Korean immigrants, decides to repay her parents’ self-sacrifice by buying them a store, Howe, an editor at the rarefied Paris Review, agrees to go along.
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Audible Editor Reviews

Bronson Pinchot's narration of Ben Ryder Howe's snarky story of the pitfalls of small business ownership truly makes this offbeat memoir come alive. Not only does Pinchot do an incredible job with Howe's own sarcastic, funny voice, he also manages to provide ample spice to characters as diverse as Kay, Howe's sassy Korean mother-in-law; Dwayne, a quirky deli clerk with a penchant for strange weaponry; and George Plimpton, the famed eccentric literary personality.

When Howe's wife, Gab, sets out to buy a deli for her first-generation immigrant mother as a token of appreciation for her personal determination and sacrifice, things get a bit madcap. Because of this, My Korean Deli ends up being a light-hearted look at leading a peculiar kind of double life. After all, there's something delightful about a story that interweaves the purchase and operation of a family-run bodega in Brooklyn with a part-time editorship at The Paris Review, Howe's day job. After his boss, George Plimpton, warns him of the dangers of duel identity — specifically that one side of his existence will always be threatening to swallow up the other, Howe begins to delve deeper into his own personal values. The book gets meta when he starts to examine different modes of achievement in American culture, pitting the puritanical over-thinking of the author's New England upbringing against the aggressive, DIY ethos of his wife's family. Ultimately, he mostly opts for the latter in life, dedicating himself to the immigrant-run deli and, in a more haute way, the slapdash but impressive Paris Review.

Howe finds a way to balance the big ideas with clever, laugh-out-loud anecdotes. Some of the more hilarious moments come as dispatches from the deli itself, as he is forced to get right with the rowdy regulars, navigate a massive corner-store supply outlet with his cheeky mother-in-law, or come to legal blows with various state regulatory agencies.

There are also more than a few poignant moments, including Plimpton's death, Kay's health issues, and the downward spiral of treasured employee and revered neighborhood character Dwayne. These serve to temper the mood and illustrate that, even in the deli, there are life lessons to be learned. —Gina Pensiero

Publisher's Summary

This sweet and funny tale of a preppy editor buying a Brooklyn deli with his Korean in-laws is about family, culture clash, and the quest for authentic experiences.

It starts with a gift. When Ben Ryder Howe’s wife, the daughter of Korean immigrants, decides to repay her parents’ self-sacrifice by buying them a store, Howe, an editor at the rarefied Paris Review, agrees to go along. Things soon become a lot more complicated.

After the business struggles, Howe finds himself living in the basement of his in-laws’ Staten Island home, commuting to the Paris Review offices in George Plimpton’s Upper East Side townhouse by day, and heading to Brooklyn to slice cold cuts and peddle lottery tickets by night.

My Korean Deli follows the store’s tumultuous life span, and along the way paints the portrait of an extremely unlikely partnership between characters with shoots across society, from the Brooklyn streets to Seoul to Puritan New England. Owning the deli becomes a transformative experience for everyone involved as they struggle to salvage the original gift—and the family—while sorting out issues of values, work, and identity.

©2010 Ben Ryder Howe (P)2011 Blackstone Audio, Inc.

What the Critics Say

My Korean Deli is…about love, culture clashes, family, money, and literature. Plus, it happens to be very funny and poignant.” (A. J. Jacobs, New York Times best-selling author)

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    Stuart Hendersonville, NC, United States 11-22-11
    Stuart Hendersonville, NC, United States 11-22-11 Member Since 2004

    I like a variety of reading. Favorites: Prayer for Owen Meany Dragon Tattoos Candide by Voltaire, one of the great books! Hiiason

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    I liked the story and the telling. By the end, however, the author was such a weakling who caved in to each and every character in the book, I simply disliked the guy. I'm surprised the man had the courage to write the book at all.

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    J. Patrello McKinney Texas 09-29-11
    J. Patrello McKinney Texas 09-29-11 Member Since 2009

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    "Perfect!"

    What a great book! I was amazed at just how great this book was. What a great story teller! So interesting and funny in so many ways. Fun to hear about the many trials and tribulations that happen in trying to get going with the deli business. Neat to hear about the real-life family struggles that we all deal with.
    Lots of interesting people/customers to hear about. You feel like you're right there in the deli. I loved the hearing about George Plimpton too. He was a neat man and the book shows that. Narrating was as good as you get!

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    "Sometimes Hilarious, Other Times Boring"

    The book could use some good editing because the author rambles occasionally.

    I think that he misses out on what could be some very insightful commentary on Asian culture.

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    Tim United States 05-16-11 Member Since 2010

    My reviews are honest. No sugar coating here.

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    I'm a bit disappointed with this book because as a first generation American Korean, I was hoping to learn more of the Korean culture, but instead the book is a memoir of the author looking into a culture that he doesn't understand. I wanted to know more about the culture of running a business from an immigrant point of view and what challenges that they face at running their own business when English is not their native language.

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    Say something about yourself!

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    Would you try another book from Ben Ryder Howe and/or Bronson Pinchot?

    Ben Ryder Howe gives us a truly funny look into the what happens when he, an upper-crust white boy grows up to marry into an immigrant Korean family, complete with a traditional, and very commanding (and guffaw-inducing) mother-in-law. Combined with Bronson's Pinchot's always spot-on narration, this is a great little read.


    Would you ever listen to anything by Ben Ryder Howe again?

    I love good writing. Ben Ryder Howe knows good writing from his time at THE PARIS REVIEW, the country's most prestigious literary magazine. But he not only knows good writing--he is a good writer himself. I never thought I would be interested in a book about running a New York deli. It's completely out of realm of interest. Nevertheless, I couldn't put it down. I loved laughing out loud as I listened along.


    Would you be willing to try another one of Bronson Pinchot’s performances?

    When I don't know what to listen to next, I will often look to see what my favorite narrators have been up to lately. They include Edward Hermann, Arthur Morey, and th great Bronson Pinchot.


    If you could play editor, what scene or scenes would you have cut from My Korean Deli?

    Obviously, this book had a great editor because I wouldn't change a thing.


    Any additional comments?

    A perfect, quieter read for those who like well-drawn characters an some hearty laughs in their creative non-fiction.

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