At the end of her best-selling memoir Eat, Pray, Love, Elizabeth Gilbert fell in love with Felipe, a Brazilian-born man of Australian citizenship who'd been living in Indonesia when they met. Resettling in America, the couple swore eternal fidelity to each other, but also swore to never, ever, under any circumstances get legally married. (Both were survivors of previous bad divorces. Enough said.)
But providence intervened one day in the form of the United States government, which - after unexpectedly detaining Felipe at an American border crossing - gave the couple a choice: they could either get married, or Felipe would never be allowed to enter the country again. Having been effectively sentenced to wed, Gilbert tackled her fears of marriage by delving into this topic completely, trying with all her might to discover through historical research, interviews, and much personal reflection what this stubbornly enduring old institution actually is.
Told with Gilbert's trademark wit, intelligence and compassion, Committed attempts to "turn on all the lights" when it comes to matrimony, frankly examining questions of compatibility, infatuation, fidelity, family tradition, social expectations, divorce risks, and humbling responsibilities. Gilbert's memoir is ultimately a clear-eyed celebration of love with all the complexity and consequence that real love, in the real world, actually entails.
©2010 Elizabeth Gilbert; (P)2010 Penguin
A very nice book to listen to.
I would recommend it to folks who are also thinking of getting married.
There is a moment in the book where Elizabeth details to her betrothed all of her neurotic faults and failings. He accepts her. If you can do the same thing and get over her fraught tone and neurotic over-thinking then you will also love this thoughtful book about the benefits and liabilities of conventional and unconventional marriage.
Liz brings interesting insights into feminism, marriage, relationships and self-awareness in a humorous and enjoyable read. It is a 'self help' book with a great narrative.
I love Elizabeth's writing. She is so personal and open about her experiences and her opinions I love the real world research she includes in this book, the depth she dives into about marriage and relationships. It is an interesting perspective, very different from the way I was raised, but I appreciate new opinions and ideas. I think this will offer some good insight to anyone who is deeply in love, wanting to get engaged or even already married like myself. Different from the first book, but I enjoyed a new read from Elizabeth. I hope she does more in the future.
I love this continue story of Liz and Felipe and how they ended up breaking their rule of no marriage. It was interesting to me as I thought as well I would never get married again but here I go. To here her talk about how she is a skeptic of marriage really resonated with me. While listening to the story I would catch myself calling my boyfriend Darling just as Felipe calls Liz.
It was very satisfying to hear the continued story of Liz and Felipe; after listening to Eat, Pray, Love. With Love being my favorite part I was left wonder just what happened to them. Additionally I loved the anthropological aspect to the story, I learned so much about marriage and how it varies all over the world yet in many respects is the same. It gave me some food for thought on my up coming marriage to my beloved. While I am sure it was not ment to be a self help book it did have that effect somewhat on me.
Possibly, to review the history of marriage that she presents.
Most interesting: learning about the history of marriage and the possible factors that have caused its decline in America.
She is an excellent writer and very easy to listen to.
I am happily married and fully believe in marriage as a sacred sacrament, but listened to this book to help myself understand what so many people have against marriage these days. It helped, though I do have hope that the author finds peace in marriage as a beautiful form of lifelong committment.
We've heard a lot lately about the sanctity of marriage. Gilbert embarks on an unintended round the world quest to figure out what is this thing we call marriage, where did it come from and what will it mean for her.
Committed is a very different book than Eat, Pray, Love, however, it is just as good. That said, I would only recommend this book to people who are interested in learning about marriage - how it came to be, how the church got involved, etc.
Elizabeth Gilbert does a good job interviewing people from other cultures about marriage. Those parts were very interesting. However, I was so tired and annoyed of the author's liberal rants about every social issue under the sun. It took away from the enjoyment of the book. I really liked "Eat, Pray, Love" but this book is a serious let down. The author over analyzes every aspect of life and marriage to the point of annoyance.
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