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  • Stories I Only Tell My Friends

  • An Autobiography
  • By: Rob Lowe
  • Narrated by: Rob Lowe
  • Length: 9 hrs and 10 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (13,887 ratings)

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Stories I Only Tell My Friends

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Editorial reviews

Prepare to be amazed by the many ways this book and its author are better than you thought they would be. Everybody knows that Rob Lowe is very handsome, and that he spent a long time being a Hollywood wild child. Now in his 40s, Lowe’s reflections on his life thus far demonstrate a remarkably responsible perspective and a refreshingly self-deprecating look at how he ended up in the better state of mind he inhabits today. While the headlines and high notes may come and go, Lowe remains a devoted husband and proud father.

This listen is a small miracle for many reasons. It’s not simply the fact that Lowe reveals himself as capable of compelling writing, which he certainly does. It’s also not merely the path of the narrative that’s intriguing, though that’s definitely the case. Whether he is spending several chapters thoroughly reminiscing about the many lessons he learned during The Outsiders or sharing a quick anecdote about trying to meet Liza Minnelli when he was a little kid, Lowe indeed offers up a terrific set of insights about both life and stardom. He proves himself as a generous spirit, with strong thanks for Martin Sheen and solid praise for Patrick Swayze.

His narration is clearly heartfelt, and never comes across as phony or acted. This listen feels like a casual dinner conversation, minus the slick descent into rumor-mongering that usually rears its ugly head in memoirs of this variety. Lowe manages to steer clear of the blame game when analyzing the simultaneous blessing and curse of the Brat Pack label or his decision to leave The West Wing, and even finds some gracious adjectives for Tom Cruise. Be on the lookout for eerily spot-on impersonations of many stars, including a particularly good Christopher Walken and Matt Dillon.

In the end, it’s hard to put a finger on what makes this book so utterly fascinating. There isn’t anything shocking in the subject matter; there isn’t any mud-flinging in the tone; there is very little that stands out as an exclamation point. Yet the total package undeniably and irresistibly triumphs at being genuinely charming. This is ironic, because the book then actually sort of mirrors Lowe’s career. He’s spent the last two decades trying to upend the idea that he is simply a pretty face. The book succeeds in that endeavor, just as his several iconic film roles have done, and yet the shallow type-casting of Rob Lowe somehow too frequently persists. It’s true that he is a very dreamy guy, but this memoir absolutely proves that he is also intelligent, worldly, witty, and political. It’s an excellent listen that ought to once and for all put an end to the notion the Rob Lowe’s charisma is only skin deep. - Megan Volpert

Publisher's summary

A wryly funny and surprisingly moving account of an extraordinary life lived almost entirely in the public eye.

A teen idol at 15, an international icon and founder of the Brat Pack at 20, and one of Hollywood's top stars to this day, Rob Lowe chronicles his experiences as a painfully misunderstood child actor in Ohio who was uprooted to the wild counterculture of mid-'70s Malibu, where he embarked on his unrelenting pursuit of a career in Hollywood.

The Outsiders placed Lowe at the birth of the modern youth movement in the entertainment industry. During his time on The West Wing, he witnessed the surreal nexus of show business and politics, both on the set and in the actual White House. And in between are deft and humorous stories of the wild excesses that marked the '80s, leading to his quest for family and sobriety.

Never mean-spirited or salacious, Lowe delivers unexpected glimpses into his successes, disappointments, relationships, and one-of-a-kind encounters with people who shaped our world over the last 25 years. These stories are as entertaining as they are unforgettable.

©2011 Robert Lowe (P)2011 Macmillan Audio

Critic reviews

"[Lowe] writes viscerally and insightfully...He looks back at the aberrant highs of his heart-throb days, the changing nature of stardom in Hollywood, the trade-off he has made between high life and home life, and the step-by-step effort behind his show business survival. He looked like the callowest kid in the "Outsiders" crew. Now he looks like the sturdiest of them all" (The New York Times)

"A fresh pop-culture history of Hollywood in the ’70s and ’80s from the point of view of the man who lived it…[Lowe] is as funny as he is thoughtful. This is the best type of celeb memoir, because its author is as interested in the world as the world is interested in him." (People Magazine)

"A lovely autobiography, equal parts dish and pathos.” (Vanity Fair)

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Great read

This was a great find and I have a new respect for Rob Lowe. Intelligently written and performed with stories you can't imagine. Loved his impersonations of other characters in the book. Wow!

