A best seller in its native Canada, Drunk Mom is a gripping, brutally honest memoir of motherhood in the shadow of alcoholism.
Three years after giving up drinking, Jowita Bydlowska found herself throwing back a glass of champagne like it was ginger ale. It was a special occasion: a party celebrating the birth of her first child. It also marked Bydlowska's immediate, full-blown return to crippling alcoholism.
In the gritty and sometimes grimly comic tradition of the best-selling memoirs Lit by Mary Karr and Smashed by Koren Zailckas, Drunk Mom is Bydlowska's account of the ways substance abuse took control of her life - the binges and blackouts, the humiliations, the extraordinary risk-taking - as well as her fight toward recovery as a young mother. This courageous memoir brilliantly shines a light on the twisted logic of an addicted mind and the powerful, transformative love of one's child. Ultimately, it gives hope, especially to those struggling in the same way.
©2013 Jowita Bydlowska (P)2014 Blackstone Audio, Inc.
Buy This Book! For anyone who has ever fought an addiction, loved someone who is an alcoholic/addict or if you've just ever wondered what the heck makes someone drink to the point where they have destroyed their lives, you have to read this book. The story is of a young, nursing mother whose alcoholism slowly progresses, as most addictions inevitably do until her life has become unmanageable. She is not a lover of AA and is quite opinionated about her attempts at recovery and the lengths she will go through to hide her disease. She prides herself on her ability to function and believes herself to be a good mom. A must read for anyone who works in this field, especially CPS. Well written and well narrated.
Wife to one, mom to six, lifelong lover of books.
Like watching a train wreck. It was obvious that she was heading for disaster but I had to watch it unfold.
The heroine and author. She is brutally honest about her shortcomings and, ultimately, her comeback.
The author and her baby.
A train wreck.
I enjoyed this listen.
Jowita Bydlowska has crafted a heart-wrenching, up close, and personal portrait of the ugliness and helplessness of addiction. I related so closely to her struggles and self-loathing... why, I do not know. Maybe because her book reflects so vividly on the human condition and all its frailties and inconsistencies. Perhaps one doesn't need to be in the personal throes of addiction to still respect it and it's curiosities.
I am upset by negative reviews of Drunk Mom because I can't understand how anyone could read this book and not feel compassion for and celebrate the raw difficult truthfulness that Jowita successfully captured and shared with us. The book is not only a beautiful and bravely written memoire, but also a sober cautionary tale of how easy it is to sink. Thank you, Jowita, for your book.
Relentless hours of self loathing mumbles that bounce around in her head. No story line... Started strong but then lost me after chapter 8. She is very descriptive but she really had no story to tell, unless going grocery shopping and eating lunch is a story. She made some very accurate feelings ones with addition may have but there was no story to tell. Most of it is her rambling about what could potentially maybe just maybe perhaps hypothetically could be... Lol... If you listen to this you will understand that last statement. Not worth $20 but I would say that it likely would be way easier to listen to than read with all of the rambles. Good premise but needed a story.
Man oh man. Sooooo well written. Could not put it down. Fascinating. A total look at a addiction in a way I have never known or understood it before. I learned so much, I become totally obsessed with the characters.... I cannot say enough positive things about this book. Can't wait for her next book. Cannot wait.
I listened before i went to work. As soon as i got home two days in a row. Thanks audible. As a busy mom i never would have had the time to sit and read it. Thanks CBC for recommending it.
Yes. I have to say that I admire the author's willingness to reveal herself, warts and all, in this book. There is something courageous here, even if not exactly admirable. She definitely lets the reader into the repetitive thought processes of the addict...there is a rinse, wash, repeat quality that non-addicts might find absolutely maddening. That said, if you have ever found yourself addicted to anything, this will all seem achingly familiar.
Blackout by Sarah Hepola. Drinking: A Love Story by Caroline Knapp. These are books written by women, and are similar in terms of style/content/personal honesty.
I did listen to this more or less in one sitting. It definitely captured my attention..the author's self-destructive streak was fascinating, and there was an element of real danger to her drinking -- blackouts and all -- that made the whole thing compelling.
I was initially afraid to pick this one up because I thought it fell into that cutes-y and tiresome "Moms who drink cocktails in the middle of the day while their baby cries it out in the other room" genre. It doesn't. This is a complicated woman who drinks for reasons she can't quite understand. If you are prone to judging moms for their shortcomings, this one might drive you around the bend. If you like to think about the ways in which love can sometimes fail to transform us though, this is definitely a worthwhile listen. And FWIW, the narrator does a great job here...she embodies the author's voice and the tone of the work in a way that feels seamless.
I have tried to listen to this several times and the monotone nature of the narrators voice lulls me into sleep. There's no change in the voice from chapter to chapter and it's difficult to follow. I keep waiting for the book to really go somewhere as well, but it's just depressing!!!
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