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Rob Lowe's Book

I'm not sure I've gotten the whole story, but Stories I Only Tell My Friends goes back and forth about his life and how he finally became an actor. Rob had a difficult childhood, and I think it's amazing how he's managed to change his family life to be the way he wished his had been.

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great book

This was an interesting, candid, extremely well-written book! Rob Lowe should do some more writing!

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Informative & Entertaining

What did you love best about Stories I Only Tell My Friends?

Great background stories to the Hollywood headlines we all saw on the news or read about. The story of Hollywood actors sure seem removed from reality, but the way Rob told his story makes it all relate-able to the average normal american boy.

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great story teller!

Where does Stories I Only Tell My Friends rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

top rated for sure!

Which scene was your favorite?

when he partied with Michael J. Fox and their bantering!

Any additional comments?

was never really a rob lowe fan..that has since changed! great job!

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Wonderful

It eliminated most of my assumptions of ‘people’ like him, since I grew up worshiping him and the brat pack but I felt left out because I’m a second generation American. So many wonderful reminders of life’s challenges but also precious gifts in this audible performance by Mr Lowe, it rivals Elon Musk and Michael Jordan biographies!

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Excellent

Would you consider the audio edition of Stories I Only Tell My Friends to be better than the print version?

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Who was your favorite character and why?

Rob, of course

What does Rob Lowe bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

love that it was him reading it, made it more authentic

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Think he is an incrediblely honest, human being. We all have flaws and skeletins in our closets. The key theme I felt during this is a better understanding what he went through and that their is much more to the story than what the media portrays. HE was very candid and I could see how he could have got caught up in things as he did. He is human like everyone else, real and interesting, has something, a gift to share!

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Definitely worth the credit!

I have never been a fan of celebrity autobiographies; I'm generally just not that interested. So, even though I have always liked Rob Lowe's acting (especially on the West Wing), I wasn't particularly interested in this book. It was the incredible reader reviews that changed my mind, and I am so glad that I did. This book is as thoroughly charming as the author appears to be. What an incredible life he's had, and what a great storyteller he is. I'm about to go and tell all of my friends to read this book, but most of all, I'm going to recommend it to my mother, who stopped watching The West Wing when "Sam Seaborn" left. If you're interested in a life well-lived, with few regrets and lessons learned, you'll love this book.

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I thought this was going to be a guilty pleasure

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One of those books I was going to be embarrassed to admit I had read. I was wrong. This is one of the best autobiographies I've come across in a while. Rob Lowe's life has certainly been interesting. Most memorable for me was the Brat Pack period. I, too, was in my early/mid 20's during the 80's and I remember that time with fondness, how we thought we had it all figured out. I was pleasantly surprised to learn that Rob Lowe is actually quite a gifted storyteller, and his narration is outstanding. His voice is soothing, and his diction is impeccable. I would recommend listening to this book much more so than reading it, as I believe some of the essence would be lost on a mere printed page.

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Great Perspective and Beautifully Told!!

Highly recommend this autobiography. As a fan of Rob Lowe's in the 80's and even today, it was a very interesting listen. With the scandal seeking world of today, Rob Lowe's autobiography was anything but tabloid. The stories about other famous people: Emilio Estevez, Tom Cruise and Patrick Swayze just to name a few, were not scandalous, but extremely heartwarming and funny. No one except the writer himself was "thrown under the bus", as every story was told in a way that truly shows that respect of family and friends is what has made this life so remarkable. The stories are not your typical run of the mill type, but the majority leaves the listener with goosebumps, a tear, or in most cases a laugh. One of the best autobiographies I have listened to and/or read. This books certainly does not disappoint, in fact it left this listener wanting more. Rob Lowe has certainly mastered the art of story telling, a time honored tradition which has fallen by the wayside. The title alone, "Stories I only Tell my Friends" is very prolific. Afterwards, you feel as you have been brought into his inner sanctem.

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